Serendipity... or "oh fuck."

[maxwellissmart]

So... have you ever met someone in a casual or social setting, and then met them as a client or escort later? This has actually happened to me twice, and to a friend of mine—who went out with someone once or twice, lost contact, and then was hired by him later as an escort.

 

He saw him several times and was relieved that the guy never let on whether or not he knew—then he got pissed off at the idea that the guy didn't remember him at all, and so he quit seeing him (which I found hilarious).

[josephga]

once in 2006 I went out on a date with a guy worst treatment ever. this guy wants to meet for coffee. I show up he says he doesn't care for that coffee place can we drive our cars over to starbucks. when i get to starbucks he isn't there. I go into the bathroom he isn't there. then i get a message on the phone that says sorry but things won't work out at this time. I felt like shit and took it personally and didnt go on another date for over 8 months.. chemistry or not if it was on the other foot i would have stuck around it was just coffee. but over the year's i've learned this is typical of gay men in Atlanta. anyways a year after this happen he turned up as a client on my massage table didn't even remember me

[maxwellissmart]

once in 2006 I went out on a date with a guy worst treatment ever. this guy wants to meet for coffee. I show up he says he doesn't care for that coffee place can we drive our cars over to starbucks. when i get to starbucks he isn't there. I go into the bathroom he isn't there. then i get a message on the phone that says sorry but things won't work out at this time. I felt like shit and took it personally and didnt go on another date for over 8 months.. chemistry or not if it was on the other foot i would have stuck around it was just coffee. but over the year's i've learned this is typical of gay men in Atlanta. anyways a year after this happen he turned up as a client on my massage table didn't even remember me

 

I also had this happen in a non-escort setting where someone I had a huge crush on wouldn't give me the time of day. A couple of years later we hooked up via Manhunt and I fucked him but good, which of course made him fall in love with me for the next year or so. And sadly, who wasn't available anymore?

[+ poolboy48220]

It's happened to me - the guy in question met a friend for mine at a date at a bar, I chatted with him briefly there. A few months later I hired through an ad (just a print ad, this was 13-14 years ago) and it was him. Lots of fun, we hooked up many times, sometimes on a hire basis, sometimes when he was just horny. :-) It was a good if not lasting friendship/fuck buddy relationship, I lost touch with him when he moved to San Diego.

[down_to_business]

I also had this happen in a non-escort setting where someone I had a huge crush on wouldn't give me the time of day. A couple of years later we hooked up via Manhunt and I fucked him but good, which of course made him fall in love with me for the next year or so. And sadly, who wasn't available anymore?

 

Jeez Max.. you fuck so good it can make someone fall in love with you for a year? Wow. Now I need a cold shower or better yet, I will watch that 20 minute Sean Cody video from the other thread again!

 

Oh- I did hire someone 6 months after hiring him the first time, but as he didn't remember me, I pretended not to remember him. He did give me the same compliment that he gave me the first time though, which was kind of weird.

[maxwellissmart]

Jeez Max.. you fuck so good it can make someone fall in love with you for a year?

 

Yes... yes I do. One day I'd love to show you.

[gallahadesquire]

Not the same, but:

 

I had chatted with a fellow on Manhunt. We never hooked up. When I got admitted to rehab after a three-week hospitalization, who was the nurses aide who ... uh ... had to clean up my backside? Yup.

 

We never mentioned or acknowledged it.

[instudiocity]

I think the absolute weirdest moment in my life was when my MUCH younger roommate (he's in his early 30's, me in my middle 50's) brought home his NEWEST 30's hottie from the bars one Saturday night.

 

Hottie's an escort. I'm his client. I've been there, done that like 18 or 19 times. And he seemed to LOVE IT!

 

Roommate is in TOTAL EXTREME LUST over Hottie. I'm in total lust thinking of a three-way, but Rooomate don't roll with no trolls and doesn't know a) I hire, and b) Hottie's been with me!

 

Sunday morning, Hottie appears to the smell of me brewing coffee. Hottie didn't understand Roomie not only doesn't know about him but he doesn't know about me. Roommate likes to sleep in on Sunday mornings, so there I am having to send Hottie back, so Roommate can have Hottie when he wakes up...

 

Yes, it was a serendipitous OH, FUCK!

 

Hottie started to give me freebies, hoping I would give him an in with Roommate, but only until he and Roommate fall in love. Now I am CUT OFF. Serendipit-ouch!

 

Can any of you understand just how difficult it is to hear Roommate gush about how good the sex is with MY HOTTIE? Damn!

 

FYI, Roommate, my friendship and his BODY, makes Hottie, and his fucked up lifestyle, resemble a street-bum!

 

SERENDIPIDEE-FUCKED!

[maxwellissmart]

Not the same, but:

 

I had chatted with a fellow on Manhunt. We never hooked up. When I got admitted to rehab after a three-week hospitalization, who was the nurses aide who ... uh ... had to clean up my backside? Yup.

 

We never mentioned or acknowledged it.

 

I know someone that happened to recently.

[bostonman]

Not the same, but:

 

I had chatted with a fellow on Manhunt. We never hooked up. When I got admitted to rehab after a three-week hospitalization, who was the nurses aide who ... uh ... had to clean up my backside? Yup.

 

We never mentioned or acknowledged it.

 

I have had several instances where I've seen people I know on Manhunt - sometimes daring to say hi to them has been a good idea, a few times it was clear that they didn't want to be found in that way, lol. One time, as I mentioned in another thread recently, it actually turned into an intriguing "barter" situation that turned out quite well both sexually and professionally.

 

Once, in doing a set of auditions for a show, a conservatory student who had also been advertising as an escort (I think he was on Rentboy) came in to audition. Judging by the poor singing audition, I sure hope he was good as an escort, lol. (And no, I didn't let on that I had seen his ad online. No point to that - and not the time or place, lol.)

[orbital sander]

I think the absolute weirdest moment in my life was when my MUCH younger roommate (he's in his early 30's, me in my middle 50's) brought home his NEWEST 30's hottie from the bars one Saturday night.

 

Hottie's an escort. I'm his client. I've been there, done that like 18 or 19 times. And he seemed to LOVE IT!

 

Roommate is in TOTAL EXTREME LUST over Hottie. I'm in total lust thinking of a three-way, but Rooomate don't roll with no trolls and doesn't know a) I hire, and b) Hottie's been with me!

 

Sunday morning, Hottie appears to the smell of me brewing coffee. Hottie didn't understand Roomie not only doesn't know about him but he doesn't know about me. Roommate likes to sleep in on Sunday mornings, so there I am having to send Hottie back, so Roommate can have Hottie when he wakes up...

 

Yes, it was a serendipitous OH, FUCK!

 

Hottie started to give me freebies, hoping I would give him an in with Roommate, but only until he and Roommate fall in love. Now I am CUT OFF. Serendipit-ouch!

 

Can any of you understand just how difficult it is to hear Roommate gush about how good the sex is with MY HOTTIE? Damn!

 

FYI, Roommate, my friendship and his BODY, makes Hottie, and his fucked up lifestyle, resemble a street-bum!

 

SERENDIPIDEE-FUCKED!

 

Ah..this would make a great basis for a new soap opera, or a Gay themed Folgers commercial...

[BostonPhil]

Does the guy your ex cheated on you with count?

[SteveEscort]

So... have you ever met someone in a casual or social setting, and then met them as a client or escort later?

 

I have mentioned this before but I have a pub at the bottom of my road which I pop to every now and then (well once a week) but only if I am meeting a friend or friends. There is a guy who frequents there, with his wife, has a dozen friends who drink there, who has been and continues to be a client. He's called (not the real name he uses with me) Simon yet when I get to the bar his friends call him something completely different. He rarely speaks to me, he does sometimes say hello in passing but he does stare sometimes which can be annoying, like I shouldn't be there. Unfortunately I have lived here 8 years and I am not going to frequent my local because a client is uncomfortable. I frequented there before he started booking me 2 years ago.

 

He came to see me at my home knowing I was on the doorstep, I had no idea he was local so I just get on with my life and forget he is in the same bar. However.................................. when he comes to visit me for his monthly blow job he never mentions seeing me, not a word.

[+ purplekow]

Next time he is over, why not mention that you see him at the pub and he should feel confident that your business relationship will always be private.

[citylaw1]

I ran into Tommy DeLuca on the 2 train about a year ago. I said "hey man, how are you?" not being able to place where/when I met him. I then realized that I had never met him and simply recalled him from his pictures, etc. The same exact thing happened with Adrian Grenier (Entourage) on Avenue B ... he acted like a prick and gave me his cunty face.

[SteveEscort]

Next time he is over, why not mention that you see him at the pub and he should feel confident that your business relationship will always be private.

 

That's not really an option though, he's one of those chatty types. "Hi" as he comes in, "Suck it" as I am going down, "Balls", as I am sucking it and "Bye" as he leaves. His lack of interaction doesn't bother me but he's ever so chatty down the pub

[Xander]

Well, on a slightly different note, I had a client a few weeks ago who was visiting for a business professor's conference at a sister school. My school and this school offer dual degree programs with each other. As a business student, I was almost shaking as I walked by the school's hotel bar and had to keep my eyes closed in case one of my professors was there. Very awesome guy -- think he wrote of my daddysreviews, actually.