Sean Caden

[seeker630]

Yes. Another misstep by our little twink. Honestly, I suspect he isn't comfortable with new clients ... traveling with them especially. He should change his ad.

 

His ad doesn't mention any interest in travel. I guess you're suggesting an explicit disclaimer?

[citylaw1]

His ad doesn't mention any interest in travel. I guess you're suggesting an explicit disclaimer?

 

Exactly. Or, when someone texts Sean for travel inquiries he should at least mention it first, rather than play around with "how much?" and the other wasteful bullshit. If you don't travel, MENTION it. What's the harm? Only gain for him.

[bigvalboy]

It wasn't that hard ... believe me.

 

Actually I could tell that...LOL You were a smooth debater....

[jjkrkwood]

Overruled ... Sean presented direct testimony by way of video (much was learned from that video), and members (including myself, yes text is not hearsay) posted of direct experience. Sorry JJ, I know you tried.

 

If I remember correctly (and thats "iffy" cause you know I am OLD) noone had a bad Direct experience with him but YOU...... and being that you were overcome by Lust, you werent

seeing the situation as clearly. (are we at 30 pages yet ?)

[citylaw1]

Actually I could tell that...LOL You were a smooth debater....

 

I credit NYU and my mother.

[citylaw1]

Quote Originally Posted by citylaw1 View Post

Overruled ... Sean presented direct testimony by way of video (much was learned from that video), and members (including myself, yes text is not hearsay) posted of direct experience. Sorry JJ, I know you tried.

 

 

If I remember correctly (and thats "iffy" cause you know I am OLD) noone had a bad Direct experience with him but YOU...... and being that you were overcome by Lust, you werent

seeing the situation as clearly. (are we at 30 pages yet ?)

 

What on earth does this have to do with hearsay? The only negative interaction (I prefer to use specific words) other than my own is where a client attempted to book travel, and was refused. I again reiterate for the short bus ... I imagine that Sean could provide a good lay, if you are able to get that far, and navigate through the rubbish.

[citylaw1]

It's very telling that there are 4,374 views and 206 replies, yet the thread is rated 2 stars. What a bunch of bitter old queens. JJ, how many times did you vote the thread down? Be honest.

 

It amazes me that this thread has garnered so much interest, venom and contempt, yet it is hated so much. I envision flowered robe wearing gents stirring Metamucil and thinking of their next line!

[jjkrkwood]

It's very telling that there are 4,374 views and 206 replies, yet the thread is rated 2 stars. What a bunch of bitter old queens. JJ, how many times did you vote the thread down? Be honest.

 

It amazes me that this thread has garnered so much interest, venom and contempt, yet it is hated so much. I envision flowered robe wearing gents stirring Metamucil and thinking of their next line!

 

You can vote on threads ????

[seeker630]

It's very telling that there are 4,374 views and 206 replies, yet the thread is rated 2 stars. What a bunch of bitter old queens. JJ, how many times did you vote the thread down? Be honest.

 

It amazes me that this thread has garnered so much interest, venom and contempt, yet it is hated so much. I envision flowered robe wearing gents stirring Metamucil and thinking of their next line!

 

I suspect that the reasons for the low opinion are to be found in the very words you wrote above. Venom and contempt seem poor qualifications for a thread to be highly regarded.

 

And just to be clear, I'm referring more to the dueling insults between posters than to what's been said about the original subject.

[hornytwells]

Not that this thread needs me to keep it going (apparently), but with reference to a comment I made about seeing Sean Caden by chance while in San Diego and chatting with him on grindr of all things, does anyone looking at him in that video still doubt that he wears make up?? Am I seeing things?????

[citylaw1]

You can vote on threads ????

 

Puhleeeze!

[citylaw1]

I suspect that the reasons for the low opinion are to be found in the very words you wrote above. Venom and contempt seem poor qualifications for a thread to be highly regarded.

 

And just to be clear, I'm referring more to the dueling insults between posters than to what's been said about the original subject.

 

I believe that the rating is (or should be?) based on interest and relevant knowledge gained through the thread. Clearly there is interest, based on the number of replies, and, I would argue, we all learned more about Sean through some pretty good testimony from clients, and a video that I certainly had no idea existed. I think that most of the "venom and contempt" comes from those that are unable to reason with myself and others without anger. Throughout this thread, my opinions have loosened, or even changed to some extent, based on poster input and direct experience. This, I argue, is a sign of intelligence and reasonable critical thought ... qualities that don't seem to flow in abundance here?

 

At the end of the day (which it isn't, as JJ awakens at 5am, and retires at 8pm) we clearly learned more about Sean, a published escort for hire, than we knew individually prior to the thread. I believe that this forum exists for that very reason.

[jjkrkwood]

Puhleeeze!

 

I dont think most participants here KNOW about the rating thing, since most thread are "unrated"... Either its a VERY apathetic group, or simply and "unaware" group ?

[citylaw1]

Not that this thread needs me to keep it going (apparently), but with reference to a comment I made about seeing Sean Caden by chance while in San Diego and chatting with him on grindr of all things, does anyone looking at him in that video still doubt that he wears make up?? Am I seeing things?????

 

I think he is wearing makeup in the video. Where is your post of meeting up with Sean in SD in all of this mess? I can't find it?

[citylaw1]

I dont think most participants here KNOW about the rating thing, since most thread are "unrated"... Either its a VERY apathetic group, or simply and "unaware" group ?

 

It's a bitchy group on our best day. Believe me, the bitchiest of us are very aware.

[hornytwells]

Honestly, I can't remember when I posted it, but it was in answer to another thread about him> I was in San Diego for a few days, having my hair cut sitting next to this boy who i thought was a very pretty twink, but he was obviously wearing make up and was too queeny for my taste. Shortly after I left the place I looked on Grindr and there he was, looking much hotter in his pic with no make up. I would totally have hired him (even though I usually prefer older more masculine but a pretty twins can sometimes take my fancy) but having heard him speak and seen the make up, it put me off.

 

I think he is wearing makeup in the video. Where is your post of meeting up with Sean in SD in all of this mess? I can't find it?

[seeker630]

You can vote on threads ????

 

C"mon JJ - I pointed this feature out last week & you thanked me for the 'useful tip'.

[seeker630]

I believe that the rating is (or should be?) based on interest and relevant knowledge gained through the thread. Clearly there is interest, based on the number of replies, and, I would argue, we all learned more about Sean through some pretty good testimony from clients, and a video that I certainly had no idea existed. I think that most of the "venom and contempt" comes from those that are unable to reason with myself and others without anger. Throughout this thread, my opinions have loosened, or even changed to some extent, based on poster input and direct experience. This, I argue, is a sign of intelligence and reasonable critical thought ... qualities that don't seem to flow in abundance here?

 

At the end of the day (which it isn't, as JJ awakens at 5am, and retires at 8pm) we clearly learned more about Sean, a published escort for hire, than we knew individually prior to the thread. I believe that this forum exists for that very reason.

 

For me, the drama & bickering almost outweigh the information. 200+ posts? And considering that most people here will never be in position to hire the guy anyway, since he doesn't travel. Rating a thread is a personal judgement. Clearly you would rate it higher than I did.

[instudiocity]

Throughout this thread, my opinions have loosened, or even changed to some extent, based on poster input and direct experience. This, I argue, is a sign of intelligence and reasonable critical thought ... qualities that don't seem to flow in abundance here?

Huevos!

[bigvalboy]

I think that most of the "venom and contempt" comes from those that are unable to reason with myself and others without anger.

 

That appears to be rampant on this M-F

 

 

Throughout this thread, my opinions have loosened, or even changed to some extent, based on poster input and direct experience. This, I argue, is a sign of intelligence and reasonable critical thought ... qualities that don't seem to flow in abundance here?

 

While others have not seen this city..I actually took notice of your change of thought and position, and your ability to acknowledge that change. As I quietly watched the anger in the thread unfold, I was impressed by your ability to modify your position, though I doubt others were capable of seeing this.

[jjkrkwood]

C"mon JJ - I pointed this feature out last week & you thanked me for the 'useful tip'.

 

Shhhh, city didnt know that, plus I found his remark silly. Was his post to educate us on his bad experience, or simply to attempt having the longest running and most popular thread ? His comment on its popularity baffled me . But as always Sherlock, you are on your toes !

[jjkrkwood]

While others have not seen this city..I actually took notice to your change of thought and position, and your ability to acknowledge that change. As I quietly watched the anger in the thread unfold, I was impressed by your ability to modify your position, though I doubt others were capable of seeing this.

 

Leopards dont change their spots, and I for one dont believe there was any REAL change, merely a superficial one for show, and to take the heat off. Sort of when celebrities realise they fucked up and issue those insincere apologies for their crazy behavior. I dont think city or anyone else should be ashamed of their opinion and I would have respected him more if he stuck to his guns and fought for what he originally believed to be true. Too many people here cave into the pressure of members and are able to stand their ground. And then there are those that are totally naive, and the 3rd group are the ass-kissers. Its exactly what a well-rounded site should be. Diverse.

[citylaw1]

That appears to be rampant on this M-F

 

 

 

 

While others have not seen this city..I actually took notice to your change of thought and position, and your ability to acknowledge that change. As I quietly watched the anger in the thread unfold, I was impressed by your ability to modify your position, though I doubt others were capable of seeing this.

 

Thanks. It's the truth.

[citylaw1]

Was his post to educate us on his bad experience, or simply to attempt having the longest running and most popular thread ?

 

My post was to educate others on my experience and open up for feedback. That's the function of a forum.

[citylaw1]

Leopards dont change their spots, and I for one dont believe there was any REAL change, merely a superficial one for show, and to take the heat off. The heat? Where have I presented as someone that relents under pressure? Sort of when celebrities realise they fucked up and issue those insincere apologies for their crazy behavior. Celebrities are not anonymous posters in an escort forum. Celebrities are very public (hence the term celebrity) figures that depend on the public for their livelihood. I'm a moniker sitting in boxer shorts on a rainy day in Florida arguing with you on a fifth grade level I dont think city or anyone else should be ashamed of their opinion and I would have respected him more if he stuck to his guns and fought for what he originally believed to be true. I should have "stuck to my guns?" That would make me as ignorant as you. I went into this thread assuming that Sean was an all around flake, and I never intended to hire him. After reading (I suggest you try some of that before posting, and you might be better respected around here) the experiences and feedback from others here, I changed my opinion on a few things. I would hire Sean locally without concern. I listened to people and their experiences and changed my mind. I also watched a video which eliminated any concern (hard to do based on Rentboy alone) that Sean would not resemble his pics. I still believe that Sean should do many things differently, however, I would fuck him and spend time with him at his posted rate. Prior to the thread here I would have never considered contacting him again. Too many people here cave into the pressure of members I don't. and are Unable to stand their ground Sometimes (JJ) it's time to give up a little ground. And then there are those that are totally naive see JJ, and the 3rd group are the ass-kissers Not me.. Its exactly what a well-rounded site should be. Diverse.