Nate - New York City

[citylaw1]

Well I am sure citylaw appreciates the 1 man cheering section in N13, but not everyone behaves the same way, nor should they be expected to. I doubt anyone goes to purchase a time share, and after reading a very in depth, detailed brochure in which EVERYTHING was covered, will then plunk down their money without asking a question, whether its been covered in the brochure or not. Only fools do that !

 

So, again, you're saying that asking a question that has been answered already provides what? If I tell you that I'm 42, and then you email me to ask me how old I am, what does that solve? Only fools (or children) ask the same question twice.

[jjkrkwood]

So, again, you're saying that asking a question that has been answered already provides what? If I tell you that I'm 42, and then you email me to ask me how old I am, what does that solve? Only fools (or children) ask the same question twice.

 

I'm not saying anything. And I am surprised YOU have an issue with this City, being an attorney and all. Dont you lawyer guys ask the same question, 50 million diff ways from Sunday ? I'm done with this issue. I have no problems with the guys I hire, and they answer any question I ask, whether they have covered it in their ad or not. If they dont, they are assholes and wont get my money. Case closed.

[citylaw1]

I'm not saying anything. And I am surprised YOU have an issue with this City, being an attorney and all. Dont you lawyer guys ask the same question, 50 million diff ways from Sunday ? I'm done with this issue. I have no problems with the guys I hire, and they answer any question I ask, whether they have covered it in their ad or not. If they dont, they are assholes and wont get my money. Case closed.

 

When you ask the same question in court, an objection for "asked and answered" is usually upheld.

[+ Travis69]

When you ask the same question in court, an objection for "asked and answered" is usually upheld.

 

But why are you asking the same question?? Are you a fool or a child (your words)?? You have to admit JJ has a point.

[citylaw1]

But why are you asking the same question?? Are you a fool or a child (your words)?? You have to admit JJ has a point.

 

I'm not asking the same question twice. That's my point??

[+ Travis69]

So, again, you're saying that asking a question that has been answered already provides what? .

 

Same question as in earlier post. I rest my case........

[seeker630]

So, again, you're saying that asking a question that has been answered already provides what? If I tell you that I'm 42, and then you email me to ask me how old I am, what does that solve? Only fools (or children) ask the same question twice.

 

From my point of view, I am asking the question for the first time - and asking for confirmation of certain things in his ad (which may have been written months ago or even copied from someone else) and does anyone of us think rescorts never make mistakes in filling out the rentboy template?

 

I think it can be done in a way that's respectful and requires minimal effort to respond, without requiring the escort to repeat all the details. (e.g., I can spell out what I like & ask if he's ok with it, and he can simply say 'sure' or 'no').

[+ Travis69]

On a serious note if there was a particular element of the escort experience that was very important to me I would ask the escort the same question that had been answered in his ad. For me height is important and even if the escort said he was 6' in his ad I would confirm that he was indeed 6', not 5'10". Some people add an inch here, there and everywhere. I would explain that it was very important and expect an answer without attitude.

[jjkrkwood]

On a serious note if there was a particular element of the escort experience that was very important to me I would ask the escort the same question that had been answered in his ad. For me height is important and even if the escort said he was 6' in his ad I would confirm that he was indeed 6', not 5'10". Some people add an inch here, there and everywhere. I would explain that it was very important and expect an answer without attitude.

 

 

 

My point was, we all know that at times, escorts arent entirely Truthful. Some even steal from others and use as their own. And perhaps these perpetrators have not studied their own

tomes. Asking the question will enable you to see if the guy KNOWS what he wrote and then determine if its truthful, is respectful in that he took the time to answer your question, and has a seriousness about being hired by YOU. I am not endorsing endless back and forth emails, nor have I ever. If you are spending upwards of about $300 bucks, you should be entitled to ASK a question. If you choose NOT to, thats your perrogative.

[BostonPhil]

My point was, we all know that at times, escorts arent entirely Truthful. Some even steal from others and use as their own. And perhaps these perpetrators have not studied their own

tomes. Asking the question will enable you to see if the guy KNOWS what he wrote and then determine if its truthful, is respectful in that he took the time to answer your question, and has a seriousness about being hired by YOU. I am not endorsing endless back and forth emails, nor have I ever. If you are spending upwards of about $300 bucks, you should be entitled to ASK a question. If you choose NOT to, thats your perrogative.

 

I think what has been missed here is that it is not one question or two that are being asked of us, it is repeating an entire ad. Which more often than not is what happens. I always answer the questions posed to me but it does get irritating when you have repeated your ad on the phone 5 times in a day. Then add on top of that the questions to clarify info and it can be around ten minutes. I don't mind answering questions to a point but if I get the feeling some one is dragging it out I will refer them back to the ad and let them know they can contact me again when they are ready to book. What needs to be understood it that for us, asking these types of questions can be a warm up to them trying to get off on the phone with an escort. We deal with this nearly daily. An example, today at noon I get a phone call: "I need to be discrete I'm at work" OK "So you're 6'2" Yes I am "You weigh how much?" 160 "Tall and skinny. You have blue eyes?" Yeah I do. "Would you come to me (toilet flushes) office and fuck me?" I don't think that is wise with your need for discretion. When you are serious about meeting me and not trying to get off in the bathroom at work (click) please feel free to call back.

[jjkrkwood]

I think what has been missed here is that it is not one question or two that are being asked of us, it is repeating an entire ad. Which more often than not is what happens. I always answer the questions posed to me but it does get irritating when you have repeated your ad on the phone 5 times in a day. Then add on top of that the questions to clarify info and it can be around ten minutes. I don't mind answering questions to a point but if I get the feeling some one is dragging it out I will refer them back to the ad and let them know they can contact me again when they are ready to book. What needs to be understood it that for us, asking these types of questions can be a warm up to them trying to get off on the phone with an escort. We deal with this nearly daily. An example, today at noon I get a phone call: "I need to be discrete I'm at work" OK "So you're 6'2" Yes I am "You weigh how much?" 160 "Tall and skinny. You have blue eyes?" Yeah I do. "Would you come to me (toilet flushes) office and fuck me?" I don't think that is wise with your need for discretion. When you are serious about meeting me and not trying to get off in the bathroom at work (click) please feel free to call back.

 

Surely BP, THIS was not what I was implying, and I said early on in my post that it is up to the escort to "assess" his true gut feeling about the call from the presentation of the client.

Of course, once the communication takes an awkward or bad turn, its time to END the communication.

 

Would you like me to tell you about to "pitfalls" of my job ???? We all have them. And while I have to get up, get dressed and travel to the city by subway to do my job, escorts can sit home in their PJ's and tend to their business. Lots of things get annoying, but as I said is, when it gets to THAT point, you end the communication. I think many of you missed MY point, or just tend to dismiss it ? Nonetheless Good Luck to EVERYONE !

[BostonPhil]

Surely BP, THIS was not what I was implying, and I said early on in my post that it is up to the escort to "assess" his true gut feeling about the call from the presentation of the client.

Of course, once the communication takes an awkward or bad turn, its time to END the communication.

 

Would you like me to tell you about to "pitfalls" of my job ???? We all have them. And while I have to get up, get dressed and travel to the city by subway to do my job, escorts can sit home in their PJ's and tend to their business. Lots of things get annoying, but as I said is, when it gets to THAT point, you end the communication. I think many of you missed MY point, or just tend to dismiss it ? Nonetheless Good Luck to EVERYONE !

 

Aw Boo don't get crunchy. I was not criticizing you in any way. I was just offering a likely explanation for why he felt the need to put all that in his FAQs. I completely understand the need on the client's part to verify the stats and info in an ad.

[citylaw1]

On a serious note if there was a particular element of the escort experience that was very important to me I would ask the escort the same question that had been answered in his ad. For me height is important and even if the escort said he was 6' in his ad I would confirm that he was indeed 6', not 5'10". Some people add an inch here, there and everywhere. I would explain that it was very important and expect an answer without attitude.

 

So if he lied in his original post, you're assuming that he'll be truthful upon a follow up question?

[citylaw1]

Same question as in earlier post. I rest my case........

 

The question was never answered, therefore your logic and wit has failed. I was referring to the absurdity of asking a question that was already answered, while expecting a different answer from the same person.

[citylaw1]

On a serious note if there was a particular element of the escort experience that was very important to me I would ask the escort the same question that had been answered in his ad. For me height is important and even if the escort said he was 6' in his ad I would confirm that he was indeed 6', not 5'10". Some people add an inch here, there and everywhere. I would explain that it was very important and expect an answer without attitude.

 

We are addressing this escort ad, not every escort ad. He has a FAQ section to avoid asking those questions again. Not only has he listed his stats, he's reiterated them to you in a belabored text. Jesus Christ ... unless he's shrunk since he wrote a paragraph reiterating his stats ... come on!

[citylaw1]

I like the forthright quality of this guy...anyone have an experience to report?

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=309405&scid=72566551&sp=9&pos=179&locid=1569&iid=157388

 

As usual, no answer to your question exists in this thread. Far too many gentlemen tightening their American Idol robes and tapping their Snoopy slippers, readying their prose to circumvent my logic and wit. Now, has anyone fucked this cocky twink, or must I take the plunge?

[+ Travis69]

We are addressing this escort ad, not every escort ad. He has a FAQ section to avoid asking those questions again. Not only has he listed his stats, he's reiterated them to you in a belabored text. Jesus Christ ... unless he's shrunk since he wrote a paragraph reiterating his stats ... come on!

Actually he has not reiterated his stats. He has just said "see stats". Just because something is written once, twice or three times does not make it 100% accurate and yes, sometimes, when pressed in a follow up question the truth has come out.

[jjkrkwood]

As usual, no answer to your question exists in this thread. Far too many gentlemen tightening their American Idol robes and tapping their Snoopy slippers, readying their prose to circumvent my logic and wit. Now, has anyone fucked this cocky twink, or must I take the plunge?

 

Yeah citylaw, go throw some money at him and checkout his forthrightness.... On second look, he doesnt even meet your required mold.

[citylaw1]

Actually he has not reiterated his stats. He has just said "see stats". Just because something is written once, twice or three times does not make it 100% accurate and yes, sometimes, when pressed in a follow up question the truth has come out.

 

OMG. He HAS reiterated his stats by posting them; AND THEN following up with a confirmation PARAGRAPH reaffirming his stats, and, I suspect, hoping to avoid a three day email chat with the likes of you restating the facts. So yes, perhaps on the third email the truth will surface. You sound exactly like the interaction that most escorts on here and elsewhere are looking to avoid.

[citylaw1]

Yeah citylaw, go throw some money at him and checkout his forthrightness.... On second look, he doesnt even meet your required mold.

 

I see all new hires as a gamble to some extent. Unlike some on here, I can live with the first answer, rather than waiting for the second and third confirmation of the first question. How does he not fit "my mold?" I find him very cute. Please tell!

[jjkrkwood]

OMG. He HAS reiterated his stats by posting them; AND THEN following up with a confirmation PARAGRAPH reaffirming his stats, and, I suspect, hoping to avoid a three day email chat with the likes of you restating the facts. So yes, perhaps on the third email the truth will surface. You sound exactly like the interaction that most escorts on here and elsewhere are looking to avoid.

 

THIS thread has gone on Longer than the answer to the question would have !

[jjkrkwood]

I see all new hires as a gamble to some extent. Unlike some on here, I can live with the first answer, rather than waiting for the second and third confirmation of the first question. How does he not fit "my mold?" I find him very cute. Please tell!

 

He looks older than 18

[+ Travis69]

OMG. He HAS reiterated his stats by posting them; AND THEN following up with a confirmation PARAGRAPH reaffirming his stats, and, I suspect, hoping to avoid a three day email chat with the likes of you restating the facts. So yes, perhaps on the third email the truth will surface. You sound exactly like the interaction that most escorts on here and elsewhere are looking to avoid.

 

Actually I am a client who makes a two minute phone call to confirm the important aspects and then books an appointment. Don't do emails or multiple calls. It's a waste of time.

[tsgarp]

So...no one has been with this guy? Didn't mean to start a firestorm.

[seeker630]

So...no one has been with this guy? Didn't mean to start a firestorm.

 

Don't worry - you didn't start it.