The difference between a ***** and an Escort~

[+ Tygerscent]

I am traveling around this site reading and invariably finding myself a need to ask these two questions:

1). Do you as Escort or Client, differentiate between "*****" and "Escort"~?

2). How or why not~?

 

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[healthguy]

As a client: I NEVER would approach any booking looking for a *****. Value one another too much. In addition, always feel there is more to gain and give than just a "pay and go situation." Rand

[Guest countryboywny]

I differentiate all the time! LOL Actually, to me, an escort possesses excellent interpersonal skills, is intelligent.. makes a great companion in and out of bed. A ***** is primarily a sexual being, to him it's only about sex, the typical hour hire. As I said in another thread, there's a place for both types.

[whipped guy]

A ***** is a ***** and at times some might simply need a *****... and guys I did not even have to type in all those stars...

 

An escort is a wise caring individual and gentleman that among other things... many other things... and to pick just one... knows what you want, need, and desire... and at times knows it even before you know it yourself... In other words there is often a mystic quality involved in the relationship that involves some sort of bond and a certain rapport beyond just a physical relationship... Well there is that carnal thing... but it also involves knowing how, where, when, and why to "get physical"... how far to go... what boundaries to cross or not cross... when to hold back... when to dominate... etc. It takes a sage individual to get things right... and at times it takes a while for such a bond to be forged... but the best of the best are sufficiently skilled that they are often intuitively capable finding the right path to traverse during the first meeting... and especially if there is a bit of discussion previously.

[jawjateck]

This dumb country boy don't know what a "*****" is. But I have hired ummmm....uhhhhh....well....alot of escorts. Geez....I wonder if I'm a *****???

[jjkrkwood]

I haven't seen EITHER recommended for Sainthood ! :o

 

I just make my appointment, pay my Fee, and really dont think about it much.

 

Is that too honest of an answer ?

[JT Brooklyn]

Hi TY my old friend...Hope all is going well in your part of the Woods! JT here...For me the most important thing is that a "Working Guy" works at his job well.

 

As in other "Professions" some are definitely better at what they get paid Very Well for than others!

 

In your case just keep doing what your doing because.."Ya does it so well"!

[gallahadesquire]

Besides WONDERFUL eye candy, The Wedding Date is a marvelous cinematic exposition on what an Escort should be like.

[unsub2O17]

Great question--I think in part generated by my recent "escort" experience posted elsewhere. I think I know what you think, TY, because you used the same distinction on that thread. You think I wound up with a ***** when I hoped for an escort. Seems like your distinction was right in that case. In general, I think WG nailed it. Yes, it's got some romance in it, and it doesn't have to be long lasting or even "real," but it does make the sex better (for me).

[Guest countryboywny]

This dumb country boy don't know what a "*****" is.

 

HEY! I'M the dumb country boy around here!

[+ WilliamM]

Rounds in New York City

 

Am I the only one who has great memories of the famous NYC hustler bar Rounds? On any given night you never knew who you might meet: an unemployed actor, a student from a Long Island University who needed tuition money, or a drug addict.

 

At Rounds, you had a chance to have face-to-face conversations before making a choice. Yes, many times it was a quick hour. But I saw several guys multiple times often spending the whole weekend together.

 

A bar like Rounds could exist only in New York or LA at a certain time (late '80s, early '90s), but I sometimes wonder if it wasn't better than the escort scene.

[maxwellissmart]

Am I the only one who has great memories of the famous NYC hustler bar Rounds? On any given night you never knew who you might meet: an unemployed actor, a student from a Long Island University who needed tuition money, or a drug addict.

 

Okay, this made me laugh for about five minutes solid.

[gallahadesquire]

I was [unfortunately?] informed by a psychologist / astrologer [interesting combination] that a sex, for me, required some sort of Interaction. Maybe we call it "chemistry". there has to be a certain "there", there, to make it worth bothering. So I went from, like, three one-time visits to a three-timer and two multiple repeats, one now, unfortunately, retired.

 

But if there isn't some sort of - darest I say the word? - AFFECTION - involved, it ain't for me.

 

So (just as a random comment) JJ - I hope you continue to suck all the dicks you can. And to all of the other men out there, who never do a "repeat" - I don't knwo which of us is luckier: Really getting to know someone pretty well, or just having an hour's time with them.

 

I think you can see where I sit on the ***** versus escort fence. And thank you for your support.

[orbital sander]

It is an interesting question.

 

I always considered a ***** a negative name that was not equated with someone who happened to work in the escorting business but rather a negative name for a person who is of low character.

 

 

I am traveling around this site reading and invariably finding myself a need to ask these two questions:

1). Do you as Escort or Client, differentiate between "*****" and "Escort"~?

2). How or why not~?

 

Tyger!

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[jjkrkwood]

I was [unfortunately?] informed by a psychologist / astrologer [interesting combination] that a sex, for me, required some sort of Interaction. Maybe we call it "chemistry". there has to be a certain "there", there, to make it worth bothering. So I went from, like, three one-time visits to a three-timer and two multiple repeats, one now, unfortunately, retired.

 

But if there isn't some sort of - darest I say the word? - AFFECTION - involved, it ain't for me.

 

So (just as a random comment) JJ - I hope you continue to suck all the dicks you can. And to all of the other men out there, who never do a "repeat" - I don't knwo which of us is luckier: Really getting to know someone pretty well, or just having an hour's time with them.

 

I think you can see where I sit on the ***** versus escort fence. And thank you for your support.

 

Just to clarify for you Gall, YES, I am into Oral, but I am also discriminate of whom I suck. Like you, for me there needs to be some attraction for me to indulge. With that said, also I do hire occassionally, and if I find someone I enjoy, I WILL do repeats. HOWEVER, I would never endeavor to turn an escort into a husband. Seems to me. for some on this site, escorting is the road they are choosing to find a mate, or at least some sort of long term relationship. Good Luck with that.... Will probably work as long as your wallet holds out!

[Luv2play]

A bar like Rounds could exist only in New York or LA at a certain time (late '80s, early '90s), but I sometimes wonder if it wasn't better than the escort scene.

 

My first visit to Rounds was in 1982 and I had the impression it had been going for some time, at least 5 or more years. I didn't hire then but did at a later visit in the late '80's. This was early in my hiring days and since the Internet wasn't around for escorts to advertise on, the only other option was the gay rags and you didn't know what might show up.

 

I think for older men who were well healed, Rounds offered an excellent venue to pick up nice clean-cut young men. Somehow management kept the cheap hustlers out from what I experienced and if you took one of the young men there back to your hotel you felt fairly confident since he hung out at Rounds and was a known quantity.

[Lohengrin1979]

Just to clarify for you Gall, YES, I am into Oral, but I am also discriminate of whom I suck. Like you, for me there needs to be some attraction for me to indulge. With that said, also I do hire occassionally, and if I find someone I enjoy, I WILL do repeats. HOWEVER, I would never endeavor to turn an escort into a husband. Seems to me. for some on this site, escorting is the road they are choosing to find a mate, or at least some sort of long term relationship. Good Luck with that.... Will probably work as long as your wallet holds out!

 

That's one point of view but it's hardly accurate that "some" on this site are looking to shack up with their hires. I don't see countless posts about clients swooning over their respective regular escorts and offering rings, flowers, and a wedding in Ibiza. It's hard not to get to know someone a little bit when they're holding your legs in the air. Personally, I want to know a little about the person fucking me. It would be boring otherwise. I am well aware of your claims that the best escorts are consummate actors and that is true to a degree. Hire someone for long enough, however, and the truly phony acts start to crack and you see a glimpse of the real deal as it were. Then you make your choice. To realize your dealing with the act and enjoy it or move on to the next now that the fourth wall is shattered. So, rehire the sincere ones and have fun bonding, that's what I say!

 

Lohengrin

[jjkrkwood]

That's one point of view but it's hardly accurate that "some" on this site are looking to shack up with their hires. I don't see countless posts about clients swooning over their respective regular escorts and offering rings, flowers, and a wedding in Ibiza. It's hard not to get to know someone a little bit when they're holding your legs in the air. Personally, I want to know a little about the person fucking me. It would be boring otherwise. I am well aware of your claims that the best escorts are consummate actors and that is true to a degree. Hire someone for long enough, however, and the truly phony acts start to crack and you see a glimpse of the real deal as it were. Then you make your choice. To realize your dealing with the act and enjoy it or move on to the next now that the fourth wall is shattered. So, rehire the sincere ones and have fun bonding, that's what I say!

 

Lohengrin

 

Everything is really in your perception of it Loh, and I suspect we are reading different posts ? Each persons motivations and goals for their hirings are different, and it is very easy to "read between the lines" in many of the posts submitted. Of course, opinion is also variable, and each person is entitled to theirs. I have NO issue with anyone doing what they wanna do or their motives for doing it. My point has always been to just be honest and upfront when you post. Whether you want to fuck your escort or marry him has NO effect on me whatsoever... We ALL deserve the right to be HAPPY !

[+ Tygerscent]

Let me refocus here for a bit~

I was referring to others definitions and distinctions between the two, (if there are any in ones mind or sensibilities), and not their happiness~

 

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Everything is really in your perception of it Loh, and I suspect we are reading different posts ? Each persons motivations and goals for their hirings are different, and it is very easy to "read between the lines" in many of the posts submitted. Of course, opinion is also variable, and each person is entitled to theirs. I have NO issue with anyone doing what they wanna do or their motives for doing it. My point has always been to just be honest and upfront when you post. Whether you want to fuck your escort or marry him has NO effect on me whatsoever... We ALL deserve the right to be HAPPY !

[jjkrkwood]

Let me refocus here for a bit~

I was referring to others definitions and distinctions between the two, (if there are any in ones mind or sensibilities), and not their happiness~

 

Tyger!

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OH yes Tyger, I understood your original question, but my comment was to Loh's post which veered slightly off topic perhaps, as often happens round these parts.

 

Excuse the detour, and I believe I answered your original question earlier on.

[Bosguy]

Let me refocus here for a bit~

I was referring to others definitions and distinctions between the two, (if there are any in ones mind or sensibilities), and not their happiness~

 

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To me, I want to spend time with someone I am PROUD to spend time with, whether it be in bed in a neutral setting or in either of our residences or a social setting in a restaurant or public function. To me that is a "working guy" in every sense of the professional word. The other "type" is fine for guys who don't care for interpersonal closeness. Wish Tyger would express it better for me.

 

Also, it does not have to be with one of the top rated guys. I spent a wonderful time with a new guy today and that REAL feeling was there

 

Boston Bill

[desertguy1954]

Ty, as a client I enjoy a nice escort. The sex is what has drawn us together, from the description the escort has posted. I also enjoy a guy who can carry on a good conversation before and after. Also, that after sex, not to feel rushed. Love laying there talking and relaxing with the guy. Can all of this be accomplished in an hour usually not. though I have found the good ones are not clock watchers. hopefully someday I will be able to spend that time with you. From every review I have read of yours, I think I would finally have been with a very good all around escort. Hopefully you will be in Palm Springs soon

desertguy

[leigh.bess.toad]

A ***** is a ***** and at times some might simply need a *****... and guys I did not even have to type in all those stars...

 

An escort is a wise caring individual and gentleman that among other things... many other things... and to pick just one... knows what you want, need, and desire... and at times knows it even before you know it yourself... In other words there is often a mystic quality involved in the relationship that involves some sort of bond and a certain rapport beyond just a physical relationship... Well there is that carnal thing... but it also involves knowing how, where, when, and why to "get physical"... how far to go... what boundaries to cross or not cross... when to hold back... when to dominate... etc. It takes a sage individual to get things right... and at times it takes a while for such a bond to be forged... but the best of the best are sufficiently skilled that they are often intuitively capable finding the right path to traverse during the first meeting... and especially if there is a bit of discussion previously.

 

Ty -- I think WG described it beautifully. Especially the understanding of what a client needs and wants, even if the client isn't really able to verbalize it or realize it themselves. I know of one escort of my acquaintance in particular who seems to be able to tell what I want and need even from 2500 miles away.

 

But the question makes me think of the ring tone on Ace's working phone. And it cracks me up whenever I hear it or think about it. Wondering how this will work on Daddy's:

 

[video=youtube;rAuCN65LaB0]

 

{edit} - well I found one way to get the word on daddy's -- have it embedded in the youtube title. lol

[Bosguy]

Ty, as a client I enjoy a nice escort. The sex is what has drawn us together, from the description the escort has posted. I also enjoy a guy who can carry on a good conversation before and after. Also, that after sex, not to feel rushed. Love laying there talking and relaxing with the guy. Can all of this be accomplished in an hour usually not. though I have found the good ones are not clock watchers. hopefully someday I will be able to spend that time with you. From every review I have read of yours, I think I would finally have been with a very good all around escort. Hopefully you will be in Palm Springs soon

desertguy

 

One of the most marvelous men you could ever dream of spending time with!!!!!

 

Boston Bill

[leigh.bess.toad]

One of the most marvelous men you could ever dream of spending time with!!!!!

 

Boston Bill

 

I second that thought. Wholeheartedly.