Why escorts choose most expensive item on the menu?

[Guest elmer]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

[gallahadesquire]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

 

well, if you can pay them $200 an hour for dinner and conversation ... plus not all of them eat well. One fellow I hired in Orlando ordered a 20 oz steak and, from the way he ate it, I have a feeling it was his first good slug of protein in quite a while.

Another fellow, 5'1", 100#, finished off a full rack of ribs. THAT had to be seen!

 

I don't have an answer - I've seen the same guy for almost a year now, and I have no reason to switch. Just some thoughts (see below).

-Sir Gallahad

[EZEtoGRU]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

Probably cause they can get away with it. I almost always include dinner out as part of my "dates". And usually to nice places. It doesn't really bother me what they order.

 

As an aside, flan is a pretty basic and common dessert in much of Latin America. I have never considered it to be an expensive item. On my most recent "date" in Miami about 10 days ago, both my guest and I ordered flan as dessert because we both enjoy it. As I recall, the flan was priced similarly to the other dessert choices.

[jjkrkwood]

They DO because they CAN and they are smart. If you are concerned about the cost of their selection, its best not to extend an invite. Its better to withhold an invite than to limit the budget.... Personally, I wouldnt do it, but then again, I aint getting paid for my companionship either....

[LookingAround]

With utmost respect, I don't consider fillet mignon and flan to be offensively expensive items.

[jawjateck]

I haven't noticed this to be a regular occurrence. Is it a NYC thing?

 

I have enjoyed many meals with escorts over the years, and since I am drawn to the considerate types, considerate guys almost always take their cues from me, and order consistently with what I am having, which is usually a very full meal with plenty of meat. I don't skimp at the dinner table. I can only recall one escort being obnoxious with his dinner order, and deliberately running up the tab, eating portions of everything he ordered, but never consuming all of any one item. The guy's a jerk, and is known for attitude. The hot sex was not enough to overcome his social inadequacy which is why I never scheduled a repeat.

 

On a side note, I never schedule multi-day appointments with any escort who has strict eating/dietery preferences. I respect a guy's right to feed his temple, but those guys are usually too much drama around meal times. Can't eat here or there. Can't eat this or that. Sheesh.......

[jjkrkwood]

With utmost respect, I don't consider fillet mignon and flan to be offensively expensive items.

 

Depends on the venue. Could be upwards of $200 at a fine NYC joint.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Well that has certainly not been my experience. Ever. And I've had meals with probably close to a dozen different escorts. Sometimes during a hire, sometimes after a hire, and occasionally even with no hire involved -- simply as friends. I have never noticed them going to the most expensive thing on the menu. And frequently I have to grab the check from their hands to even pay for it.

 

Sorry if you've had problems, but that sure hasn't been my experience at all.

[Guest countryboywny]

I haven't noticed this to be a regular occurrence. Is it a NYC thing?

 

I have enjoyed many meals with escorts over the years, and since I am drawn to the considerate types, considerate guys almost always take their cues from me, and order consistently with what I am having, which is usually a very full meal with plenty of meat.

I've had lots of meals with escorts and have never once felt taken advantage of. As Jawja says, I only see considerate guys to begin with, so ANYTHING we do together is never a problem.

 

Maybe you should see "classier" guys.

[+ glutes]

I am having visions of those said filets and flans being consumed with open mouths...

 

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[jimboivyo]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

 

if you cannot afford or are too cheap for your young dining guest to order what he likes, then better not extend an invite in the future.

[BostonPhil]

well, if you can pay them $200 an hour for dinner and conversation ... plus not all of them eat well. One fellow I hired in Orlando ordered a 20 oz steak and, from the way he ate it, I have a feeling it was his first good slug of protein in quite a while.

Another fellow, 5'1", 100#, finished off a full rack of ribs. THAT had to be seen!

 

On a busy day we might not eat much running from appointment to appointment. I often won't have dinner til 1am.

 

When I'm taken to dinner I don't really pay attention to the prices, but my tastes tend to be on the lighter side, so I'm pretty comfortable I'm not running up the bill. Also, some people get upset if they think you're holding back to keep the bill down. Can't win.

[+ sf westcoaster]

I have had escorts as dinner guests many times and quite frankly I have not noticed any trend towards higher priced items. If price were an issue, I would either not extend an invitation or select an inexpensive dinner. This may sound harsh, but if you don't want to pay then don't extend an invitation.

[Guest Connoisseur]

It's been a long time since my last with an escort but the last two guys practically tackled me when at the last dinner of the weekend, the bill came and they wanted to pay When I was hiring I always took them to great restaurants and encouraged them to order anything including deserts. Guess I thought spoiling them would lead to them staying in the business but it didn't. They were college guys only available for a very short window of time

 

Since then, just haven't come across college age guys that are legit, good to great shape but not overly muscular and who have a decent attitude - or maybe the better way to say it is "no attitude"

 

Patrick Taylor retired before I could grab him for a weekend I also decided after one bad hire that I won't hire anyone who isn't reviewed on this site (well reviewed of course).

[bigvalboy]

I am having visions of those said filets and flans being consumed with open mouths...

 

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Open mouths...? What? Who eats like that? Sounds to me like it is time for a lesson on etiquette.

[buckguy]

Hasn't been my experience, but I wouldn't extend an invitation if I wasn't prepared to pay for the most expensive item on the menu, regardless of companion.

[bigvalboy]

if you cannot afford or are too cheap for your young dining guest to order what he likes, then better not extend an invite in the future.

 

It is hardly a matter of money, or the concern about spending it. It is quite simply a matter of proper etiquette. When invited to dinner, no matter who is paying, one never chooses an item from a menu without asking the host what he or she is getting first. I have taken wealthy clients to dinner and they have always turned to me and said something to the effect "Bob, what looks good to you?" I took a young escort to dinner the other night and we had talked about steak for the entrée. There were several steaks offered with various degrees in price. He asked me what I was getting, and I said the Filet Mignon, he ordered the same thing, but not after taking my lead. I Thought everyone knew that, but then again, I am a Southern boy, and I was raised with proper manners as an inherent part of the up bringing, like chewing with your mouth closed!!!

 

I was in PS and on two separate occasions, the entire group including several escorts all went to dinner. Some of the escorts were alone, so as an act of kindness as I walked into the restaurant, I quietly leaned over and offered to pay for dinner for one of the escorts. When the bill came, on both occasions they had ordered from the mid price range on the menu and thanked me profusely for buying them dinner. When I returned to LA, one of them even sent me an email thanking me again. It is all by "class" my friend.

[jackboy48]

This is a very sore subject for me. I don't understand why an escort would do this, and it has happened to me on several occasions. I think it might be more of a power trip, than lack of manners. I suppose it might be pure ignorance of what I believe are social norms. I was actually with one guy who had the chef come to the table for a consultation, so that he could have a special side order prepared. At first I thought it was to maintain a special diet, to maintain his great physique and sexual prowess, but then he did it at a Mexican place and I finally had a talk with him. I firmly believe that you never order more than your host, unless you are specifically encouraged, and even then it's wiser to stay within his price range. When an escort does this to me, it definitely diminishes our experience, and I won't be seeing him again, in spite of his sexual appeal. In fact, when it happens at the beginning of the date, I'm tempted to cancel the rest of our time together. I did actually end one weekend early because of this type of anoyance, and I left a ski trip early with some friends, who were recklessly ordering multiple expensive bottles of wine and expecting me to share the cost. It's obvious to me, that an escort who is considerate in all aspects of his time with a client, will be the most successful.

[orbital sander]

Like most others, I have never, ever, had this "problem".

If I invite a guest to dinner (whoever they may be), I do not have any thought (or care) about what they order. I would guess if that was a concern I would refrain from taking them out, or I would take them to a pizza place. I go out to have a nice time with my guest, and I have little interest in fretting over what they order.

[bigvalboy]

I firmly believe that you never order more than your host, unless you are specifically encouraged, and even then it's wiser to stay within his price range.

 

Ah, finally someone who understands, To me this is how I have always lived. I was beginning to think that I was the odd man out...LOL For me it has absolutely nothing to do with ones ability to pay, it is simply common courtesy.

 

And Jackboy I would have left early from that ski trip also, even though the cost was shared, they gave you no choice in the matter. I was at dinner the other night with a friend, and I made it very clear I was paying and I didn't care what he ordered as it was my treat. When the bill came he insisted on paying part, when I asked why, he said well "the wine I ordered was really expensive" I declined his offer, but at least he offered and the choice became mine.

[unsub2O17]

I haven't noticed this to be a regular occurrence. Is it a NYC thing?

 

I have enjoyed many meals with escorts over the years, and since I am drawn to the considerate types, considerate guys almost always take their cues from me, and order consistently with what I am having, which is usually a very full meal with plenty of meat. I don't skimp at the dinner table. I can only recall one escort being obnoxious with his dinner order, and deliberately running up the tab, eating portions of everything he ordered, but never consuming all of any one item. The guy's a jerk, and is known for attitude. The hot sex was not enough to overcome his social inadequacy which is why I never scheduled a repeat.

 

On a side note, I never schedule multi-day appointments with any escort who has strict eating/dietery preferences. I respect a guy's right to feed his temple, but those guys are usually too much drama around meal times. Can't eat here or there. Can't eat this or that. Sheesh.......

 

Oh my! Now, I have another problem that I didn't even think of! I am taking an escort out to dinner in a few weeks, but it's ME who orders many items and just eats them partially. What's a considerate escort to do??

[jimboivyo]

It is hardly a matter of money, or the concern about spending it. It is quite simply a matter of proper etiquette. When invited to dinner, no matter who is paying, one never chooses an item from a menu without asking the host what he or she is getting first. I have taken wealthy clients to dinner and they have always turned to me and said something to the effect "Bob, what looks good to you?" I took a young escort to dinner the other night and we had talked about steak for the entrée. There were several steaks offered with various degrees in price. He asked me what I was getting, and I said the Filet Mignon, he ordered the same thing, but not after taking my lead. I Thought everyone knew that, but then again, I am a Southern boy, and I was raised with proper manners as an inherent part of the up bringing, like chewing with your mouth closed!!!

 

I was in PS and on two separate occasions, the entire group including several escorts all went to dinner. Some of the escorts were alone, so as an act of kindness as I walked into the restaurant, I quietly leaned over and offered to pay for dinner for one of the escorts. When the bill came, on both occasions they had ordered from the mid price range on the menu and thanked me profusely for buying them dinner. When I returned to LA, one of them even sent me an email thanking me again. It is all by "class" my friend.

 

this discussion has nothing to do with buying escorts their meals at palm springs events. it's not about class or what constitutes manners. it's about inviting someone to a meal and not playing games when it comes to something as simple as ordering from a menu. When i dine, I want those around me to have what they please, not what they THINK they should order. otherwise, I wouldn't be comfortable with the dinner.

 

if you want some kid to follow your lead when ordering from a menu, fine by me. I just prefer spending my time with folks who are confident enough in themselves and our relationship to order what they like, speak freely and act like human beings, not robo rent boys.

[maxwellissmart]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

 

Wow. Just... wow. This has to be one of the more obnoxious threads I've ever seen posted on the board. I've also had dinner with two of the posters on this thread (who graciously told me to order whatever I felt like). It was their idea to even go to dinner, and I would have been perfectly happy going to Starbucks.

 

Dude, you're what's known as a "passive-aggressive cheapskate." My advice is: don't take someone to Lobster Hut if you don't want them to order the lobster. As Shelia E kinda put it—"if you don't want to pay for flan then take them to Panera... lingerie."

[SteveEscort]

I am vegetarian, my meal is usually the cheapest.

 

I do like nice wine though and don't usually settle for the house favourite

[rvwnsd]

Having taken some escorts to dinner recently, both pre and post-coitus, why do they order the a la carte? And the most expensive item they can find? Filet mignon and flan seem to be common words I have heard uttered.

Power trip?

 

When I am treating a friend to dinner I am not concerned with what they order or the cost associated with it. Likewise, I would not be concerned with what an escort ordered.

 

If you can't afford to pay for dinner or are offended when your guests order what they want then don't offer to treat.