it's Christmas every day

[gcursor]

Maxwell said something in another posting and I wanted to ask a question about it thus I started this new topic.

 

The question for the escorts (and clients that want to answer) is: do many clients that you see buy you gifts (besides the money) ?

 

gcursor

[KMEM]

Of course, just like I do for other friends.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[jjkrkwood]

Unless the relationship has developed into something more than "business" only, for ME, I would consider it inappropriate and uneccessary.

[Kevin Slater]

Some do. Lately it's been a plethora of Apple products. (I ain't complaining.) I've had a few encourage me to create an Amazon wish list, and I may set one up on the Leatherman as well. It's always fun to think of a particular fellow as you enjoy the gift he gave.

 

Kevin Slater

[rguer]

Finally had my first appointment with an escort this week. Very interesting, much material for thought. I'm trying to decide whether and what to write about it.

 

But relevant to this thread, we had exchanged email before the meeting, and he told me that he watches the Food Channel. So I brought him a locally produced food item that we would not be able to obtain where he lives.

 

Seems like the civilized thing to do. If we had not had a conversation about his interests, I would not have bought him a generic gift.

[Diverdan]

Please write a review !!

[unsub2O17]

I love all kinds of bakeries. If I pass an interesting one on the way to an appointment, I'll pick up something for the escort that I think he'll like. As rguer said, it just seems like a nice thing to do. I have sometimes asked in advance and the reply has always been, "surprise me".

[+ purplekow]

I usually bring a gift, if I am doing an outcall. Something akin to a host gift, a bottle of wine, perhaps something more personal if I know the persons tastes. I do not consider it necessary, rather just polite. I do not do this on every occasion, but if the date has been set in advance, then I usually do.

[Traveler North]

I had a long relationship with an escort who I really considered a friend and I did buy him gifts from time to time.

[+ azdr0710]

Trader Joe's gift cards, most of the time....very practical and doesn't require much thought and effort on my part (always important!) and he'll remember me next time he buys a few bottles of two-buck Chuck or, my favorite, Simpler Times beer (cheaper than Coors!)

[Kevin Slater]

next time he buys a few bottles of two-buck Chuck

 

Off topic, but is it only here in NYC that it's three-buck Chuck?

 

Kevin Slater

[jjkrkwood]

Off topic, but is it only here in NYC that it's three-buck Chuck?

 

Kevin Slater

 

STOP adding those extra "shots"

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Off topic, but is it only here in NYC that it's three-buck Chuck?

 

Nationally, it has been "two-buck Chuck" for quite some time; however, the original nickname hasn't gone away.

[adriano46]

Back to topic, when I was seeing escorts in Europe, I often suppkemented the fee with gifts primarily because many of them were charging so little in reality. If I was inviting a guy for an overnight, I would often pick out a nice gift for him. It was only a gesture of politeness on my part - never, ever solicited from him.

 

On the States, I often will ask a guy what he would like in term of refreshments if he is coming for more than an hour (which is my usualy thing, as I hardly hire for less than or 3 hrs). Most guys these days only want bottled water which is fine. I enjoy a nice glass of wine but these days staying in hotels, it is risky getting the right bottle, and if it is a white, having it at the right temperature as many rooms have no fridge, or one so small, nothing fits in it.

 

I recently met a guy for a few hours and he was amazing. Urban, witty, sophisticated, cultured, and what a body and what an escort. I later gifted him some things from the internet and comped him some tickets to the opera when I had to cancel going. I will be seeing him again, and hope to eventually stretch it out to an overnight.

 

One or two other escorts, who have web sites, and in whom I am very interested, have AMAZON lists (such as Kevin Slater suggested) but they are NOT kept up to date and so it is frustrating if I have a moment both horny and generous, want to give the guy a gift certificate or something from his wish list -- and it is not active any longer. Dumb on his part.

[swallows22]

I always arrive in the US with a bag full of AussieBum gear.

[bigvalboy]

Trader Joe's gift cards, most of the time....very practical and doesn't require much thought and effort on my part (always important!) and he'll remember me next time he buys a few bottles of two-buck Chuck or, my favorite, Simpler Times beer (cheaper than Coors!)

 

I love that idea azdr...I think we have talked about it. Simple and very useful. As for Christmas, the only time that I have bought Christmas gifts is a couple of times when I had an escort stay through the holidays. On both occasions the guys I saw just before Christmas did not have anywhere to go, and did not want to be alone for the holidays, so I allowed them to hang out. Both times the situation was acutally really really nice, and we did go Christmas shopping.

[SteveEscort]

Maxwell said something in another posting and I wanted to ask a question about it thus I started this new topic.

 

The question for the escorts (and clients that want to answer) is: do many clients that you see buy you gifts (besides the money) ?

 

gcursor

 

Rarely, sometimes you get a nice bottle of wine though. A repeat appointment is worth more to me than a gift.

 

I've mentioned this before, on an overnight or long appointment, I always take a bottle of champagne or expensive bottle of wine as a gift to the client for spending a lot of their hard earned money on me. Gifts can work two ways.

 

I do have a client who works for a concert promotion company who gets me free tickets to theatre shows and rock concerts and I can get them at anytime, all I need to do is email. I take him up on his offer 2-3 times a year when there's something I would like to go to, he can even get me tickets to sold out shows. He doesn't come with me, he's married but he enjoys getting the tickets and making a fuss of posting them to me and he always gets me front row and sometimes a backstage pass to the theatre to have pics taken with the cast. I could get them more often but I don't abuse it and it's always a talking point when he comes to see me