The store is open, are you coming in or not?

[maxwellissmart]

How do you deal with a potential client who plays the "I'm nervous" card? Repeatedly?

 

This will be the third go-around with this guy who says he's nervous about meeting and wants face pics. I've already told him I don't send them but would be happy to meet up in person—and he already said earlier he wanted to meet first anyway with maybe "some touching and nothing more to see if we had a connection." A connection. This is where Cynical-Max rolls over in bed and says: "A connection. Seriously? I've done this a while—and I may have had one other person ever suggest something like this—ever."

 

What do you think, escorts? Nervous nelly who needs a little more coaxing, or it ain't gonna happen?

[josephga]

As a massage therapist I don't want to deal with it, All this back and forth just to sell a 75.00 massage. imo most guys that that want ever book. I had a guy 2 weeks ago book agreed to be here at 10am 10:30 comes not here. I call he answers says I'm just over here talking with a bro be there shortly. this guy thinks he can just show up when he wants. I said listen I'm not on CPT you got 10 minutes to get here or sessions canceled.. I'm over these no shows, or pretending to be nervous

[SteveEscort]

Isn't gonna happen. I get them.........Im married my wife, my kids FFS, who gives a fuck about thinking about their kids when they're getting a BJ

 

They're just arseholes, pure and simple

[Rod Hagen]

If he won't stop insisting on face photos he's not going to concede to meet without them. He's not just nervous, he's a pic collector (possibly) too. Move on and don't feel bad about it.

[maxwellissmart]

If he won't stop insisting on face photos he's not going to concede to meet without them. He's not just nervous, he's a pic collector (possibly) too. Move on and don't feel bad about it.

 

Yeah, that's the part the irritates me, since he's already stated that he doesn't expect much from the first meeting anyway—and I've offered to meet him in a public place with no strings or commitments and let him determine if he wants to proceed to the next step. There's not too much more I can do.

[SteveEscort]

I don't get this "meet in a public place" or sending face pics

 

These guys arn't wanting to marry you. They want sex

[BostonPhil]

He's never going to do more than just talk at you and he is most likely a pic collector. I got one just last night who emailed me through M4RN, I noticed this person had reviews so I go to check them out and before I can there is a text asking me for a "fresh pic of u cock now"

 

Didn't even bother with checking his review. I responded to his email with "It doesn't work that way." and attached a picture of my cat.

 

I was feeling a little sassy.

[jjkrkwood]

I don't get this "meet in a public place" or sending face pics

 

These guys arn't wanting to marry you. They want sex

 

 

 

YES, but they are potentially "paying" and want the hottest guy possible that "floats their boat" and "blows their socks off"... If they just wanted sex, they can pickup any unnattractive guy anywhere. They want a "visual fantasy"....

[maxwellissmart]

He's never going to do more than just talk at you and he is most likely a pic collector. I got one just last night who emailed me through M4RN, I noticed this person had reviews so I go to check them out and before I can there is a text asking me for a "fresh pic of u cock now"

 

Didn't even bother with checking his review. I responded to his email with "It doesn't work that way." and attached a picture of my cat.

 

I was feeling a little sassy.

 

I have you beat. In the past 24 hours I've been contacted by:

 

- a guy who has asked me at least 20 times to allow his "lady friend" to videotape us

- 3 young guys who wanted me to come party with them, had no idea who they were talking to and wanted me to send them pics after they sent an initial text saying "u available $$$$?"

- some asshat from NYC who has contacted me twice before and had a very detailed conversation about how I am not willing to travel 4 hours to come see him, so naturally he contacted me again

- the aforementioned "Mr. Nervous"

- my wonderful would-be client with the grammar problem who set up an appointment and then no-showed

- some kid from overseas who plans to come to the US before he gets married and has never even been kissed, but knows he wants to bottom

- a guy who told me I wasn't worth near the amount I was asking, but has contacted me at least 5 times since, wanting a la carte services

- 4 other clients who have yet to return any sort of correspondence.

 

I'm actually considering pulling my ad until I move—and then resurfacing with a completely new profile and identity. I've never had so many weirdos and flakes contacting me on a regular basis, but I guess that's what you get in the big city.

 

Oh, and I forgot the guy from NV who asked if I travel to NV, and I said I'd "be happy to arrange something, when would you like to buy me a ticket to come in?" He never responded to that. Instead, he waited a day and sent me another email thru M4RN, using DC as his home city. I responded with "I thought you were in NV?" "Oh, I'm here on business now. Face pic?" So I checked his IP, and amazingly enough—he was in NV.

[josephga]

I pulled erotic massage from my ad on massage m4m i'm over it

[BostonPhil]

Dear God, move!

 

It is my absolute fave when they include $$$ in their initial contacts. I woke up to this this morning:

 

"can you take hard beating $$"

 

To answer the question directly, yes. Will I? No. Why? Because then I would not be able to work, who wants to hire a guy covered in bumps and bruises?

[jjkrkwood]

Dear God, move!

 

It is my absolute fave when they include $$$ in their initial contacts. I woke up to this this morning:

 

"can you take hard beating $$"

 

To answer the question directly, yes. Will I? No. Why? Because then I would not be able to work, who wants to hire a guy covered in bumps and bruises?

 

Probably S&M and bondage enthusiasts. theres always a market for everything.

[BostonPhil]

Probably S&M and bondage enthusiasts. theres always a market for everything.

 

Well yeah I know. But those are not the people I attract generally.

[jjkrkwood]

Well yeah I know. But those are not the people I attract generally.

 

No worries, ill give you one of my Famous JJ makeovers !

[rguer]

- some kid from overseas who plans to come to the US before he gets married and has never even been kissed, but knows he wants to bottom

 

I can tell you for sure that such people exist.

 

"The never been kissed but wants to bottom" part, I mean. Coming in from overseas to do it seems a bit extreme.

[maxwellissmart]

I can tell you for sure that such people exist.

 

"The never been kissed but wants to bottom" part, I mean. Coming in from overseas to do it seems a bit extreme.

 

He's going to be spending the summer here apparently. It's not that I don't doubt him—it's that he's exceptionally rude and totally came across as a spoiled rich kid. At one point he let me know (in an "oh, and by the way" manner) that I would need to be prepared for picking him up when we met, because he didn't have a car.

 

Oh, my side. Yeah—it won't happen.

[maxwellissmart]

Dear God, move!

 

It is my absolute fave when they include $$$ in their initial contacts. I woke up to this this morning:

 

"can you take hard beating $$"

 

To answer the question directly, yes. Will I? No. Why? Because then I would not be able to work, who wants to hire a guy covered in bumps and bruises?

 

Believe me, if I didn't make somewhat consistent money I would have already. But the plans are in place to bid DC goodbye later this spring. I'm just not sure yet where I'll be landing.

[rguer]

He's going to be spending the summer here apparently. It's not that I don't doubt him—it's that he's exceptionally rude and totally came across as a spoiled rich kid. At one point he let me know (in an "oh, and by the way" manner) that I would need to be prepared for picking him up when we met, because he didn't have a car.

 

Oh, my side. Yeah—it won't happen.

 

You live somewhere that doesn't have taxis?

 

Maybe you should tell you him you'll do it if you can treat him like the spoiled brat he is. Maybe he'll end up liking to be disciplined. Payment in advance.

[maxwellissmart]

You live somewhere that doesn't have taxis?

 

Maybe you should tell you him you'll do it if you can treat him like the spoiled brat he is. Maybe he'll end up liking to be disciplined. Payment in advance.

 

I know, right? It's highly unlikely to pan out anyway—given my genetic lack of patience with most people, and my experience with the last young, foreign asshat who tried to fuck me with no lube.

[down_to_business]

YES, but they are potentially "paying" and want the hottest guy possible that "floats their boat" and "blows their socks off"... If they just wanted sex, they can pickup any unnattractive guy anywhere. They want a "visual fantasy"....

 

OMG I agree with you!

 

I also think we have gotten to such an epidemic level of advertisers that either post pictures or descriptions of themselves that are either 10 years old or of some completely other person that a face pic is almost becomming a necessity to hire.

[maxwellissmart]

OMG I agree with you!

 

I also think we have gotten to such an epidemic level of advertisers that either post pictures or descriptions of themselves that are either 10 years old or of some completely other person that a face pic is almost becomming a necessity to hire.

 

Riiiight—because it's an unbreakable rule that I have to post a face pic that was taken yesterday, rather than one that's also from ten years ago. So many of my clients (and the people on this board) go on and on about discretion, discretion, discretion. You'd think they would appreciate an escort who believes in it and understands its importance by practicing it first hand. I have never yet told a client: "sorry, you'll have to trust me and meet up without seeing me, and I expect to be paid whether you're satisfied or not." To me, offering to meet up first with no expectations and no guarantee of money is far better than sending a pic or talking on the phone—you see me in the flesh, you get an idea of my personality, and it's generally in a safe, casual and commitment-free atmosphere. If that's still not good enough and you require a pic—then you have no business hiring me because I won't be able to please you. Go find someone else.

[+ Tygerscent]

I had a guy inquiring about me, scheduling time, then canceling last minute or simply not being there at the scheduled time. I responded, (as opposed to reacted), with patience and understanding giving him the benefit of the doubt. Turns out he was also dealing with prostate cancer and not feeling so good about himself. Finally, two years later he committed and was there for our appointment. Now he hires me every other month~ He's a great guy~ I feel bad he felt like he had to go things alone for so long~ We have great fun together~ I always try to be there for him no matter what~

Things aren't always cut n dry about what is going on~ It's not fair to assume~ I do my best to remain impartial~

If you had fear, of any kind, how would you want people to respond to you~?

Tyger!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

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How do you deal with a potential client who plays the "I'm nervous" card? Repeatedly?

 

This will be the third go-around with this guy who says he's nervous about meeting and wants face pics. I've already told him I don't send them but would be happy to meet up in person—and he already said earlier he wanted to meet first anyway with maybe "some touching and nothing more to see if we had a connection." A connection. This is where Cynical-Max rolls over in bed and says: "A connection. Seriously? I've done this a while—and I may have had one other person ever suggest something like this—ever."

 

What do you think, escorts? Nervous nelly who needs a little more coaxing, or it ain't gonna happen?

[jasoncarter_dfw]

Having met you a few times...I can absolutely see you being a class act like that!

 

 

I had a guy inquiring about me, scheduling time, then canceling last minute or simply not being there at the scheduled time. I responded, (as opposed to reacted), with patience and understanding giving him the benefit of the doubt. Turns out he was also dealing with prostate cancer and not feeling so good about himself. Finally, two years later he committed and was there for our appointment. Now he hires me every other month~ He's a great guy~ I feel bad he felt like he had to go things alone for so long~ We have great fun together~ I always try to be there for him no matter what~

Things aren't always cut n dry about what is going on~ It's not fair to assume~ I do my best to remain impartial~

If you had fear, of any kind, how would you want people to respond to you~?

Tyger!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

http://www.tygerscent.biz

http://www.daddyreviews.com/review/tyger_portland

http://www.men4rentnow.com (tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

http://www.rentmen.com (AAAtygerscentXXX in Portland Oregon)

http://www.maleescortreview.com (Tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

 

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[Michael Wayne]

TYGER IS RIGHT! Now I know his answer and mine wil not be the popular or politically correct one but I have made a career out of turning nervous clients into regulars. Think about it: Your average client is married with kids and a great job all of which he could lose because of a BAD escort. He is risking everything to see you. Out and openly gay male clients are RARE in the real world of escorting and they make up only 10% of the client base. These guys do not know you. When you do not post or even send face pics it makes them hesitant. They ask what are you hiding? It is a very competitive market these days and most top of the line male escorts have face pics on line or available by request. I have MANY regulars who match TYGERS' client almost 100%. These types once they meet you tend to become the best clients. I know we have to go through alot of BS as escorts but think what the typical client has to go through just to find one good escort. It is very common for a new client to tell me he had to go through ten guys to settle on me..............now, flip side: "I am nervous," may well be law enforcement. That is why I greet every client with a big wet kiss (lol) cops don't kiss! Sorry, the site needed a little humor today!

[Michael Wayne]

all I am saying is that oftentimes a potential client that you think is a total flake turns out to be your best regular. http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1 or http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop