How often do you use the "client review" feature on M4RN?

[maxwellissmart]

I remain surprised that the majority of clients who contact me don't have a prior review—whether positive or negative. When someone gives me the runaround or plays games or is a dick, posting a negative 1-star review is the first thing I do to keep other escorts from going through the same bullshit.

 

I just wish M4RN would put a "reason" field so you could explain why you gave a particular review.

[BostonPhil]

Somewhere this feature of M4RN has been discussed already, although I don't clearly remember where right now. I will not use the review system on M4RN unless it is someone I find to be genuine bad actor, as in poses a danger to my fellow escorts.

 

To sum up the other threads about this I will just say that most clients seemed very concerned about their confidentiality and anonymity being compromised by such a system. As far as I am concerned we can all take the no-shows and the time wasters, we generally are going to know how to spot them a mile away. Some one poses a danger to me when I show up, you know I am going to warn people about it.

 

As for a positive review, not going to happen. Clients pay me for the assurance of discretion and the knowledge that they can comfortably walk around town knowing what happens between us stays there.

 

I don't presume to speak other escorts but I'm pretty sure you would find a similar response from most of them.

[maxwellissmart]

Somewhere this feature of M4RN has been discussed already, although I don't clearly remember where right now. I will not use the review system on M4RN unless it is someone I find to be genuine bad actor, as in poses a danger to my fellow escorts.

 

To sum up the other threads about this I will just say that most clients seemed very concerned about their confidentiality and anonymity being compromised by such a system. As far as I am concerned we can all take the no-shows and the time wasters, we generally are going to know how to spot them a mile away. Some one poses a danger to me when I show up, you know I am going to warn people about it.

 

As for a positive review, not going to happen. Clients pay me for the assurance of discretion and the knowledge that they can comfortably walk around town knowing what happens between us stays there.

 

I don't presume to speak other escorts but I'm pretty sure you would find a similar response from most of them.

 

I typically don't do positive reviews because of a more selfish reason—I want that client for myself. But the very definition of a "no-show" is that they managed to get through all my checks and balances to set up an appointment, and they fucked me over. For that, the very least I can do to return the favor is to blacklist them under that particular screen name.

[BostonPhil]

I typically don't do positive reviews because of a more selfish reason—I want that client for myself. But the very definition of a "no-show" is that they managed to get through all my checks and balances to set up an appointment, and they fucked me over. For that, the very least I can do to return the favor is to blacklist them under that particular screen name.

 

I understand and trust me, there have been times that I wished a client had been reviewed for a no-show. There are many reasons for some one not to show up. And yes a phone call would fix this but what can ya do?

 

There is also no way for a client to dispute anything when an escort does review them, not really fair to them.

[healthguy]

I believe I was the last to ask why clients are not reviewed more. Could the issue of anonymity be addressed, this is just in the case of an interactive event, by asking the client if this would be "ok"? I disagree a bit with Max. I think a good review of a client, could be repeat event!!!

[maxwellissmart]

I believe I was the last to ask why clients are not reviewed more. Could the issue of anonymity be addressed, this is just in the case of an interactive event, by asking the client if this would be "ok"? I disagree a bit with Max. I think a good review of a client, could be repeat event!!!

 

Unfortunately the review feature is so benign that you really get virtually no insight into the appointment or the client—just that it went well, or that the client sucks. In the case of the latter—you can't even tell if there was an appointment.

[Diverdan]

I never check any of the other sites... totally unreliable and worthless IMHO... and I never use the other sites, although I sometimes brose them just for fun, but never to make any decisions... the only ones I put value in are those on this site and what info I sometimes get by using the PM to folks whose opinion I value and want to find out more when they have made very brief comments on the message forum in contrast to the formal reviews.

[GoodFella69]

I think it's great that escorts have an avenue for reviewing clients--giving them a voice when they encounter clients who stand them up, don't want to pay up, etc. I'm just curious whether there is a way for us clients to know if we've ever been (positively or negatively) reviewed by an escort?

 

Goodfella

[BostonPhil]

There is not. The only people who have access to it are an escort you have contacted through M4RN. This is one of the reasons I don't like it much.

[GoodFella69]

There is not. The only people who have access to it are an escort you have contacted through M4RN. This is one of the reasons I don't like it much.

 

BostonPhil,

Thanks for the quick reply to my question. I suppose if I had any reviews, one or more of the escorts I regularly hire would mention it to me.

 

Goodfella

[BostonPhil]

BostonPhil,

Thanks for the quick reply to my question. I suppose if I had any reviews, one or more of the escorts I regularly hire would mention it to me.

 

Goodfella

 

Well, most don't regularly check I don't think because we have to go out and look you up. Except on initial contact through email, they do tell us if a client has a review.

[gallahadesquire]

Where ARE the client reviews on m4rn? i can't find them.

[BostonPhil]

if you're not an escort you can't see them.

[BostonPhil]

I'm sorry, I should have been more clear, if you're not an escort you can't see the link to client reviews. Even if we go to the page, a client has to have contacted us before we have access to a review.

[gallahadesquire]

thanks - I figured that might be the case.

[jawjateck]

I'm glad I cannot read my reviews. It would hyper-inflate my ego to read all of the sterling commentary written about me. hahahahaha.....

[maxwellissmart]

I'm glad I cannot read my reviews. It would hyper-inflate my ego to read all of the sterling commentary written about me. hahahahaha.....

 

The reviews consist of the 1-4 "star system" with no text allowed, unfortunately. The only reason I post or check is to see if some of the people who contact me are merely communications-challenged, or completely a waste of time.

[BostonPhil]

The reviews consist of the 1-4 "star system" with no text allowed, unfortunately. The only reason I post or check is to see if some of the people who contact me are merely communications-challenged, or completely a waste of time.

 

You are able to contact the escort that did the review and find out what the problem was.

[maxwellissmart]

You are able to contact the escort that did the review and find out what the problem was.

 

Well, if they haven't blocked your email.

[seeker630]

You are able to contact the escort that did the review and find out what the problem was.

 

But no way for the client to post HIS side of the story.

[maxwellissmart]

But no way for the client to post HIS side of the story.

 

Take it up with M4RN—I didn't make the system, and by no means do I consider it perfect. Like I said before, I wish they had a text field where I could explain why I posted a negative review of a particular client. And, like I said before—I use this as a way of letting other escorts know that a particular contact is either a flake, a game-player or not worth meeting. If the client doesn't like it—it's certainly far easier for them to change their identity than it is for an escort to.

[BostonPhil]

Well, if they haven't blocked your email.

 

I meant that an escort can contact the one who did the review for the info on why they reviewed a client a certain way

[BostonPhil]

But no way for the client to post HIS side of the story.

 

Yup. But like I said, I don't review clients unless it is some one who is dangerous or refuses to pay.

 

If you're worried you have a bad review just PM me and I will check for you.

[maxwellissmart]

Yup. But like I said, I don't review clients unless it is some one who is dangerous or refuses to pay.

 

If you're worried you have a bad review just PM me and I will check for you.

 

Yesssssssss... seeker (said in the voice of Gollum) ... what is your email? And phone number? I'll check for you too.

[seeker630]

Yesssssssss... seeker (said in the voice of Gollum) ... what is your email? And phone number? I'll check for you too.

 

Ok - let me find a current face pic first!