Guys you meet (thru FRIENDS) that you think may be interested in hiring an escort...

[bigvalboy]

What you view as an insult, I view as an honest assessment of your general writing style, which you put at issue in this thread. If I wanted to be insulting, I'd note my surprise that your messages to me tonight haven't included your oft repeated childish threat/promise to forever leave the forums. Despite your talking smack, I stand by my earlier comment: I learn from your posts and am glad your write messages here, even if I think you could present yourself in a (much) better light. Although I was not one who suggested you should be more like Juan, I think you could learn something about how to present yourself from looking at his posts (as well as those from other escorts who routinely receive compliments on this site).

 

 

Well Tom...just finished reading the exchange you had with another poster...I am heading to bed, but just had to tell you that you showed tremendous restraint. I don't have that sort of demeanor... LOL....My hat goes off to you sir.

[Juan Vancouver]

What I was suggesting, Juan...is that a couple of posters on more than one occasion asked me to mirror your posts. That you write so eloquently and that yours is the 'ideal' way of writing And I said I would not and that we both have our individual style and ways of viewing things. That's what I meant. In doing so, I wanted to get your take on said statement because I can't imagine you condoning anyone to mimic your thought processes.

 

Hey Joey,

 

Personally I think you write in a profoundly eloquent manner. You have a direct and passionate way to get your point across. When you write something, we know exactly how you feel, and that is very important in a communicator.

 

Thank you for clarifying what you meant. I would not feel anything at all if anyone tried to copy anything of mine, but I am convinced that the world is a better place with a Juan and a Joey. There is a clear niche and a function for both of us, and if it is working for you, I think you should tenaciously hold on to yourself. The only genuine and healthy reason to change anything in ourselves is if the behaviour is no longer serving us. The way I am doing things so far is working for me, so chances are that I will continue in the same general direction.

 

I just read the Hemingway post, by the way, and I have no hurt feelings at all. Even if I would have said it in a different way I think I somewhat agree with you; I have not been to the places you have been, I have not been exposed to the same, we are not similar in any way and I don't see why we could ever resemble each other. I can only imagine the irritation that you may have felt when you read the post that prompted your response; all I can say is that I think the original poster's intention seemed to be to want to help you. I am sorry things got out of control.

 

I feel that all comparisons are somehow unfair. They are always so fraught with hurt. Also, God knows that I think it would be a terribly boring world if all escorts were identical... (Okay, that was a little bit of a lie; if there was a large amount of Juans out there, I think I would be hosting a weekly all Juan Orgy. {What, like you never had the fantasy of being in an orgy with many identical twins of yours!})

 

Okay, it's all in the open. I am into myself.

 

(I am not into myself per se; I am just into pretty much anything.)

 

Let's lighten up. I think we come here to share experiences and points of view. We are not here to accuse people or cast aspersions.

 

Big hug to you all!

[Juan Vancouver]

Well Tom...just finished reading the exchange you had with another poster...I am heading to bed, but just had to tell you that you showed tremendous restraint. I don't have that sort of demeanor... LOL....My hat goes off to you sir.

 

Hats off, indeed.

[JoeyBryant]

Let's lighten up. I think we come here to share experiences and points of view. We are not here to accuse people or cast aspersions.

 

Big hug to you all!

 

Juan, in no way am I attempting to make fun of you, but rather take it as a compliment. Art thou an angel in the flesh?

[MiamiLooker]

So back to the subject:

 

I ran into the guy from the bar that was with my friend. I asked him, "so I guess you changed your mind about our plans the other night" He says, "well I seen you dancing with your friend (the one who introduced me to him (the client) to begin with) and thought you were into him. Then he goes on further to say, "I decided I was too drunk and also as time went by I lost my interest in wanting to pay for it".

 

I explained that I was in no way interested in my friend nor him me. That I attempted to get him to dance with me, and that he fully agreed that I would finish my drink and we would leave at a set time. He left prior to that time.

 

See...that's why I just don't have time for the nonsense and to even mess around in bars is not my style. Again, I was not going there to look for clients. I had no intentions of doing so. But, it just so happened to come about and I introduced myself. I've only done that now twice in the 12 months I've lived in the area. The first time, I had did it purposely to get this one guy who kept pestering me off my back.

 

Otherwise, it's a crock of crap and I hate dealing with it. I don't like all that, "I was in the moment then, but now I don't want to pay" nonsense. It's like well, if you're going to regret that you paid later on, I don't even want to deal with you. This dirt bag thought he was entitled to grope my nipples without even buying me a drink. In front of my friends, at the bar I am popular at. And just because he did buy me drink did not quite open up a chance of us even doing anything beyond just dancing.

 

Gawd, one has to kind of carefully weed thru the plethora of cheapskates throughout this town...

 

Maybe he changed his mind because he realized your interest in him was only as a potential paying client.

[jjkrkwood]

Will you shut the fuck up and quit starting shit? Juan asked me a question, let me respond. Don't get my thread off topic with some trite B.S.

 

What I was suggesting, Juan...is that a couple of posters on more than one occasion asked me to mirror your posts. That you write so eloquently and that yours is the 'ideal' way of writing And I said I would not and that we both have our individual style and ways of viewing things. That's what I meant. In doing so, I wanted to get your take on said statement because I can't imagine you condoning anyone to mimic your thought processes.

 

Joey, you might want to offer an apology for your outburst. whether or not you agree with what someone else has to say, you are in NO position or authority to tell them to "shut the fuck up". that is out of line and offensive to EVERYONE on this board. If your goal is to enhance your popularity with your presence here, and hopefully increase your business, you have FAILED miserably IMHO. At this point, I would characterize you as a self-indulgent Hot head....

[JoeyBryant]

Joey, you might want to offer an apology for your outburst. whether or not you agree with what someone else has to say, you are in NO position or authority to tell them to "shut the fuck up". that is out of line and offensive to EVERYONE on this board. If your goal is to enhance your popularity with your presence here, and hopefully increase your business, you have FAILED miserably IMHO. At this point, I would characterize you as a self-indulgent Hot head....

 

Ok, I apologize for using language. I just felt it was off topic. He shouldn't of came at me like that.

 

Anyhow...some good news about this topic. The guy I met at the bar ended up seeing me on one of the free hookup sites online. After our chat at the bar, we decided to go ahead and meet up on our paid arrangement.

 

So for the guy who was saying, "why would guys want to hire you if you're on a site giving it away for free?". Let me explain that I don't give anything away for free and I clearly let the guy know that night at the club that I do not hookup unless it's for paid encounters. He was fine with that. I make it clear on hookup sites that I'm not there to hookup. So, under no circumstances can anyone even for a split second believe that I would be there to hookup.

 

Maybe he changed his mind because he realized your interest in him was only as a potential paying client.

 

Nope, he hired me over the weekend. I thought he was cute and told him so, but at the same time I told him I don't hookup and am looking for a boyfriend (and it wouldn't of been him). If anyone wants to hookup it has to be for pay. He actually explained he was quite drunk that night, and didn't feel comfortable doing any kind of transaction in that state of mind. But they are cool with, because no commitment required.

 

I definitely should have given those other guys at the house party a heads up. I know for a fact I'd of gotten at-least 1 hire out of it. Have to go into these things with my hard hat on.

[zeyfur]

Yawn.

[jjkrkwood]

Yawn.

 

Oh come on now Zey...... I think someone should offer Joey his OWN reality show on Logo....

[BostonPhil]

No really, can you imagine a reality show populated by a bunch of male escorts? It would be one big blur.

[jjkrkwood]

No really, can you imagine a reality show populated by a bunch of male escorts? It would be one big blur.

 

I actually started a thread here about it, and asked for member recommendations on their favorite escorts to play the various roles, BUT noone would touch it, since most would be outting "over the top" escorts they have encountered and didnt want to incriminate themselves..... I still think it would be a hoot !