Running into a client when he's not a client...

[rguer]

But I do request that people use my real name (NOT my escort name) when addressing me in public.

 

At what point along the way do clients learn your real name? Is it common to use an alias for the entire transaction?

[instudiocity]

At what point along the way do clients learn your real name? Is it common to use an alias for the entire transaction?

If I've had a good session and go back for more, at some point we know each other's names. If it was a bad session - I'm prone to forget everything but the AD!

[josephga]

I use to use my Real first and last name on my massage business until late 2009 A practice I have since changed. Now days I never tell my clients my real last name ever

[KMEM]

I suppose to some extent it might depend upon whether they are clients or customers.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest JackF]

For me it depends on the level of trust that I have with the individual. Some I have their personal cell/work/home address, have met family, etc. but that's because they go above & beyond in helping me out with various things. Others I could care less about and they only seem to be prying for info, which I can't stand.

[adriano46]

I have had the situation of being out with friends or business acquaintances and suddenly bumping into an escort I had hired in the past.

 

My reaction is to simply "ignore" him, as much as possible avoid eye contact, and keep out of his "zone" with the hope that he will keep out of mine if we happen tio be in the same place (restuarant, bar, museum, theatre, whatever). I have always felt this was a sort of esprit du corps with escorts; when I am not with them and not paying, they are unknown to me and it is expected that this works on their side too.

 

As for names -- one of the reasons I prefer NOT going to an escorts place for a session is that one has to be pretty dense NOT to notice the name when you ring to be let in. For me, that name is OFF LIMITS, and I try to not think of it nor would I ever write it down. If an escort does confide in me his real name, that is his business, but I never give an escort my family name (as it would turn up on any simple google search). I prefer my anonymity.

 

If an escort decided to come up to me and engage me in talk in front of others, my reaction probably would be a cold stare and subtle body language telling him, "You have crossed a line, that I would prefer you cross back..."

[TruthBTold]

If I I had gotten on well with an escort and I meet him later in a "non-work" situation, I can sense in the first two seconds if he wishes to converse with me. Then, like any other "normal" pair of individuals we talk about the things that interest each other for whatever amount of time seems appropriate. We would not talk about "work" in any way. At the end of the conversation, we would wish each other the best, give each other a peck on the cheek and tell each other that we hope to see each other, if that is the case. I think that normal people can feel when they did not get on very well during an escort session and probably would avoid a conversation or would make it as short as possible.

[Lohengrin1979]

I have had the situation of being out with friends or business acquaintances and suddenly bumping into an escort I had hired in the past.

 

My reaction is to simply "ignore" him, as much as possible avoid eye contact, and keep out of his "zone" with the hope that he will keep out of mine if we happen tio be in the same place (restuarant, bar, museum, theatre, whatever). I have always felt this was a sort of esprit du corps with escorts; when I am not with them and not paying, they are unknown to me and it is expected that this works on their side too.

 

As for names -- one of the reasons I prefer NOT going to an escorts place for a session is that one has to be pretty dense NOT to notice the name when you ring to be let in. For me, that name is OFF LIMITS, and I try to not think of it nor would I ever write it down. If an escort does confide in me his real name, that is his business, but I never give an escort my family name (as it would turn up on any simple google search). I prefer my anonymity.

 

If an escort decided to come up to me and engage me in talk in front of others, my reaction probably would be a cold stare and subtle body language telling him, "You have crossed a line, that I would prefer you cross back..."

 

Is this true even for those escorts you've hired multiple times and gotten acquainted with, or do you not hire them more than once? I couldn't see myself acting this way towards those men I've hired frequently. They may not be friends but you know them and exchanging a few pleasantries would not be looked at askance unless all those you were with also knew of the escort's profession. I also wouldn't coldly deter my personal trainer nor my stylist from saying hello so maybe my view of the client-escort relationship is radically different from yours.

[Guest joeburger]

the few times that i ran into a client out in the open unexpectedly, we either just ignored each other or just said "hi" like we knew each other at the gym. the few times that it has happened they were with a friend or with their wife and i always inforce complete descretion.

 

as for the second part, people are just cheap and want everything for free, i'm sure they are a nightmare at resturants.

 

joeburger

[scottspearsxxx]

If a client is by themselves and they wave at me or invite me for coffee, etc of course I am going to acknowledge them, but if they are with other people, I may smile or nod but that is about it. It is about respecting privacy I think.

 

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