On the topic of three-ways...

[maxwellissmart]

I don't particularly like them, and I try not to schedule them. However, if I do decide to do one in the future (since a regualr client I do like asked me)—I have a question about pricing. What's your policy for two clients?

 

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[josephga]

If say a couple wants to hire you. imo you should atleast get one and a half times your rate

[instudiocity]

Interesting concept Max. As a client, I'm thinking - if he's charging for time only, why would he charge more? Or are you charging for FACE time and TWO faces = Double Time pay? Ultimately, you're in a negotiation unless you already advertise more than one-on-one time by the hour/night/day/week.

[maxwellissmart]

Interesting concept Max. As a client, I'm thinking - if he's charging for time only, why would he charge more? Or are you charging for FACE time and TWO faces = Double Time pay? Ultimately, you're in a negotiation unless you already advertise more than one-on-one time by the hour/night/day/week.

 

But using that logic would allow you to come to the conclusion that an escort who will be the center of attention at say—a gang bang with 12 guys—should get paid the same amount as seeing a single client as long as it's the same amount of time. I tend to agree with JGA that you have a surcharge per additional person. I'd just like to see how some of the other escorts handle this.

[josephga]

I was just thinking about that if its all about time whats to stop a person from bring half a dozen guys over. I say surcharge

[Epigonos]

This is a very interesting question. Being single, I have never done this type of three-way. I have, however, done of number of three-ways with two escorts and myself. In those cases I have always paid each escort his regular fee. In the case of one escort and two clients why wouldn’t each client pay the escort his regular fee?

[Guest JackF]

This is a very interesting question. Being single, I have never done this type of three-way. I have, however, done of number of three-ways with two escorts and myself. In those cases I have always paid each escort his regular fee. In the case of one escort and two clients why wouldn’t each client pay the escort his regular fee?

 

 

I would think that the two clients would NOT want to each pay the escort his regular fee because 8 times out of 10, the two "clients" are probably lovers/boyfriends, so they would not want to do that or would try to negotiate against that. I definitely say there should be a surcharge, as dealing with two (or more) guys at a time is certainly more "work" than just having a one-on-one session.

[maxwellissmart]

Hi Maxwell,

 

There are many different ways to look at this and this is mine:

 

If an escort meets two clients, then I guess that both clients want to have a satisfied and pleasant feeling afterwards, right? Well, that means that the escort can't concentrate on one person only to be "happy and smiling" afterwards, he has to concentrate on two!

 

This is best illustrated by a couple that I saw often in Amsterdam. If I paid just a bit more attention to partner A, partner B wouldn't be happy afterwards. However, if I paid just a bit more attention to partner B, then it would be partner A who wouldn't be happy afterwards.

 

I find it reasonable that the compensation is "adjusted" if an escort meets two clients for a threesome.

 

Just my two pennies.

 

Btw, I looove threesomes. The more dicks, the more fun!

 

Best, Anton.

 

I think they're fun if you're being trashy and in a sex club or something, but almost every paid 3-way I've been in has turned into this:

 

Client A: Now fuck him. I wanna see you fuck him.

Client B: Ooookayyy... but I don't want to get fucked hard.

Client A: Yes you do. Fuck him. Fuck him hard. (Client B is in obvious stress at the idea) FUCK HIMMMMMM!!!!!!!

 

And it ruins the whole thing as I go soft because I'm afraid of hurting Client B. If one client would shut the hell up and stop trying to be Cecil B DeMille, we might actually enjoy ourselves—but it never seems to happen that way.

[corndog]

I think that a surcharge is appropriate, however, it really reveals that statements like "rates are for my time only..." are B.S., as we all know them to be.

[cany10011]

I've only paid the going rates for each individual. One got 150 the other got 300. Both were friends and were fine with the remuneration.

[adriano46]

It is not really clear which variation Max is speaking about -- he and another escort with one client, or him alone with two clients??

 

In the first, if it is two escorts, I usually pay each the fee he usually demands for time (unless one or ther other tells me otherwise).

 

I have never been in the situation where I was with another client and we hired a escort, but I would think he should be paid more than his usual fee for one-on-one. Just my 2 cents worth.

[maxwellissmart]

It is not really clear which variation Max is speaking about -- he and another escort with one client, or him alone with two clients??

 

In the first, if it is two escorts, I usually pay each the fee he usually demands for time (unless one or ther other tells me otherwise).

 

I have never been in the situation where I was with another client and we hired a escort, but I would think he should be paid more than his usual fee for one-on-one. Just my 2 cents worth.

 

1 escort, 2 clients.

[+ Travis69]

1 escort, 2 clients.

If your normal "seesion" is one hour do you think you will need 90 minutes total time to satisfy both clients? If only 1 hour then charge 1.5 times your normal rate to be divided between the 2 clients. If 90 minutes then charge twice your normal rate to be divided between the 2 clients.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I think that a surcharge is appropriate, however, it really reveals that statements like "rates are for my time only..." are B.S., as we all know them to be.

 

I paid my way through college teaching private swimming lessons. I had one fee for 1:1 lessons and a slightly lower fee per kid when teaching them together, but it was a higher fee in my pocket. Teaching two at once was more difficult than teaching one kid as I had to keep an eye on each child.

 

I think having a higher fee to two is no different. I must be more difficult for an escort to entertain two clients simultaneously. That alone isn't contrary to the "money is for time only" claim.

[Guest JackF]

If your normal "seesion" is one hour do you think you will need 90 minutes total time to satisfy both clients? If only 1 hour then charge 1.5 times your normal rate to be divided between the 2 clients. If 90 minutes then charge twice your normal rate to be divided between the 2 clients.

 

 

I agree, then after you (the escort) suggests this price adjustment to the client(s) via email, phone, whatever the case may be, then you get the joys of dealing with those who are "coupon clippers". Or one that's trying to negotiate a cheaper rate than advertised, those who don't grasp that having two at once is more difficult therefore it would be appropriate to increase the rate accordingly.

 

....then again, there's always a few out there that will just never get it haha

[SteveEscort]

I don't particularly like them, and I try not to schedule them. However, if I do decide to do one in the future (since a regualr client I do like asked me)—I have a question about pricing. What's your policy for two clients?

 

Phone lines are open.

 

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I did a couple of them last year but I have not done a single one this year. One was two separate men who didn't know each other but were both regulars of mine and fancied an anonymous 3 way but with me ONLY as the escort and one where it was a regular who invited a "likeminded working colleague" along. Both of which I blogged about.

 

My personal dislike is 3 ways with another escort - I get asked all the time for it and I really don't like it. Last time I did one, the other escort couldn't stay hard and so I had to do twice the amount of work. I was fooking knackered and vowed never to do it again.

 

I get texts from local working boys, I have never heard of asking if I will join him and a client and they usually want me to accommodate. There is no way in the world any new kids on the block doing this work are coming to my home. I dislike other escorts knowing where I live because of trouble I have had in the past. All of the trouble I have encountered in this work has been from other escorts and not clients.

[maxwellissmart]

My personal dislike is 3 ways with another escort - I get asked all the time for it and I really don't like it. Last time I did one, the other escort couldn't stay hard and so I had to do twice the amount of work. I was fooking knackered and vowed never to do it again.

 

That's usually the type of 3-way I would be more inclined to do, because if the client is awful you can dilute the experience by having someone who is usually attractive and technically sound in bed. "Hey, look at US play—hot huh? We're going to play and put on a show—no no no, you WATCH."

 

I agree with you about inviting escorts to your home. Escorts are trash—they do things like turn down your offer of wine, then they get up and serve themselves. Shameful.

[Michael Wayne]

built my biz by NOT adding a fee for a second guy. It is still a one or two hour deal. 3 ways are usually enjoyable and/or the time passes fast. COUPLES are a specialty of mine. Also I LOVE to work with other escorts! http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[maxwellissmart]

...built my biz by NOT adding a fee for a second guy.

 

That's kinda selling yourself and your services short, isn't it? What would you do if they wanted to add a third guy?

[leigh.bess.toad]

One guy I know, and have done 3 ways with other escorts, charges a flat fee above and beyond his usual rate for having the 3rd person. assuming it is a 3rd person they have never worked with. It isn't double his usual rate, but certainly compensates him for the unknown going into the session. Now if it is with another escort that he recommends, no extra fee is involved. And if it's someone we've played with together before, that extra fee is waived. Now what he would do if it was two clients, both of whom have hired him separately before, I don't know what would be the situation there.

 

Three (or more) ways can be dicey because you don't know the dynamics of the group until you are in it. Fortunately, I've never had a bad one. Hell, I've never even had a just okay one. They've all be incredible. I think have reasonable expectations helps. My goal in a three way is for everyone to play and everyone to have fun. Forget I'm the client and let's just play. It's sex. It's supposed to be fun.

 

Since I can imagine the situation with 1 escort and 2 clients can be more work and possibly even more stressful, an extra fee is certainly in line.

[raulgmanzo]

Threeways are fun. Have done them with known escorts, unknown escorts, and two, even three clients.

 

Most often the 2 clients are a couple, and sometimes they are not. On occasion one of the "clients" does not know that I am an escort and have been hired.

I have several regulars that fit all the above client permutations. Yes including the where one of the clients still -presumably- doesn't know that I'm an escort.

 

At first I was nervous about couples and even on occasion made myself unavailable. Now that I've gotten much better at them I enjoy them and have a great time.

 

My fee remains the same, $200 for the first hour then $100 for the next hour.

 

There are however situations in which I think an hour or even two may not be enough

time to do what the clients has in mind or to make it worth my travel or preparation. In those cases I will ask for a 2 or more hour minimum or ask for compensation for expenses or preparation time. This is really no different than an appointment with a single client that requires some particular preparation or distant travel.

 

But in any case I expect the client to inform me ahead of time if there will be ANY participants other than he and I.

 

Couples or any two clients are not necessarily more work and sometimes depending on the dynamic can actually be easier.

Other times yes it can be more work. Luckily I enjoy my work.

 

I like having a simple pricing scheme.

 

I don't particularly like them, and I try not to schedule them. However, if I do decide to do one in the future (since a regualr client I do like asked me)—I have a question about pricing. What's your policy for two clients?

 

Phone lines are open.

[Guest joeburger]

since it's a regular and you don't want to ruin that relationship, i would chare a fee and a half.

[scottspearsxxx]

My rates are the same regardless. One, two, three... check me out at http://www.ScottSpearsXXX.com

 

Thanks,

Scott