Kristian Elix

[RockHard]

Keeping it real.

 

When I post on this site I always have and always will speak only for myself.

 

When I place someone's Quote in my reply, I always speak to the content of the quote. It does not mean I'm speaking directly to the author of the quote. If I intend to address the author directly, I always include the author's name in my reply.

 

I find your comment condescending and presumptuous.

 

"Cupid's arrow" was used in a question. The question was to the board and it was rhetorical. It was not a "comment" directed at any one individual. Not sure what to say about overly sensitive men who take rhetorical questions personally.

 

anyone who has ever had personal relationship with anyone who has been pos is an extremely disconcerning...I am disappointed you feel that Kristian should have his past relationship from several years ago held over his head.

 

It's very difficult to respond to a poorly written reply.

 

So let me be clear: people are free to have sex with whomever they want. As a customer making a purchase, information matters to me. I ask questions when I purchase, and I make decisions based on the answers I receive. I don't tip-toe around the subject of STDs. If I feel an escort (or sex tryst) try to tip-toe around the subject, all deals are off.

 

I realize there are no guarantees and everyone should play safely. But the truth is, many escorts are NOT HIV+. Many escorts do NOT have herpes. Aside from all safety assumptions, I like to know the truth before I engage.

 

If gay-for-pay porn star Reese Rideout (Nicholas Dent) accidentally gets herpes from his wife, Becki (she does not have herpes), show me the fool who thinks the news won't have an effect on his career.

 

Some gay men treat HIV and barebacking as if they are no big deal. I'm not one of those men.

[RexAll]

When I place someone's Quote in my reply, I always speak to the content of the quote. It does not mean I'm speaking directly to the author of the quote. If I intend to address the author directly, I always include the author's name in my reply.

 

 

 

"Cupid's arrow" was used in a question. The question was to the board and it was rhetorical. It was not a "comment" directed at any one individual. Not sure what to say about overly sensitive men who take rhetorical questions personally.

 

 

 

It's very difficult to respond to a poorly written reply.

 

So let me be clear: people are free to have sex with whomever they want. As a customer making a purchase, information matters to me. I ask questions when I purchase, and I make decisions based on the answers I receive. I don't tip-toe around the subject of STDs. If I feel an escort (or sex tryst) try to tip-toe around the subject, all deals are off.

 

I realize there are no guarantees and everyone should play safely. But the truth is, many escorts are NOT HIV+. Many escorts do NOT have herpes. Aside from all safety assumptions, I like to know the truth before I engage.

 

If gay-for-pay porn star Reese Rideout (Nicholas Dent) accidentally gets herpes from his wife, Becki (she does not have herpes), show me the fool who thinks the news won't have an effect on his career.

 

Some gay men treat HIV and barebacking as if they are no big deal. I'm not one of those men.

 

Are we revealing names now- I don't care that much if Reese's real name is exposed- but should his wife's name be bandied about?

 

Rex

[Gar1eth]

Jimbo I know you feel your friend should be called a hero because he disclosed in his blog several years ago, the fact that “a certain escort was pos and was not disclosing that fact to his clients.” However, I feel he showed complete lack humanity and it came off as doing so for personal gain, maybe not intentionally but it did for many. If he knew his first response should have been Avery and then to Daddy. He practically has a hot line to Daddy and finally if need be to local health authorities. Disclosing these facts in a blog as he did brings back a time so called journalists rushed to press, “A Hollywood mega star is actually gay and has had a long relationship with several men in Hollywood” It also creates a panic for those who have been with Avery. Public disclosure absolutely, but the way it was done, maybe not the best way.

 

I know your friend, I have hired him in general I think he is really did not mean to sensationalize the subject but made an error I judgment. We all have done that, but jumping in here and sensationalizing it again and trying to exonerate your friend though the discomfort and discrediting of Kristian, is again in poor taste.

 

Wow- is that a blast from the past. I don't follow Jimbo's friend's blog hardly at all ( is it still being published?), but I remember either reading that little news item on it or reading it after someone posted it here. I really wondered if he was talking about a certain well known couple in NYC at the time or possibly a well known couple in Baltimore

(Richard and I can't remember his partner's nom de plum- big bearish guy used to wear a cut off lumberjack's shirt showing a magnificent hairy chest and baseball cap on).

 

Gman

[RockHard]

Have you tried this thing called Google?

 

I don't care that much if Reese's real name is exposed- but should his wife's name be bandied about?

 

I would never expose anything that wasn't already public. Nicholas and Becki are quite public. They've both given published interviews. I do not know for a fact that Becki is her real name.

[RexAll]

I would never expose anything that wasn't already public. Nicholas and Becki are quite public. They've both given published interviews. I do not know for a fact that Becki is her real name.

 

My mistake. I didn't know they were that public with their names. My heartfelt apologies. I withdraw, figuratively at least, my previous post.

 

Rex

[jimboivyo]

Jimbo I know you feel your friend should be called a hero because he disclosed in his blog several years ago, the fact that “a certain escort was pos and was not disclosing that fact to his clients.” However, I feel he showed complete lack humanity and it came off as doing so for personal gain, maybe not intentionally but it did for many. If he knew his first response should have been Avery and then to Daddy. He practically has a hot line to Daddy and finally if need be to local health authorities. Disclosing these facts in a blog as he did brings back a time so called journalists rushed to press, “A Hollywood mega star is actually gay and has had a long relationship with several men in Hollywood” It also creates a panic for those who have been with Avery. Public disclosure absolutely, but the way it was done, maybe not the best way.

 

I know your friend, I have hired him in general I think he is really did not mean to sensationalize the subject but made an error I judgment. We all have done that, but jumping in here and sensationalizing it again and trying to exonerate your friend though the discomfort and discrediting of Kristian, is again in poor taste.

 

you don't know what I feel because I never made that clear. please don't put words into my mouth. I didn't know benjamin back when he wrote that, so I don't feel comfortable commenting on it. What I did say was that this irresponsibility has been going on for far too long with many guys on this message board acting as wide eyed apologists or covering up for folks. It's unfortunate.

 

don't blame benjamin on this. blame the jack asses who continue to perpetuate the lie and continue the spread of a disease. the ultimate in 'poor taste' is not being clear about your health status from the beginning.

[+ glutes]

you don't know what I feel because I never made that clear. please don't put words into my mouth. I didn't know benjamin back when he wrote that, so I don't feel comfortable commenting on it.

 

But the point is, you did comment.

 

Before being a spokesman for a prostitute, you better investigate your (cough cough) 'client'...

[Okliehomo]

For God's Sake.....

 

Really?? You guys are going to take a post about a simply amazing escort like Kristian and turn it into some sort of morality play about Athan and BN?? From 8 years ago... fuck that.

 

We are all playing with fire here. For all we know, they could all have it or have been with someone who does... They fuck for a living... and for fun.... and apparently, some times for love... what are the odds??

 

Abstinence is the only real way to be totally safe and if we were into that, we surely wouldn't be hanging out in these parts, would we, boys?? We can ask and ask and ask... but that doesn't mean for one mean minute that we are going to get the truth.... and, we are rock hard foolish if we think otherwise if there is a lie to tell.... So... we all just put a condom on it and roll the dice.... hoping that the odds on our side. And do any of us fully disclose??? We've had boyfriends, and most of you all, wives... tons of other escorts... who's really at risk here, us or them? We are all quite obviously some kind of .... um.. slut? tramp?.... *****... and as such, we pose the the same kind of risk.

 

What totally fucking astounds me about this ridiculous thread is that you guys are so quick to question Kristian's viability based upon a relationship at least 10 years over and so quick to anoint admitted barebackers on film... quite the double standard.... seriously, we are going to question and cast stones at what a guy did in his private life MAYBE ?????? and then turn around and exalt and extoll guys that take and give new cum professionally quite DEFINITELY.. !!!! So stupid.

 

Okie

[orbital sander]

Really?? You guys are going to take a post about a simply amazing escort like Kristian and turn it into some sort of morality play about Athan and BN?? From 8 years ago... fuck that.

 

We are all playing with fire here. For all we know, they could all have it or have been with someone who does... They fuck for a living... and for fun.... and apparently, some times for love... what are the odds??

 

Abstinence is the only real way to be totally safe and if we were into that, we surely wouldn't be hanging out in these parts, would we, boys?? We can ask and ask and ask... but that doesn't mean for one mean minute that we are going to get the truth.... and, we are rock hard foolish if we think otherwise if there is a lie to tell.... So... we all just put a condom on it and roll the dice.... hoping that the odds on our side. And do any of us fully disclose??? We've had boyfriends, and most of you all, wives... tons of other escorts... who's really at risk here, us or them? We are all quite obviously some kind of .... um.. slut? tramp?.... *****... and as such, we pose the the same kind of risk.

 

What totally fucking astounds me about this ridiculous thread is that you guys are so quick to question Kristian's viability based upon a relationship at least 10 years over and so quick to anoint admitted barebackers on film... quite the double standard.... seriously, we are going to question and cast stones at what a guy did in his private life MAYBE ?????? and then turn around and exalt and extoll guys that take and give new cum professionally quite DEFINITELY.. !!!! So stupid.

 

Okie

 

Thank you, I am glad that someone actually posted something that made sense here!

[bigvalboy]

Really?? You guys are going to take a post about a simply amazing escort like Kristian and turn it into some sort of morality play about Athan and BN?? From 8 years ago... fuck that.

 

We are all playing with fire here. For all we know, they could all have it or have been with someone who does... They fuck for a living... and for fun.... and apparently, some times for love... what are the odds??

 

Abstinence is the only real way to be totally safe and if we were into that, we surely wouldn't be hanging out in these parts, would we, boys?? We can ask and ask and ask... but that doesn't mean for one mean minute that we are going to get the truth.... and, we are rock hard foolish if we think otherwise if there is a lie to tell.... So... we all just put a condom on it and roll the dice.... hoping that the odds on our side. And do any of us fully disclose??? We've had boyfriends, and most of you all, wives... tons of other escorts... who's really at risk here, us or them? We are all quite obviously some kind of .... um.. slut? tramp?.... *****... and as such, we pose the the same kind of risk.

 

What totally fucking astounds me about this ridiculous thread is that you guys are so quick to question Kristian's viability based upon a relationship at least 10 years over and so quick to anoint admitted barebackers on film... quite the double standard.... seriously, we are going to question and cast stones at what a guy did in his private life MAYBE ?????? and then turn around and exalt and extoll guys that take and give new cum professionally quite DEFINITELY.. !!!! So stupid.

 

Okie

 

Thank you Okie...Just received a very nice email from Kristian, thanking me for my comments, but we both agreed that it is sad that the thread turned so negative...

[Guy Fawkes]

Kristian be good people... Let's call it a night...

 

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[RockHard]

Thinking Big Picture...

 

We can ask and ask and ask... but that doesn't mean for one mean minute that we are going to get the truth.... and, we are rock hard foolish if we think otherwise if there is a lie to tell

 

It is always foolish to delude yourself, for sure. There is no such thing as 100% risk free, concerning anything in life. But even at 98%, I still ask the tough questions.

 

If a man is going to lie to my face about anything, then I want to see his face as he tells his lie. You can't know what the truth looks like until you study the lies.

 

Perception in this business can be a bitch. From my experience, there isn't any rumor that can't be squashed, if the need exists.

 

PS I mean no disrespect to Daddy.

[seeker630]

Really?? You guys are going to take a post about a simply amazing escort like Kristian and turn it into some sort of morality play about Athan and BN?? From 8 years ago... fuck that.

 

We are all playing with fire here. For all we know, they could all have it or have been with someone who does... They fuck for a living... and for fun.... and apparently, some times for love... what are the odds??

 

Abstinence is the only real way to be totally safe and if we were into that, we surely wouldn't be hanging out in these parts, would we, boys?? We can ask and ask and ask... but that doesn't mean for one mean minute that we are going to get the truth.... and, we are rock hard foolish if we think otherwise if there is a lie to tell.... So... we all just put a condom on it and roll the dice.... hoping that the odds on our side. And do any of us fully disclose??? We've had boyfriends, and most of you all, wives... tons of other escorts... who's really at risk here, us or them? We are all quite obviously some kind of .... um.. slut? tramp?.... *****... and as such, we pose the the same kind of risk.

 

What totally fucking astounds me about this ridiculous thread is that you guys are so quick to question Kristian's viability based upon a relationship at least 10 years over and so quick to anoint admitted barebackers on film... quite the double standard.... seriously, we are going to question and cast stones at what a guy did in his private life MAYBE ?????? and then turn around and exalt and extoll guys that take and give new cum professionally quite DEFINITELY.. !!!! So stupid.

 

Okie

 

Okie, thanks for speaking up and expressing the frustration so many of us are feeling!

[Steven_Draker]

Wearing a condom simply is not enough information for me. Aside from all safety assumptions, I like to know the truth before I engage.

 

From what I know, wearing a condom has saved me so far from catching any STD. I can say for myself that using a condom can save a life.

 

Good luck with knowing the truth.

 

If a man is going to lie to my face about anything, then I want to see his face as he tells his lie. You can't know what the truth looks like until you study the lies.

 

With attitude like that you're most likely to hear what you WANT to hear. Maybe you might want to change your approach. Just sayin' ...

 

It is always foolish to delude yourself, for sure. There is no such thing as 100% risk free, concerning anything in life. But even at 98%, I still ask the tough questions.

 

So according to this anonymous poster who comes here to pass judgment about an escort (and means no disrespect to Daddy) we have to avoid anyone who has been in contact with any Poz folks?

 

Alas some people seem so out-of-touch with the real world. Ever considered joining a monastery?

[Epigonos]

Good god people I'm most definitely with Daddy on this one. LET'S CLOSE THIS ONE AND MOVE ON!!!!!

[bigvalboy]

Good god people I'm most definitely with Daddy on this one. LET'S CLOSE THIS ONE AND MOVE ON!!!!!

 

Daddy tried to be nice last night, but know one took the hint!!!!.....uuuummmm

[robberbaron4u]

In my honesty, I admit that Kristin has a "look to die for". He is the stuff of dreams; good night, sweet prince. . .

[RockHard]

Ever considered joining a monastery?

 

As I get older, I'm considering a lot of surprising things.

 

When an escort publicly states that he is HIV negative, I pass judgment when I decide to take the escort at his word.

[robberbaron4u]

The Benedictines set the best table with regard to good fare complimented by excellent wines. . .

[Bosguy]

Just when I thought the Forum had become positive again, members have chosen to turn an informative thread about a highly respected working guy into someyhing totally negative and vaguely relavent. Lets get it back before negativity once again rears its ugly head. Close this down out of respect!

Kristian, I don't know you, but my apologies.

 

Boston Bill