How Early to Call an Escort

[Phil_musc]

They didn't kick you to the curb because you're just so darned cute. They could sense it and the rest is history.

[Guest JackF]

I recently contacted a very popular escort by email, and it was 31/2 mo. in advance. I prefaced my inquiry with the acknowledgement that I knew that he might not be in town on the requested date. He did not seem to think that I was a flake. He did say that he didn't exactly know his schedule that far in advance, but that, he would try to arrange whatever came up to include me. He then asked about me and responded promptly to the information. I also used the phrase "barring disaster" I would be there on that date. Now, I am a newbie, but I think that this is only polite. I very much want this escort, so why not acknowledge that I value him so much that I'm willing to commit months in advance?? Now I'm wondering if I should contact him again to apologize for the early request and blame it on my newness!?

 

 

As others have mentioned, I wouldn't contact him again until 2-3 weeks out, then possibly again 2-3 days prior to getting together. I agree with other posters that being overly communicating can be a turn-off and can often times be a hassle, if that makes sense. You don't want to give him the impression you may flake and certainly don't tell him you're a newbie until you've met or if at all. You could say something like, "I'm sorta new to this, so if you could sort of take charge, I would appreciate that and it would help me have a better time." Or something along those lines. Hope that helps.

[Guest countryboywny]

As LBT has said, we all make "newbie" mistakes. I was fortunate that when I first started hiring I contacted a very professional guy a month in advance. I was totally honest, told him I was new, that I'm a bit anal about wanting to make sure that he'll be available when I'm in town etc. etc. He handled me perfectly, told me that he was looking forward to seeing me, understood my "first time" jitters and was very gracious in accepting my request for an appointment so far in advance. I contacted him 3 times during the month prior to our appointment, once at two weeks out, once 2 days out, and once to confirm that I was in town and give him my room number. I am now one of his "regulars". If I contact an escort for an appointment, and he feels it's too far in advance and puts me off, then I move on. It makes me feel disrespected and that would carry over into the appointment if I pursued it.

[ErieBear]

Thank you all for your comments. I am planning a trip in March and contacted an escort already. It was actually good that I did because his schedule is filling up fast (he's got tons of good reviews and you would all approve). So, I guess it was a good thing that I contacted him 5-6 weeks out, lol.

[Guest countryboywny]

Thank you all for your comments. I am planning a trip in March and contacted an escort already. It was actually good that I did because his schedule is filling up fast (he's got tons of good reviews and you would all approve). So, I guess it was a good thing that I contacted him 5-6 weeks out, lol.

 

and did he treat you nicely and accept the appointment?

[ErieBear]

and did he treat you nicely and accept the appointment?

 

He treated me incredibly nice. He's from here, so he's seen a lot of my posts and new what was going on. We ended up talking for about 20-30 minutes. We had to do some maneuvering to get a date that worked, but we got it to work out.

[Guest countryboywny]

He treated me incredibly nice. He's from here, so he's seen a lot of my posts and new what was going on. We ended up talking for about 20-30 minutes. We had to do some maneuvering to get a date that worked, but we got it to work out.

 

Ahhh, you found a real pro! Congrats!

[Bosguy]

I'm a very organized person who likes to plan ahead. My first experience with a true pro began with a phone inquiry 2 months prior to my desired meeting to make sure his availability was accurate in my city. It was and we kept in touch as time neared, by various means of communication (our first meeting) and everything turned out marvelous I think it has to involve interest, availabilty, and frequent communication. That scary first time advanced request has gone on to be numerous times together country wide and will mean many more. The time frame is not the major issue, but the reality and honesty of the meeting.

 

Boston Bill

[down_to_business]

I would also think that the length of the appointment should contribute to the advance planning. For example, if you are trying to schedule a 2 week African safari with an escort, its not unreasonable to want to book something 6 months in advance. Purchasing non-refundable airline tickets and immediately forwarding the airline confirmation to the escort is a good indicator that you are serious and reliable. Trying to book a 1 hour meeting four months in advance is probably something that wouldn't go over so well with many escorts.

 

Of course it helps if the escort is kind enough to put something like same day appointments accepted only in his advertisement if he prefers to take same day appointments only to prevent trying to schedule an advance appointment with him.