How much latitude do you give an escort?

[bigvalboy]

Baaaa-HAHAHA, how do you age 30 pounds?

 

Laughing about this is not addressing the real problem here. Glutes point is well made. You wouldn't be laughing if it was your money that was on the line. Recently went through this problem and having someone leave you 1200 bucks lighter in the wallet with pics that are inaccurate is a problem that we ALL should be concerned about.

[jjkrkwood]

Not really clear on BigValBoys comment about being left 1200 bucks lighter in the wallet ? If the escort showed up, and was nOT who/what he represented himself to be, but the cleint went thru with the session anyway, and paid the Full fee apparently, then who's the bigger fool ?

 

The client obviously made his decision to discount the photos and who he thought would actually show up, procede with the appt and therefore has noone to blame but himself. As the old adage goes: "Dont Cry over spilt Milk"... and "Its only Money". Obviously if the client can spend $1200 on sex, I wouldnt cry for him....

[instudiocity]

Caveat emptor, my friend. You unwrap a burger and it's a chicken breast, you go back to the counter and get a burger. You buy a shirt marked L, take out of the bag and it's a Boy's Large, you take it back and get the right size. You open the door and what you're looking at is 10 years older and 30 pounds heavier (or lighter), you keep your money in your pocket as you close the door. It's really simple.

 

If you paid someone $1,200 after they didn't match their advertising, then you made the decision - maybe you let the little head make the decision, but you made the decision to pay someone who, at the least, misrepresented the product. You're the one who rewarded the schadenfreude.

 

Why would you vote YES with TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS and then complain about it? HUH? The problem here is not escort misrepresentation in advertising. The problem here is your failure to get the product you were buying. Why did you pay him? What's wrong with saying, "Sorry, you look nothing like your pictures. This isn't going to work."?

 

Laughing about this is not addressing the real problem here. Glutes point is well made. You wouldn't be laughing if it was your money that was on the line. Recently went through this problem and having someone leave you 1200 bucks lighter in the wallet with pics that are inaccurate is a problem that we ALL should be concerned about.

[robberbaron4u]

Truth in advertising is the name of the game for most fellow travelers making a hire of a rentboy; and, one of the reasons I insist on an interview with the rentboy before committing to a booking. If a rentboy publishes an advertisement in which photographs other than himself are used, he should qualify the pictorial representation of himself as "comparable".

[instudiocity]

Baaaa-HAHAHA, how do you age 30 pounds?

Laughing about this is not addressing the real problem here. Glutes point is well made. You wouldn't be laughing if it was your money that was on the line. Recently went through this problem and having someone leave you 1200 bucks lighter in the wallet with pics that are inaccurate is a problem that we ALL should be concerned about.

Oh, yeah, and I'm laughing at the concept of 'aging 30 pounds' which reminds me of aging a side of beef, not an escort gaining 30 pounds on his photos.

[jjkrkwood]

Caveat emptor, my friend. You unwrap a burger and it's a chicken breast, you go back to the counter and get a burger. You buy a shirt marked L, take out of the bag and it's a Boy's Large, you take it back and get the right size. You open the door and what you're looking at is 10 years older and 30 pounds heavier (or lighter), you keep your money in your pocket as you close the door. It's really simple.

 

If you paid someone $1,200 after they didn't match their advertising, then you made the decision - maybe you let the little head make the decision, but you made the decision to pay someone who, at the least, misrepresented the product. You're the one who rewarded the schadenfreude.

 

Why would you vote YES with TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS and then complain about it? HUH? The problem here is not escort misrepresentation in advertising. The problem here is your failure to get the product you were buying. Why did you pay him? What's wrong with saying, "Sorry, you look nothing like your pictures. This isn't going to work."?

 

Touche' INS, we totally see eye-to-eye. I believe the escort bets on you allowing the session eventhough he lied to you because he is standing there and you are honry and have taken your viagra.... Your loss. dont complain. You obviously DID get something out of it.

[bigvalboy]

Not really clear on BigValBoys comment about being left 1200 bucks lighter in the wallet ? If the escort showed up, and was nOT who/what he represented himself to be, but the cleint went thru with the session anyway, and paid the Full fee apparently, then who's the bigger fool ?

 

The client obviously made his decision to discount the photos and who he thought would actually show up, procede with the appt and therefore has noone to blame but himself. As the old adage goes: "Dont Cry over spilt Milk"... and "Its only Money". Obviously if the client can spend $1200 on sex, I wouldnt cry for him....

 

Since you were not there and not privy to all the circumstances and the complicated situation involving several friends in which dinner plans had already been prearranged it is inaccurate for you to call anyone a fool..AND "noone" is crying, simplying discussing and age old problem that all escorts and clients must deal with. It is far less about the money than the inaccurate representation, the money is only part of the equation, but you knew that, right? ...AND if you had $1,200 dollars to lose , which I suspect you don't, perhaps your sarcastic tone would be a little different. As Always, BVB

[instudiocity]

Since you were not there and not privy to all the circumstances and the complicated situation involving several friends in which dinner plans had already been prearranged it is inaccurate for you to call anyone a fool..AND "noone" is crying, simplying discussing and age old problem that all escorts and clients must deal with. It is far less about the money than the inaccurate representation, the money is only part of the equation, but you knew that, right? ...AND if you had $1,200 dollars to spend , which I suspect you don't, perhaps your sarcastic tone would be a little different. As Always, BVB

IF TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS! wasn't an issue, why was it even mentioned? So are you now expanding on your post and admitting to having a first time hire for a dinner companion with friends? You took someone whom you do not know into a social event with friends?

 

Yeah, I guess the $1,200 wasn't such a big deal, in comparison. You are a far greater risk taker than I, my fellow poster.

[jjkrkwood]

Since you were not there and not privy to all the circumstances and the complicated situation involving several friends in which dinner plans had already been prearranged it is inaccurate for you to call anyone a fool..AND "noone" is crying, simplying discussing and age old problem that all escorts and clients must deal with. It is far less about the money than the inaccurate representation, the money is only part of the equation, but you knew that, right? ...AND if you had $1,200 dollars to lose , which I suspect you don't, perhaps your sarcastic tone would be a little different. As Always, BVB

 

FYI, I do HAVE $1200 but am not stupid enough to LOSE it.... therfore as usual your assumptions are Incorrect. And keep in mind I was not speaking TO YOU, merely addressing your post in the general sense. We the readers ONLY know what we are privy to, based on the information YOU provide us with. Perhaps, if there was more to the story which may have impacted on the replies , you should have provided it instead of claiming comments are off-base because a reader WAS NOT GIVEN all the facts.

 

And if, as you say the bigger concern is about inaccurate representation, regardless of WHAT the circumstances were that you allude to, if the person who showed up was NOT as represented, $1200 should not have changed hands. but you knew that, right ? Its rather simple actually.

[bigvalboy]

IF TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS! wasn't an issue, why was it even mentioned? So are you now expanding on your post and admitting to having a first time hire for a dinner companion with friends? You took someone whom you do not know into a social event with friends?

 

Yeah, I guess the $1,200 wasn't such a big deal, in comparison. You are a far greater risk taker than I, my fellow poster.

 

No one said it wasn't an issue, only that it was part of the equation. And as far as a first time hire is concerned, He came highly recommended by fellow posters here. I would not have been a risk if the pics were accurate...you see, once again we comes down to honesty. The real issue is with the seller, not the buyer. While the buyer assumes some risk, he can only go by what others have said. And when someone presents themselves one way and I find that not to be the case then, yes that situation needs discussing.

 

And as far as my friends are concerned, they were all clients, they understood the situation. After all we were not exactly going to meet the Queen...

[bigvalboy]

FYI, I do HAVE $1200

 

Really? uuummm...

[instudiocity]

The real issue is with the seller, not the buyer. While the buyer assumes some risk, he can only go by what others have said.

No, the real issue is not with the seller - HIS ADVERTISING IS WORKING QUITE WELL FOR HIM. The real issue is with the buyer - who should not have paid the false advertiser. And if you were with fellow clients, they should have understood, if you had refused to accept the date on the basis of false advertising.

 

And when someone presents themselves one way and I find that not to be the case then, yes that situation needs discussing.

The situation needs NO DISCUSSION. You need to put your wallet away, zip your britches and get the fuck out of there, keeping your $1,200 and your integrity intact. By rewarding this false advertiser, you perpetuate the false advertising. You've participated in his lies. He's thinking, 'My pictures are working for me. I just made $1,200.'

[instudiocity]

No one said it wasn't an issue, only that it was part of the equation. And as far as a first time hire is concerned, He came highly recommended by fellow posters here.

Dare I ask it? BVB, have you submitted a REVIEW of this false advertiser to http://www.daddysreviews.com ?

 

Just wondering...

[bigvalboy]

Why would you vote YES with TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS and then complain about it? HUH?

 

You are missing the point my dear neighbor...Where did I say I was complaining, only trying to point out an on going problem that gets discussed here almost daily. Why escorts not clearly representing themselves suddenly becomes my problem, is beyond me. Could I have walked..absolutely. Did I choose to stay..Yes, for a number of complicated reasons. But the misrepresentation was still there...I can only assume that your problem then is with me personally, Sorry about that...not much else to discuss, as no matter what argument I put forth you will find a way to turn it into my fault...Bye for now...

[bigvalboy]

Touche' INS, we totally see eye-to-eye. I believe the escort bets on you allowing the session eventhough he lied to you because he is standing there and you are honry and have taken your viagra.... Your loss. dont complain. You obviously DID get something out of it.

 

What? where do come up with such idiotic assumptions? Aren't you suppose to be at work?

[bigvalboy]

No, the real issue is not with the seller - HIS ADVERTISING IS WORKING QUITE WELL FOR HIM.

 

So you are saying that the seller assumes no responsibility? You really believe that? Wow.. Then submitting a review would be pointless, except maybe to entertain you.

[maxwellissmart]

Caveat emptor, my friend. You unwrap a burger and it's a chicken breast, you go back to the counter and get a burger. You buy a shirt marked L, take out of the bag and it's a Boy's Large, you take it back and get the right size. You open the door and what you're looking at is 10 years older and 30 pounds heavier (or lighter), you keep your money in your pocket as you close the door. It's really simple.

 

If you paid someone $1,200 after they didn't match their advertising, then you made the decision - maybe you let the little head make the decision, but you made the decision to pay someone who, at the least, misrepresented the product. You're the one who rewarded the schadenfreude.

 

Why would you vote YES with TWELVE HUNDRED DOLLARS and then complain about it? HUH? The problem here is not escort misrepresentation in advertising. The problem here is your failure to get the product you were buying. Why did you pay him? What's wrong with saying, "Sorry, you look nothing like your pictures. This isn't going to work."?

 

Very well put. I find it hard to listen to anyone complain when they sign the contract and say: "bring it on." Writing a review that details an unexpected and undesirable outcome is one thing. Knowing upfront that you're not getting what you paid for and still participating is something else entirely.

[bigvalboy]

I find it hard to listen to anyone complain when they sign the contract and say: "bring it on."

 

Once again for those of you in the back who are not listening...I was not complaining, those are your words, not mine, I was only pointing out an age ol problem..Giving the seller a pass only because you enjoy attacking me, does not solve the problem. I never would complain, I most certainly assume some responsibility. But this needs to be discussed. Apparently in a different forum.

 

Writing a review that details an unexpected and undesirable outcome is one thing.

 

Writing a review, names must be mentioned, and then it gets personal and I could impact his business, which I absolutely do not want to do. For those of you who are more interested in attacking me instead of discussing this...I did say, now listien up, if you remember, that he was charming, engaging and a good companion. So regardless of the misguided assumptions thus far, I am not willing to go so far as to name names It was not an altogether bad experience, only one that could have been better had his pics been more up to date.

[jjkrkwood]

Once again for those of you in the back who are not listening...I was not complaining, those are your words, not mine, I was only pointing out an age ol problem..Giving the seller a pass only because you enjoy attacking me, does not solve the problem. I never would complain, I most certainly assume some responsibility. But this needs to be discussed. Apparently in a different forum.

 

 

 

Writing a review, names must be mentioned, and then it gets personal and I could impact his business, which I absolutely do not want to do. For those of you who are more interested in attacking me instead of discussing this...I did say, if you remember, that he was charming, engaging and a good companion. So regardless of the misguided assumptions thus far, I am not willing to go so far as to name names It was not an altogether bad experience, only one that could have been better had his pics been more up to date.

 

Then your post is basically Bullshit and a waste of time. You were obviously trying to make some point, but just as obvious now, you chose not to do anything about it, so then who really cares? All you did was chastise the other poster saying that he wouldnt have been laughing if he has lost $1200 on a hire gone wrong? I think we all should be laughing at YOU for tletting that happen in the first place. There are no excuses or circumstances that allow an intentional SCAM. If you feel attacked by member repsonses here, thats not our problem.

[jjkrkwood]

Really? uuummm...

 

Personal attacks STILL seem to be your Defense mechanism. YES, I do have $1200, but you certainly wont if you keep wasting it on escorts that scam you. Unless you are Warren Buffet, your bucks will soon run out, and Ill be able to drive past you in the trailer park you will be living in. In the future just address the Post and keep your tacky personal comments to yourself. They are unflattering to you. BTW - anytime you want to compare bank accts, let me know. Ill be more than happy to embarrass you.

[bigvalboy]

Then your post is basically Bullshit and a waste of time. You were obviously trying to make some point, but just as obvious now, you chose not to do anything about it, so then who really cares? All you did was chastise the other poster saying that he wouldnt have been laughing if he has lost $1200 on a hire gone wrong? I think we all should be laughing at YOU for tletting that happen in the first place. There are no excuses or circumstances that allow an intentional SCAM. If you feel attacked by member repsonses here, thats not our problem.

 

I still hold out hope that someday you will pull your head out of your ass and some intellegent thought will come out...instead of spinning every post I make into a personal vendetta against me, but then again....maybe this will die down when your 10 min break at work is over.

[bigvalboy]

BTW - anytime you want to compare bank accts, let me know. Ill be more than happy to embarrass you.

 

Did you sell the lawn chair? Haven't seen it in awhile.

[jjkrkwood]

Did you sell the lawn chair? Haven't seen it in awhile.

 

Actually, YOU bought it at my garage sale. Dont you remember ? Hope its holding up under your fat ass ? ;-) It's not used to being that stressed..

[jjkrkwood]

I still hold out hope that someday you will pull your head out of your ass and some intellegent thought will come out...instead of spinning every post I make into a personal vendetta against me, but then again....maybe this will die down when your 10 min break at work is over.

 

Dont tell my boss.... Oops, i AM the Boss. Maybe ill just call it quits for the day? Earned enuf money today.

[bigvalboy]

Actually, YOU bought it at my garage sale. Dont you remember ? Hope its holding up under your fat ass ? ;-) It's not used to being that stressed..

 

Sorry, wasn't me..I don't do 'Garage' sales...That sort of thing is for people who...well, need money..lol