Does Interracial Sex Turn You On

[SteveEscort]

The stereotypical black top on white guy turns a lot of guys on. I must admit it was always a fantasy of mine until I had a black guy and was sorely disappointed to find out he was bottom hahahahahaha

 

Do you book based on race, would a Chinese guy float your boat more than an Indian guy or do Hispanics do it for you.

 

I am personally attracted to the more European Caucasian type guy, like me, stocky, East End of London thug security type with shaven head and nice pecks. Or I like the greying, sophisticated, slim well spoken 50's guy, very much like Detective Flynn on The Closer. Those types get my juices flowing so although being bearish, stocky etc myself although I like similar types to myself, I also like sophisticated men with a distinguished look about them.

 

Because I am not your typical escort, a lot of my regulars see me for the fact I am into almost anything except domination, they like the fact I am highly intelligent, drug free (I wouldn't say alcohol free lol), run my own business and know a thing or two about life in general. My personality and being filthy get me a long way in this work but I do get a lot of guys book because I am a bearish rugby type.

[maxwellissmart]

The stereotypical black top on white guy turns a lot of guys on. I must admit it was always a fantasy of mine until I had a black guy and was sorely disappointed to find out he was bottom hahahahahaha

 

Do you book based on race, would a Chinese guy float your boat more than an Indian guy or do Hispanics do it for you.

 

I am personally attracted to the more European Caucasian type guy, like me, stocky, East End of London thug security type with shaven head and nice pecks. Or I like the greying, sophisticated, slim well spoken 50's guy, very much like Detective Flynn on The Closer. Those types get my juices flowing so although being bearish, stocky etc myself although I like similar types to myself, I also like sophisticated men with a distinguished look about them.

 

Because I am not your typical escort, a lot of my regulars see me for the fact I am into almost anything except domination, they like the fact I am highly intelligent, drug free (I wouldn't say alcohol free lol), run my own business and know a thing or two about life in general. My personality and being filthy get me a long way in this work but I do get a lot of guys book because I am a bearish rugby type.

 

Most definitely. Right now I don't have many black clients contacting me at all—I've had two, one is awesome and the other was a complete disappointment. Unfortunately the awesome one doesn't contact me nearly as much as I would like. I'm not usually attracted to Asian guys, and the ones who have contacted me have always been very reserved. I was quite surprised the other evening when a guy called and we got together, and he was literally a perfect match in the affection/cuddling/touchy-feely department. His appointment was for an hour, and I basically stopped the clock for an additional hour because what he was doing felt so good. Big zero on any other ethnicities—most all I get are white clients.

[jjkrkwood]

I book based on SIZE first, ethnicity next, although most of the time the ethnicity determines the size with escorts. By that I mean that if you search Brazilian escorts, they are usually hung long and thick. The Brits tend to have beautiful thick uncut cocks (although a bit pale). I shouldnt stereotype, maybe my eye is just drawn to the biggest cocks ?

 

Regardless I tend to prefer ethnis types, latino, black etc. Ive been seeing my Asian BF for several months. A personal trainer by trade, his cock is "smallish" (bummer), but his muscular ripped body compensates for his lack of penis size (at least in my book)..

 

I would love to hire Cutler X, a delicious Black pornstar/escort, but the timing has never been right... I like masuline appearing guys, and dont mind a bit of manscaped hair, but when I hire the guys usually tend to be "smooth".. Bearish types dont work for me as I usually associte that with Big but unmuscular bodies.

 

Lets just say that for ME, if the cock is right, everything else falls into place. (and YES, a good set of Balls is necessary)

[maxwellissmart]

I book based on SIZE first, ethnicity next, although most of the time the ethnicity determines the size with escorts. By that I mean that if you search Brazilian escorts, they are usually hung long and thick. The Brits tend to have beautiful thick uncut cocks (although a bit pale). I shouldnt stereotype, maybe my eye is just drawn to the biggest cocks ?

 

...(and YES, a good set of Balls is necessary)

 

Every one of my BFs has been hung. Unfortunately, none of them knew how to use it right. MFC (My Favorite Client) is just on the big side, and can work some major magic with that dick. The right size to make your mouth full and bump the back of your throat and make you drool. But not so big that it hurts inside you or shuts off your breathing.

 

And I completely agree about the balls comment—what good is salt without pepper?

[adriano46]

While the majority of escorts I have hired were Caucasian (and predominately either Hungarians, Russians, or Italians), my taste runs rather broadly and depends on many factors.

 

Lately I have enjoyed a few Asians who have really turned me on (when in the past I was mostly turned off to that type).

 

Hispanic/Latinos have their moments -- the escort-masseur Gustavo from Brazil who I met recently (review in the line) was perfect -- no tats, beautiful body, sensuous lover, amazing dick and ass.

 

Blacks -- I would always meet them but do not one a thug escort nor a guy who is a tough talking TOP only with attitude. So, that fantasy takes a lot more time to fulfill, finding a guy who is muscular but oo muscular, under 6 feet, and without tats and piercing and who does not do drugs. If I find him in NYC -- I am in heaven. I do have a masseur who fits the bill and he is absolutely perfect.

[Epigonos]

Body type is the deciding factor for me. I am most definitely a body fascist. I hire gymnast bodybuilder types. As far as ethnicity is concerned I am totally eclectic. If the guy has the kind of body I covet I could care less if he is pink with purple polka dots. I have hired black guys, Asian guys, Hispanic guys and Anglo guys. I do have a tendency to hire guys with naturally dark or tanned skin.

[seeker630]

I am attracted to lean or muscular black, Latino or Oriental guys as well as to whites. But for some reason, I prefer ethnic guys to be smooth, whereas I am less restrictive with white guys. I'm also not generally a fan of uncut guys, and I want at least an 'average'-size cock, even tho I'm a top. I'm also not attracted to 'thugs', which is the persona most of the black guys advertising in my area assume.

 

I also like to watch interracial sex, but it doesn't matter who is on top - black-on-white or white-on-black.

[Bosguy]

I am definitely attracted to other ethnic backgrounds regardless of the role that is played. Would also like to dispell the general rumor that size and role have ethnic backgrounds--not true!!!

 

Boston Bill

[Decatur Guy]

Yes, I like interracial sex, in porn and in real life.

 

I find guys from places such as Mexico, Brazil, southern Italy Greece, Lebanon and Iran to be extremely attractive. And unfortunately, that's the type of guys with whom I've had the least encounters. It's been mostly white guys like myself and some black guys.

 

I'd love to play more with men with Arabic/Persian origins and some guys from Brazil.

[uwsman2]

I am Caucasian and some of the best sex I have had over the past 30 years has been with Black and Asian men. But I've also had some magnificent times with other white guys.

[+ Shoreboy]

I have my own set of "tastes" when it comes to hiring....at different times of the year I can be attracted to different types of men.

 

Honestly the only thing that turns me off (and this is my personal preference) is someone uncut...that to me is a turn off

[jjkrkwood]

I have my own set of "tastes" when it comes to hiring....at different times of the year I can be attracted to different types of men.

 

Honestly the only thing that turns me off (and this is my personal preference) is someone uncut...that to me is a turn off

 

I would guess you dont like to wear turtlenecks either ? ;-)

[SteveEscort]

I have my own set of "tastes" when it comes to hiring....at different times of the year I can be attracted to different types of men

 

Honestly the only thing that turns me off (and this is my personal preference) is someone uncut...that to me is a turn off

 

I don't understand the cut and uncut thing. I realise it's more hygienic to be cut but there are guys I have met who are cut and they nearly always say they wish they weren't. A close friend of mine was cut because he couldn't pull back his foreskin and now he has almost zero sensation because his dick is used to being uncovered and lost sensitivity.

[Phil_musc]

Steve, there was a time here in the US when baby boys were routinely circumcised within a few days of birth, so we never got to choose. I don't know if that practice still prevails today. When I was in high school, there was only one uncircumcised boy in my gym class.

[Michael Wayne]

the race of my client is not an issue- in any way........... here is an interesting situation on race though: I advise a kid in Miami occasionly on the finer points of escorting and I noticed in his ad he says he does not see black clients cause they are not his type. I pointed out to him the stupidity of that satement. He sees overweight, balding , older and lesser endowed clients and so I asked him are they your type? He said ,"NO, they are not." I then pointed out that the only one you say you won't see is a black guy so how is that not racism and discrimination????? We, as escorts, cannot just and only see our type. We would go broke and have to tend bar to make ends meet. The kid DID NOT take my advice and now will not speak to me. Sadly to say even in 2012 RACISM still rares its ugly head in the good ol USA. How GODAMNED SAD! http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[jjkrkwood]

the race of my client is not an issue- in any way........... here is an interesting situation on race though: I advise a kid in Miami occasionly on the finer points of escorting and I noticed in his ad he says he does not see black clients cause they are not his type. I pointed out to him the stupidity of that satement. He sees overweight, balding , older and lesser endowed clients and so I asked him are they your type? He said ,"NO, they are not." I then pointed out that the only one you say you won't see is a black guy so how is that not racism and discrimination????? We, as escorts, cannot just and only see our type. We would go broke and have to tend bar to make ends meet. The kid DID NOT take my advice and now will not speak to me. Sadly to say even in 2012 RACISM still rares its ugly head in the good ol USA. How GODAMNED SAD! http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

 

Before you jump to conclusions about the guy, I believe escorting for the MOST part is a psychological profession. Your brain really controls your abilty to perform, and while overweight and balding or aged types, may NOT be the guys type, they might still be within his comfort zone, while performing with black men may NOT be. That is NOT racism, just preference. It could possibly have racist roots, but who are we to speculate?

As long as WE are not supporting the kid, he is free to make his own choices. Thats a priviledge self employment affords you.

[maxwellissmart]

Before you jump to conclusions about the guy, I believe escorting for the MOST part is a psychological profession. Your brain really controls your abilty to perform, and while overweight and balding or aged types, may NOT be the guys type, they might still be within his comfort zone, while performing with black men may NOT be. That is NOT racism, just preference. It could possibly have racist roots, but who are we to speculate?

As long as WE are not supporting the kid, he is free to make his own choices. Thats a priviledge self employment affords you.

 

Bingo, and well said, JJ.

[josephga]

I don't view sexual preference as racism. I had a funny phone call few nights ago. this guy calls and books a massage and asks if I take Asians? Why would anyone ask a massage therapist that? I told him it was a massage and that I took clients with the same mind set as a dentist or DR. This one reason I have never offered escort services. I can have the mind set that I can give anyone a massage regardless of age weight, race, disability's. But I would make a horrible escort I lack the acting skills required that it would take to provide a quality service

[jjkrkwood]

I don't view sexual preference as racism. I had a funny phone call few nights ago. this guy calls and books a massage and asks if I take Asians? Why would anyone ask a massage therapist that? I told him it was a massage and that I took clients with the same mind set as a dentist or DR. This one reason I have never offered escort services. I can have the mind set that I can give anyone a massage regardless of age weight, race, disability's. But I would make a horrible escort I lack the acting skills required that it would take to provide a quality service

 

Unfortunately, these days MASSAGE is beginning to have a "sexual" connotation, and those professionals that exist to provide solely a relaxing and therapeutic massage have to deal with clients who EXPECT that sex comes with the territory.

[josephga]

I do offer erotic massage but even then its limited to hand contact even any type of mutual contact. But I get at least 1 call a week from someone that thinks an erotic massage means they are getting oral or getting fucked. to me that's escorting not a massage

[jjkrkwood]

I do offer erotic massage but even then its limited to hand contact even any type of mutual contact. But I get at least 1 call a week from someone that thinks an erotic massage means they are getting oral or getting fucked. to me that's escorting not a massage

 

Well, they can AND do get it from escorts that provide that for $150. Why spend $300 on an escort for the same outcome ? Right ?

[maxwellissmart]

Well, they can AND do get it from escorts that provide that for $150. Why spend $300 on an escort for the same outcome ? Right ?

 

Yeah, that's kinda how I look at it—which is why I blur the lines between escorting and massage a little more. If someone asks bluntly, I say the difference between the two is 1) there's fucking if you want it with an escorting appointment, and 2) I will come with an escorting appointment if you want it. I always include oral (both ways)/rimming/touching with a massage appointment—to me that's what makes it erotic.

[jjkrkwood]

Yeah, that's kinda how I look at it—which is why I blur the lines between escorting and massage a little more. If someone asks bluntly, I say the difference between the two is 1) there's fucking if you want it with an escorting appointment, and 2) I will come with an escorting appointment if you want it. I always include oral (both ways)/rimming/touching with a massage appointment—to me that's what makes it erotic.

 

Well Max, a true professional is one that understands what makes his business grow. I am sure your clients appreciate the boners (Oops, bonus) you provide with your massages. I honestly think you know upfront what type of service the clients is seeking, and if you dont, it is efficient and cost effective to ASK.... Cuts down on wasted time and misunderstandings during the appt.

[josephga]

That's why I tell clients they have to ask questions. I get clients sometimes that ask me what is an erotic massage? I tell them there's no set formula. For myself I'm nude as well as the client. It includes a release mutual hand contact. frottage and some edging.

As well as hot stones and I don't neglect the therapeutic portion. Most of the clients that hire me want someone that's licensed certified, can do the therapeutic well and they see any sensual or erotic components as a bonus. Most of the clients I see will forgive a bad erotic massage but would never return to someone that fails at the therapeutic components. I had a guy email me this morning. He has a number of times and asked if I was nude and if he could touch? I answered months ago when he contacted me, But this morning I just deleted his message. If me being nude and if he caan touch are his only questions I'll just pass

[jjkrkwood]

That's why I tell clients they have to ask questions. I get clients sometimes that ask me what is an erotic massage? I tell them there's no set formula. For myself I'm nude as well as the client. It includes a release mutual hand contact. frottage and some edging.

As well as hot stones and I don't neglect the therapeutic portion. Most of the clients that hire me want someone that's licensed certified, can do the therapeutic well and they see any sensual or erotic components as a bonus. Most of the clients I see will forgive a bad erotic massage but would never return to someone that fails at the therapeutic components. I had a guy email me this morning. He has a number of times and asked if I was nude and if he could touch? I answered months ago when he contacted me, But this morning I just deleted his message. If me being nude and if he caan touch are his only questions I'll just pass

 

As I have said, clearly this guy was looking for a cheaper version of an escort, and a Totally sexual encounter, and your experience dealing with clients has taught you that. Only you can decide how you want to run your own business, and the kind of reputation you are cultivating.