Tops: Do you have any special "entry" techniques?

[Decatur Guy]

I hired a well-endowed escort recently and had some trouble taking him in ... He had an interesting and effective way of getting in.

 

It just got me to thinking: When you're ready to fuck a guy, do have any methods or techniques you use that make that entry go well?

 

I've posted in the escorts section because I particularly want to hear what they have to say, but I'd like to hear from anyone who tops.

[SteveEscort]

I hired a well-endowed escort recently and had some trouble taking him in ... He had an interesting and effective way of getting in.

 

It just got me to thinking: When you're ready to fuck a guy, do have any methods or techniques you use that make that entry go well?

 

I've posted in the escorts section because I particularly want to hear what they have to say, but I'd like to hear from anyone who tops.

 

I don't usually have much bother taking any cock but if I top I have real problems, I am reasonably well endowed and many guys do have problems. I have a butt plug toy which I used on them and a small dildo to open them up, pull their cheeks wide apart whilst they're gaping open (too much info I know) and then happily make my way in. It tends to be less painful this way because they get used to two gradients of cock before getting the third.

[maxwellissmart]

I hired a well-endowed escort recently and had some trouble taking him in ... He had an interesting and effective way of getting in.

 

It just got me to thinking: When you're ready to fuck a guy, do have any methods or techniques you use that make that entry go well?

 

I've posted in the escorts section because I particularly want to hear what they have to say, but I'd like to hear from anyone who tops.

 

What was the technique?

[maxwellissmart]

I don't usually have much bother taking any cock but if I top I have real problems, I am reasonably well endowed and many guys do have problems. I have a butt plug toy which I used on them and a small dildo to open them up, pull their cheeks wide apart whilst they're gaping open (too much info I know) and then happily make my way in. It tends to be less painful this way because they get used to two gradients of cock before getting the third.

 

I find that bludgeoning them with my dick without mercy is the best way.

 

Just kidding. A good, sloppy wet rimjob beforehand works wonders, as does massage to get someone relaxed. I would recommend fingers, but you need to have your hands clean/nails trimmed because fingers have a tendency to burn or irritate. Go slow, use Wet and silicone lube together, and put extra on as you're sliding in. It also helps mentally and physically to feel clean down there. As cheesy as the Joy of Gay Sex manual is—positive reinforcement is necessary when you're fucking someone and they need to be reassured.

[GreatTop]

As an "almost" exclusive top, what I've discovered is that you really learn to top by bottoming for a really talented guy.

 

So, that being said, here is what I've learned. The easiest position for the bottom is on his knees with his chest down on the bed, personally this is not my favorite because I can't look into my bottoms eyes.

 

My very talented top also tought me that while everyone talks about breathing, not many understand it. Most people believe that it's about the inhalation but the muscle relaxation takes place on the exhalation.

 

My favorite technique is to put my bottom on his back so I can maintain direct eye contact at all times. I start very deliberate and deep breaths to get him to sync breathing with me, sometimes it happens automatically, if not, I ask him to breath with me. I then start a very gradual, very gentle insertion with progress timed to our synchronized exhalations - watching the eyes at all times lets me judge just how fast or slow to go. In most cases, it is not long before he has reached around and is pulling my ass forward to full penetration.

 

I let the encounter set its own pace from there.

[Decatur Guy]

What was the technique?

 

He asked me to resist him as long as I could. Eventually, I quivered and then "collapsed" and he went it. But he only went a couple of inches and held off on any more. And the process went again. He did that four times, and then he was all the way in and ready to go.

[Michael Wayne]

great thread. if a client is light weight I prefer missionary. This is also true if a client is cute or hot. eye contact is crucial. Also, with tight guys or newbies it is important that my cock be really rock hard to achieve penetration so I like alot of foreplay. I use 3 fingers to open a guy up. I always fuck slow....the head...first 3 inches....then pull out and let the ass rest and recover then give a few more inches. by this time most guys are adjusting to it and begging for the rest. one more thing: with an overweight or heavy clients I find that face down on the bed is easy and best. married guys like this too. I use this technique for guys who hire me for a , "Massage," but really want to get fucked without saying so. One thing leads to another and the massage relaxes them then oops they get a nice cock up their ass

[Tommygunzz]

Here's an interesting tutorial on "Bottoming 101".

 

http://anexperimentintruth.blogspot.com/2012/01/bottoming-101.html