Why Do Guys Make Advanced Appointments They Have No Intention Of Keeping

[jjkrkwood]

I get asked it all the time, I must be asked 7-10 times a week if I have a cock pic or an ass pic for them. Why ....... so they can have a wank and bluetooth it to their friends. Yeah, I am that fooking stupid

 

I did have a guy message me last week and ask for one and when I said no, he asked why and I said, they cost 35p each and if I sent one to everyone who asked I would have a phone bill way over £100 a month. He said "But you have an iPhone, I know because it's telling me you have iMessage and so that's free". I was a bit lost of words hahahaha, he caught me out. Needless to say I still didn't send it and I've disabled iMessage on my phone so they can't see it displayed that I am an iPhone user on their phones

 

Escorting is a business, and escorts are a commodity. They sell their time and Sex, and often their "equipment" is the important element to client. I think its fair and normal for the client to want to see what "they are purchasing". Under the circumstances I dont think its disrespectful, and any escort should consider it a business "expense" in sending the requested pics to a client or prospective client. Of course, there may be an insincere person thrown into the mix who has NO intention of hiring regardless, but ya really never know, do ya? If the escort doesnt show all "the working parts" in his ad, and refuses to send a pic, then the message he is sending me is that he really doesnt want my business. and there are certainly enuf escorts for me to take my dollars elsewhere.

[SteveEscort]

Escorting is a business, and escorts are a commodity. .

 

jjkrkwood I don't know if you know this but from a text message you can't tell if someone is under the age of 18. I could be sending text messages to minors and end up on the sex offenders register here in the UK. Sending sexually themed picture messages to minors is an offence under the sexual offences act.

 

I have had underage guys contact me in the past asking for sex, for me to be their first time. I am sure other sex workers have had the same. I ignore the emails and texts but they do happen and I am not willing to take a risk

 

I have never and will never send out picture messages of my dick to anyone

[josephga]

I don't think it's ever wise to be explicit in a email or a text. That's like putting it in writing. Guys sometimes text or email me asking what's the difference between sensual and erotic massage I tell them too call and we can have a chat.

[jjkrkwood]

jjkrkwood I don't know if you know this but from a text message you can't tell if someone is under the age of 18. I could be sending text messages to minors and end up on the sex offenders register here in the UK. Sending sexually themed picture messages to minors is an offence under the sexual offences act.

 

I have had underage guys contact me in the past asking for sex, for me to be their first time. I am sure other sex workers have had the same. I ignore the emails and texts but they do happen and I am not willing to take a risk

 

I have never and will never send out picture messages of my dick to anyone

 

You can MEET them, and they can be Underage too Steve. That would MAKE you a sex offender, plus escorting IS against the law as well, right ? You never know. Every job has its RISKS and advantages, dont they ?

[josephga]

escorting actually isn't against the law.

[SteveEscort]

You can MEET them, and they can be Underage too Steve. That would MAKE you a sex offender, plus escorting IS against the law as well, right ? You never know. Every job has its RISKS and advantages, dont they ?

 

Excuse me - Escorting is not against the law in England

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_the_UK

 

I don't see guys under 21. I do a sort of Challenge 21 like they do in bars and will ask for ID

[jjkrkwood]

Excuse me - Escorting is not against the law in England

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_the_UK

 

I don't see guys under 21. I do a sort of Challenge 21 like they do in bars and will ask for ID

 

So prostitution is Legal, but sending an xxx rated pic would make you a sex offender ? How does that make ANY sense ???

 

Look I have no problem with YOUR choices, I am only saying that in your line of business, and for the role you play, a client would EXPECT to see WHAT you are working with. I think its unrealisitc for you to think they should book you solely based on a pleasant profile and your claims.

However, if you are a successful escort, and your resistance isnt negatively affecting your business, Congrats !

[maxwellissmart]

Excuse me - Escorting is not against the law in England

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_the_UK

 

I don't see guys under 21. I do a sort of Challenge 21 like they do in bars and will ask for ID

 

OT—LOVE your blog, and the story about the farmer is H-O-T.

[SteveEscort]

So prostitution is Legal, but sending an xxx rated pic would make you a sex offender ? How does that make ANY sense ???

 

Look I have no problem with YOUR choices, I am only saying that in your line of business, and for the role you play, a client would EXPECT to see WHAT you are working with. I think its unrealisitc for you to think they should book you solely based on a pleasant profile and your claims.

However, if you are a successful escort, and your resistance isnt negatively affecting your business, Congrats !

 

 

Please don't use capitals with me sweetie, it makes you look like a dick. Yes it can be if the recipient is a minor. Gawd, can you not see anything past your pants

[SteveEscort]

OT—LOVE your blog, and the story about the farmer is H-O-T.

 

Oh Cheers

 

I've been doing this for 12 years and for some reason my resistance isnt negatively affecting my business but then not every one is interested in seeing the prize on their phone beforehand

[jjkrkwood]

Please don't use capitals with me sweetie, it makes you look like a dick. Yes it can be if the recipient is a minor. Gawd, can you not see anything past your pants

 

WTFuck is your problem dude ? Dont pull your prissy attitude with me. If you cant have a conversation like a mature adult, then take your shit somewhere else. AND I dont take orders from sex providers unless I am paying to be ordered. You are NOT above being questioned DEAR and you are far from SPECIAL ! and your opinion is not gospel here. Save your arrogance for your personal BLOG, I dont appreciate it. Enjoy the CAPS !

 

PS, not looking to engage in a War of Words with you, so spare me your cliche' reply. I will ignore your comments in the future.

[jimboivyo]

WTFuck is your problem dude ? Dont pull your prissy attitude with me. If you cant have a conversation like a mature adult, then take your shit somewhere else. AND I dont take orders from sex providers unless I am paying to be ordered. You are NOT above being questioned DEAR and you are far from SPECIAL ! and your opinion is not gospel here. Save your arrogance for your personal BLOG, I dont appreciate it. Enjoy the CAPS !

 

PS, not looking to engage in a War of Words with you, so spare me your cliche' reply. I will ignore your comments in the future.

 

from one client to another, this response is why you'll never be respected by anyone you see or likely asked for a repeat session. it's more than obvious you look at sex workers as nothing but hired help, not real people.

 

I treat my escorts with respect. it's a mutual respect. you might have an easier time with this board if you tried showing some of the same to those around you.

[SteveEscort]

I treat my escorts with respect. it's a mutual respect. you might have an easier time with this board if you tried showing some of the same to those around you.

 

Exactly......... In the time I have been on this forum I have been nothing but kind and courteous to others on this, respected their opinions and shown others my experience and point of view, then you get this Eegit (as we call them in Scotland, when I used it live in Edinburgh - look it up on google) who seems to think that sex workers are a bit of shit on his shoe, well I'll tell you what mate........ you've picked the wrong prissy queen to have an argument with. I am a mature adult who doesn't need to use capitals to make my point and in turn make myself look like an arrogant arsehole. Use of capitals on the internet is deemed bad manners so take that fooking chip of your tattoo'd shoulder and behave !!!!!!

 

You're such a clued up punter that you thought we were illegal. Dark ages, now educate yourself before acting like an arse.

 

Give me strength

[seeker630]

Anyone want to join me for pizza?

[SteveEscort]

Anyone want to join me for pizza?

 

Florentina please with extra jalepenos

[instudiocity]

SteveEscort - do the math JJ has been here since June 2011, that's 6-7 months yet he's posted nearly 2700 times.

 

All that typing might indicate a willingness to type first and ask questions later.

 

Florentina please with extra jalepenos

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Anyone want to join me for pizza?

 

Sorry - still working off the holiday 10...

[SteveEscort]

SteveEscort - do the math JJ has been here since June 2011, that's 6-7 months yet he's posted nearly 2700 times.

 

All that typing might indicate a willingness to type first and ask questions later.

 

He must have nothing better to do

 

I'd better get on with my day. It's 9am here in UK and I have an 11am coming, I'd best tell him I am offering an illegal service, oh I forgot, it's not illegal, just some know it all seems to think it is.