What to do now?

[ErieBear]

Need some advice guys.

 

I'm visiting LA next week. I booked a session with a kinky escort. After I booked it, I found out that the pics that he's posted are actually 3-4 years old and he doesn't look like he used to. I didn't book him because of his looks, but more because of his willingness for kink. I also found out that he apparently has some sort of surgical implant. Don't know much more than that.

 

So, now I'm wondering if I should a) cancel the appointment and find someone else and b) if I do cancel, how do I go about wording it so I don't sound like a complete ass.

 

Thanks!

[Keenan]

Need some advice guys.

 

I'm visiting LA next week. I booked a session with a kinky escort. After I booked it, I found out that the pics that he's posted are actually 3-4 years old and he doesn't look like he used to. I didn't book him because of his looks, but more because of his willingness for kink. I also found out that he apparently has some sort of surgical implant. Don't know much more than that.

 

So, now I'm wondering if I should a) cancel the appointment and find someone else and b) if I do cancel, how do I go about wording it so I don't sound like a complete ass.

 

Thanks!

 

Have you seen what he looks like now? How do you know you won't like him? I'd say give him a chance. Looks aren't everything when it comes to being happy. You could pick the most beautiful escort in the world and he could be a complete disappointment or you could have the ugliest escort in the world and as for personality it could make up for all the flaws.

 

Keenan

[leigh.bess.toad]

EB -- I think Keenan is right on the mark. As long as he doesn't look like this, I'd say go ahead:

 

http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvpee9XGRs1qd4d9mo1_500.jpg

 

If he has the requisite skill and abilities to do what you want and he isn't so totally repulsive that he turns your stomach (which I find highly doubtful in just a couple of years), I think you ought to consider going ahead.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

If you are not comfortable keeping the appointment, a simple, "my plans have changed and I will not be able to see you next week" would be appropriate. No further explanation necessary especially if done now, a week before your scheduled time.

[maxwellissmart]

Need some advice guys.

 

...now I'm wondering if I should a) cancel the appointment and find someone else and b) if I do cancel, how do I go about wording it so I don't sound like a complete ass.

 

Thanks!

 

Dear Erie, you may copy this verbatim.

 

"Dear Kinky Escort,

 

I'm going to have to cancel our appointment for _______.

 

Thanks,

 

Erie"

 

This is LA, right? The porn capital of the world, and the second largest city in the US. Surely there's more than one kinky escort, and the likelihood that there's one with recent and accurate pics that are hot is kinda high (unless by "kinky" you actually mean "someone who will take a dump in my mouth whilst stepping on my throat in cleats and lacy panties," and even then you could probably find that too).

[+ Travis69]

Make your decision soon and if you need to cancel do it as soon as possible. No one, escorts and clients, likes last minute cancellations. Cancelling at the last minute will make you an ass in anyone's mind.

[seeker630]

Need some advice guys.

 

I'm visiting LA next week. I booked a session with a kinky escort. After I booked it, I found out that the pics that he's posted are actually 3-4 years old and he doesn't look like he used to. I didn't book him because of his looks, but more because of his willingness for kink. I also found out that he apparently has some sort of surgical implant. Don't know much more than that.

 

So, now I'm wondering if I should a) cancel the appointment and find someone else and b) if I do cancel, how do I go about wording it so I don't sound like a complete ass.

 

Thanks!

 

If you are coencerned about his present appearance, why not ask for current pix.

[Lohengrin1979]

If you are coencerned about his present appearance, why not ask for current pix.

 

This ^. The escort should be able to provide current pics for you and then you are free to make your decision. If he fits the bill for your needs, go for it.

 

It also goes without saying that if you have misgivings, you should absolutely feel free to cancel. This is your money and your experience and you shouldn't go through with it unless you are at ease. All the best to you.

[+ Charlie]

If you are not comfortable keeping the appointment, a simple, "my plans have changed and I will not be able to see you next week" would be appropriate. No further explanation necessary especially if done now, a week before your scheduled time.

 

I completely agree with this approach. If you are already having second thoughts about the appointment, it's best to go with your gut and avoid unnecessary anxiety. After all, half the pleasure of hiring is the anticipation.

[jjkrkwood]

Perhaps if you advise the members WHO the escort is, someone might have current experience with him and can advise you accordingly ?

[ErieBear]

Perhaps if you advise the members WHO the escort is, someone might have current experience with him and can advise you accordingly ?

 

The escort is Master Ryker (aka PecMan Dan). His reviews are good, but are all at least 2-3 years old.

 

I've emailed him and asked for current pics, waiting to hear back from him. I also have well over a week before the set meeting. I'll wait to hear back from him regarding the pics and then I'll make the decision.

 

Thanks all.

[maxwellissmart]

The escort is Master Ryker (aka PecMan Dan). His reviews are good, but are all at least 2-3 years old.

 

I've emailed him and asked for current pics, waiting to hear back from him. I also have well over a week before the set meeting. I'll wait to hear back from him regarding the pics and then I'll make the decision.

 

Thanks all.

 

Personally, I would think you could find someone else similar to this guy. And possibly someone who doesn't wear makeup in their video (unless that's part of the kink).

[ErieBear]

Personally, I would think you could find someone else similar to this guy. And possibly someone who doesn't wear makeup in their video (unless that's part of the kink).

 

Actually the main kink is being dominated and bondage with some light S&M

[jgoo]

It seems you are approaching this in the right way by asking for current pics. In the meantime, I would recommend you line up an alternative in case you decide to not go with this guy after you get his pics (or if he doesn't send them). I'm not suggesting that you double book but at least make sure you have a viable alternative so you don't have to scramble at the last minute to find a substitute if you don't go with the original guy. As others have suggested, the sooner you can get things resolved and make a decision, the better for all involved.

[jjkrkwood]

You also need to determine wich is the more important element: the escorts LOOK or his performance... IF he is as acredited in the scene you are seeking as you say, then a slight alteration in his appearance shouldnt matter that much.... You can always keep the lights real LOW too. ;_)