Escort bailed on me for a Planned Vacation

[mixer17]

So an escort who previously really floated my boat for a long time. Just rudely and unnapologetically bailed on me last minute. Needless to say, I will no longer be seeing him. But now I am left with vacation plans starting Mid-January in Mexico. I have not found any companions local to the area and have not found anyone who can come with me.

 

Any advice, general advice or any advice on who to take? I generally like younger guys in thier 20s or early 30s, caucasian descent. I am getting desperate and might just cancel my plans. (Sadly with non-refundable reservations and plane tickets ---- yes its quite a kick in the gut).

 

Thanks in Advance.

[Gar1eth]

So an escort who previously really floated my boat for a long time. Just rudely and unnapologetically bailed on me last minute. Needless to say, I will no longer be seeing him. But now I am left with vacation plans starting Mid-January in Mexico. I have not found any companions local to the area and have not found anyone who can come with me.

 

Any advice, general advice or any advice on who to take? I generally like younger guys in thier 20s or early 30s, caucasian descent. I am getting desperate and might just cancel my plans. (Sadly with non-refundable reservations and plane tickets ---- yes its quite a kick in the gut).

 

Thanks in Advance.

 

Mixer,

 

I'm sure many of us feel your pain. But for us to help out we probably need more of a description than male Caucasian in his 20 to 30's. I mean- majorly are you interested in a guy who is top/ bottom/versatile. Next does he need to kiss? What about his physique? Smoker/non-smoker? Latins, northern European stock? Vanilla or kink? Please give us some more direction like this. In all likelihood if we know what kind of guy you like, we may very well be able to suggest a viable alternative.

 

Gman

[mixer17]

Thanks Gman for the reply.

To answer your questions directly,

1. I like a guy who is more top-versatile.

2. I have no preference on kissing.

3. I like more athletic to muscular type.

4. I do like the all-american type but open to most european stock as well.

5. Vanilla.

6. Safe sex.

 

Thank you Again.

[MscleLovr]

Please don't cancel your trip. I often travel alone, and despite being middle-aged often meet nice guys locally. Have you thought about looking online for that area (eg gayromeo, Gaydar, manhunt etc)?

 

And please name the escort who cancelled on you - you may save someone else from such disappointment and expense.

[Strafe13]

I'm not sure what area of the country you're in or what area you're searching for companions. You might want to try contacting the guys in charge of the mantoman and/or maximumescorts.com agencies. The former has guys mostly on the west coast, I believe, but has some east coast and midwest guys. The latter is based in New York City. Either "concierge" so to speak, might be able to find a guy to your liking from their stable. Just my 2 Cents. Good luck!

 

P.S., if you're traveling to Mexico, unless you're also fluent in Spanish, you may want to look for a guy who is. You may need to look outside your all-American/Caucasian mold for that. There might be a number of fairer-skinned Latino escorts that might float your boat and be extremely useful in a Spanish-speaking country like Mexico (although all Latinos are not, by definition, fluent Spanish speakers, but you get the general idea). On that line, you may want to consider Fernando, based out of NYC (also known as Hot Fernando).

 

Thanks Gman for the reply.

To answer your questions directly,

1. I like a guy who is more top-versatile.

2. I have no preference on kissing.

3. I like more athletic to muscular type.

4. I do like the all-american type but open to most european stock as well.

5. Vanilla.

6. Safe sex.

 

Thank you Again.

[adriano46]

Bummer, but you might ask directly in the escort section here if there is a guy willing o go along. You never know. Some do like to travel and have a passport ready.

[+ bigjoey]

Rentboy "Advanced Search" has a "languages spoken" so you can find one speaking Spanish. suggest you fill in your other qualifications and see what comes up.

 

The guys at Maximum or from Dave will be reliable and not "flake out".

 

Recently met with Damian Toth; lists as "bottom" but is versatile with bottom being his preference. Meets your other qualifications in spades:

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=279094&scid=60313709&sp=4&pos=65&locid=1569&iid=135851

 

He has one review here on Daddy's. The pictures are accurate and his body is fantastic. He has a great personality.

 

I have had three weekends with Arek and he would seem to fit your qualifications:

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=250208

 

He has reviews on Daddy's. Great personality and body and the sex is amazing. Totally versatile. Intelligent.

[down_to_business]

I am really sorry for what you are going through. I empathize but I hope you seriously reconsider hiring someone you have never met to join you (and I don't care how highly they come reviewed) for a multi day adventure out of the country. I am not saying that it can't all work out in the end, but is that a risk you really want to take?

 

If you are the kind of person that is really outgoing and has no problems walking up to strangers, consider going on this adventure you paid for, solo. If you are a shy introverted person, and you still want to go, consider inviting a real friend or family member along, and go. If you are not super outgoing and don't already know someone else that you want to take along, chalk it up to a lesson learned, be extremely glad you didn't advance that peice of garbage any fee, and cancel your trip.

[robberbaron4u]

I am saddened for you in a "sorry" situation; however, keep in mind that "escorting" is a buyer's market. If he is yet escorting, Evige "Eddy" out of New Orleans is excellent company, and, being from a "Latin" background, he could prove helpful on a Mexican holiday; however, he is "mature". I, myself, am travelling to San Miguel Allende this afternoon. If you find yourself in that locale, please do not hesitate to PM me.

[+ peterhung85]

So an escort who previously really floated my boat for a long time. Just rudely and unnapologetically bailed on me last minute. Needless to say, I will no longer be seeing him. But now I am left with vacation plans starting Mid-January in Mexico. I have not found any companions local to the area and have not found anyone who can come with me.

 

Any advice, general advice or any advice on who to take? I generally like younger guys in thier 20s or early 30s, caucasian descent. I am getting desperate and might just cancel my plans. (Sadly with non-refundable reservations and plane tickets ---- yes its quite a kick in the gut).

 

Thanks in Advance.

 

Hello Mixer,

Sorry to hear about the change of travel plans with the escort. I would gladly accompany you for your upcoming trip in MExico. Been there 4 times, and I think I fit the criteria you mentioned, always have a US and EU passport ready. Also, if you look at my travel list, you can see that I mainly travel with clients for extended times ranging from weekend to 2-3 even 4 weeks at times which means I am very easy to get along with. Also feel free to read more about me on my website at http://www.peterhung.com and to read my reviews on Daddy's. No matter who you choose, I hope you will enjoy your upcoming vacation and that you will have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

 

XOXO

[Toulouse]

Mixer,

I'm sorry for your misfortune. That sucks big time. I've wanted to take several well-reviewed scorts on an extended holiday, but have opted not to do so because I've heard several tales like yours. I'm sure there are many great rentboys who would leap at the chance to join you on your trip and would make terrific companions, I just think it would be risky to hire someone "on the fly" whom you've never spent quality time with previously. For me, interpersonal chemistry with the escort trumps all other criteria (physical attractiveness, sexual prowess, etc.) and you simply can't determine "chemistry" by reading an ad or even reviews. I wish you good luck and safe travels to Mexico (hopefully you will still go).

[Gar1eth]

With Deep Appreciation to Mark Gordon From Toronto

 

Mixer,

I'm sorry for your misfortune. That sucks big time. I've wanted to take several well-reviewed scorts on an extended holiday, but have opted not to do so because I've heard several tales like yours. I'm sure there are many great rentboys who would leap at the chance to join you on your trip and would make terrific companions, I just think it would be risky to hire someone "on the fly" whom you've never spent quality time with previously. For me, interpersonal chemistry with the escort trumps all other criteria (physical attractiveness, sexual prowess, etc.) and you simply can't determine "chemistry" by reading an ad or even reviews. I wish you good luck and safe travels to Mexico (hopefully you will still go).

 

The problem is- what if you don't live in an area chock full of escorts. The opportunity for the trip comes. And you don't really have the time of the expense to want to bring someone in beforehand. In that case- your only choice is to take a leap of faith.

 

Several years ago, I had the opportunity to ride VIA Rail's Flagship train the Canadian. It travels from Toronto to Vancouver. It's considered one of the top train trips inthe world. But it's long. It's a little over 3-1/ 2 days. And while the scenery is beautiful, there is not a lot 'to do'. I really wanted someone to go on the trip with me to share it with. And I didn't have anyone in my private life who could go. So I asked several escorts. For various reasons none were available. So I chanced on Mark Gordon from Toronto. We talked and seemed compatible- so we agreed. The train leaves at 10 pm. I flew into Ontario, late afternoon on the day of the journey. I take a cab to his place. I'm wondering if I should have done this- visions of the expense- not to mention spending 3 days with a guy I've never met in person before. What buoyed me up were his great reviews. So we met at his apartment. Got 'to know' each other a bit. Went out to a Chinese place down the street from his apartment and got to know each other even more.

 

Well while the trip could have been a disaster, it was a delight. He was very low key. We gave each other space when we needed it. We both brought large books to read. He proved to be a great dining companion. And he was more than willing to make love in our somewhat cramped train sleeping car on a frequent basis. He also proved how limber he was. Train cars are not extremely large. I later found out he had been a bit apprehensive about close quarters on a trip with someone he hadn't known beforehand. But he says I was a good traveling companion.

 

So in my case while I knew of Mark- I didn't know him. But everything worked out fine

 

If you do decide to continue to hire, I only hope your trip goes as well as mine.

 

Gareth

[adriano46]

Although I have not been able to meet Mark personally, from what copmmunications we have had over the years, he is a real class act -- and I only wish he was not so tied down now in Toronto. He would be an ideal traveling companion in every sense of the word.

 

I get the same impression or vibe from Peter Hung who was gracious enough to "offer" to step in here. Guys sch as these offer one hope even when we read of the mishaps of other clients with not so hopeful escorts.

[mixer17]

Thanks for everyone's replies. I am trying to make things work and still go. Even though it is becoming expense on top of expense on top of expense, I've decided not to let one schmuck ruin a holiday I planned months ago.

 

I am reading up on well reviewed and well traveled escorts who have experiences on extended arrangements.

 

I am a little saddened because he was someone well known to me already and has become a "friend" of sorts.

 

If things don't work out. I might just travel somewhere else where I can have fun by myself! (Montreal?? NYC??)

[ManToManDave]

Mixer17,

 

Very sorry to hear of this experience. Please feel free to call me or e-mail me if you'd like. I may be able to make some suggestions to help salvage this trip -- even if it's not one of the guys I represent, I still may be able to guide you toward someone reliable that ya might like!

 

SINcerely,

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

ManToManDave@gmail.com

866-626-4626

[OneFinger]

Hello Mixer,

Sorry to hear about the change of travel plans with the escort. I would gladly accompany you for your upcoming trip in MExico. Been there 4 times, and I think I fit the criteria you mentioned, always have a US and EU passport ready. Also, if you look at my travel list, you can see that I mainly travel with clients for extended times ranging from weekend to 2-3 even 4 weeks at times which means I am very easy to get along with. Also feel free to read more about me on my website at http://www.peterhung.com and to read my reviews on Daddy's. No matter who you choose, I hope you will enjoy your upcoming vacation and that you will have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

 

XOXO

Peter is someone that I'd highly recommend. I've hired him before and it's always a wonderful experience. I think he meets all of your physical criteria and he's got a charming personality.

[bluboy]

Try kristian in LA. Gorgeous, versatile, speaks Spanish, super nice and super professional. Also fun on trips as I have travelled many places with him.

[citylaw1]

I hope that there is a review in the queue!

[mixer17]

I was in close contact with him and was "friends" of sorts with him. I am uncomfortable to write a review just yet. But surely in the near future. He just plainly stopped contacting me after talking to him and realizing he did not think he needed a passport. I offered to pay for a rush passport application for him but he chose to just stop messaging me. I gave it a week without response. I knew the whole thing was screwed. I can provide you with his name. He is based in San Diego and has one review on Daddy's.

[OceanTraveller]

Check with Ridge in Chicago ..he loves to travel !!!

[seeker630]

I was in close contact with him and was "friends" of sorts with him. I am uncomfortable to write a review just yet. But surely in the near future. He just plainly stopped contacting me after talking to him and realizing he did not think he needed a passport. I offered to pay for a rush passport application for him but he chose to just stop messaging me. I gave it a week without response. I knew the whole thing was screwed. I can provide you with his name. He is based in San Diego and has one review on Daddy's.

 

Before you write a review, verify that reviews of 'no shows' are accepted. I may be wrong, but it has been my impression that they were not allowed in the past. (Hopefully Daddy or a moderator can confirm this, or correct me.)

 

Update: I just found the FAQ on reviews/reports of 'No SHows'

 

Do you take "No-Show" reviews?

In general we look at these on a case-by-case basis. In general we "Hold" these type of reviews because it is very difficult to verify this type of situation.

[daviddd49]

Hello Mixer,

Sorry to hear about the change of travel plans with the escort. I would gladly accompany you for your upcoming trip in MExico. Been there 4 times, and I think I fit the criteria you mentioned, always have a US and EU passport ready. Also, if you look at my travel list, you can see that I mainly travel with clients for extended times ranging from weekend to 2-3 even 4 weeks at times which means I am very easy to get along with. Also feel free to read more about me on my website at http://www.peterhung.com and to read my reviews on Daddy's. No matter who you choose, I hope you will enjoy your upcoming vacation and that you will have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

 

XOXO

 

Allow me to chime in on Peter as well. If planning a trip in which I wanted (and could afford) to take an escort with me, I'd take Peter. Not only is a fabulous in the sack, he's an excellent person to have with you "out and about" in public.

[Gar1eth]

Thanks Gman for the reply.

To answer your questions directly,

1. I like a guy who is more top-versatile.

2. I have no preference on kissing.

3. I like more athletic to muscular type.

4. I do like the all-american type but open to most european stock as well.

5. Vanilla.

6. Safe sex.

 

Thank you Again.

 

I wish I could help but my hires are more bottom/versatile. But putting on my thinking cap- Peter Hung sounds like a great choice. Others I can think of include Andrew Justice, Ethan from NC (I've never met him, but he has good reviews), ditto for Shaun Ross, Christopher Daniels from Vegas. If you wanted to go a little more mature - and really some of the 'experienced guys' have better reputations- Steven Draker, Steve Kesslar, Brett Holt.

 

I hope this helps.

 

Gman

[mixer17]

Thanks Everyone! I am really pumped up on finding a great replacement for the guy who bailed!

[good ol boy]

I also Planned a vacation. we were leaving from different cities and he never got on his plane.