Newbie Questions - Wrestling

[phillyeagle111]

Hey guys! Im completely new to the site and completely new to escorting as well. Im sorry for the awkward post and probably REALLY stupid questions...but i know this is a good place where people can hopefully help me out. Next week i booked my first appt with an escort and am completely freaking out, but am so excited. What do I do when he opens the door? What do i say? haha and is it awkward the first time? Im kind of new to this kind of stuff with guys, and havent done very much. I dont want it to be awkward for the escort especially since im so young (college aged student). Second, do you guys know any good escorts that either wrestled for companies (Bg east, thunders arena) or how I could find them today? Im really into wrestling, and would love to be dominated in a match. Thank you so much for helping me out guys - sorry for the complete newbie awkwardness! haha

 

-rob

[bigvalboy]

Well Rob, welcome welcome welcome...you will find a wealth of information in the forum, and while I am tempted to answer your questions, I really think that when the sun comes up on the East Coast and the boys finally role out of bed, you will find others who will be able to articulate what you should do far better than I. You will also find several escorts who post here that can give you insight into how you should handle yourself since this is a new situation for you. BEST OF LUCK to you, BVB....and remember Rob there is no such thing as a stupid question, you will do just fine.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Welcome Phillyeagle. Glad to have you.

 

First suggestion -- breathe. Then repeat. I know it is exciting. We have ALL been there. You are certainly younger than most of us here, but we all I'm sure can remember the excitement, nervousness, and downright fear and terror of those days, hours and minutes leading up to that first hire. What you are experiencing isn't awkward at all. It's completely normal.

 

Have you talked with your escort, does he know it's your first time? Is he experienced in dealing with newbies such as yourself? If you have and he is, then try to relax. Easier said than done, I know. I guess the first advice is not set your expectations too unrealistically high. This forum is full of guys that I personally know who had a less than perfect first time, yet learned to relax and enjoy it. It will likely be wonderful, just don't set the bar so high no one can meet it.

 

Try to be yourself. Don't try to pretend you're something your not. Describe your expectations to your escort and talk about it. You didn't say how long your first hire is for, but regardless, don't try to cram into every possible fantasy and thought you have ever had. It will all come with time.

 

As far as wrestling escorts, a couple of names come to mind, 2 on the east coast (boston) and one west coast. The east coast guys are Tristan Baldwin and Jon Ramsey. Tristan (who is a forum member) is based on connecticut, Jon in Boston. Tristan would be closer to you in age. I believe they both wrestled for BGEast. The west coast guy is AJ Irons who I believe actually wrestled collegiately. All 3 are very experienced (AJ is the current escort of the year) and would probably be able to fulfill your fantasy with little problem -- assuming you aren't the size of Andre the Giant.

 

All in all, relax and simply enjoy. As someone old enough to barely remember college age, I can tell you that you will enjoy yourself as long as you keep your expectations somewhat realistic. Dream and explore but don't expect everything all at once.

 

And welcome to the forum. We can be a rambunctious bunch at times, but we all do remember the excitement you are certainly feeling and really enjoy answer questions and helping newbies such as yourself navigate in our little community. You did fine in your first question. Please come back and ask away. We are here to help.

 

And please, let us know how it goes. We are also a nosy bunch too. lol

 

And BVB, what do you mean when the East Coast boys roll out of bed? It is barely 230 am and even the oldsters among us (and I put me in that group) are still up. You should know we gay boys don't get tired until the sun comes up. Of course that damned office computer problem might really be why I'm up. Grrrrrrrrrrr.

[bigvalboy]

Why Lee, I for one thought for sure that you would be getting your beauty sleep...LOL and Phillyeagle, now you can see what I mean about that wealth of information I was talking about. (Great post Lee) There are so many guys on here that have, been there and done that. Nothing you can say will throw them, they have seen it all, literally. Don't be embarrased to ask a question, no matter how stupid you think that it is.!!

 

And Phillyeagle, be sure to check out Lee and his postings in the GALLERY section of the forum. It is always a nice surprise!

[leigh.bess.toad]

Why Lee, I for one thought for sure that you would be getting your beauty sleep...LOL

 

BVB -- there is not enough time in my life left so that if I slept the entirety of my life to help in the beauty department. That ship sailed loooooong ago.

 

And as we were taught so eloquently by Rod Hagen, I can sleep when I'm dead. And if I might add, and no doubt will.

[nate_sf]

Hi Phillyeagle, welcome to the forum!

 

The guys have given you great info so far, so I'll just add a bit from the escort's perspective:

 

1. When he opens the door, tell him you are nervous. An escort does not always know where you are coming from with regards to your experience, so when someone just comes right out and says they are nervous it is helpful. He should then be able to take some time and put you at ease.

 

2. If there is an escort who looks appealing to you, contact him and see if he has wrestling experience or is into wrestling. That may be easier than trying to find a bona-fide wrestler since those guys may not be in your area. But who knows, maybe the escort you are interested in wrestled in high school or, er, has a passion for wrestling ;-) When you ask him, see how he responds to see if he is just going along versus really into it. If he just says "yeah sure" he might not be into it as much as you're hoping for, but if he talks about it more, has a singlet, etc. then you know you've got someone who's really into it.

 

The biggest difference between an escort appointment and a date/hookup is that you can be direct with the escort and tell him what you want without worrying he'll be weird about it or judge you. So tell him what you want, and be sure to let him know this is new to you. We all had to start somewhere!

[+ purplekow]

Phillyeagle I was tempted not to write as I am a Giant fan but I suppose even an eagle fan deserves to get laid well once and again. A couple of thoughts. Please make sure that the escort you have hired is one that is well reviewed here and who is polite and engaging in any communications. If he doesnt have time for you before the appointment and if he doesnt listen well beforehand, he may not be in tune with you during your session and he maybe all about the time and not the client. Assuming you have made a good hire and you have an escort who is professional and concerned about your good time and his good name, then all you need to do is relax, and allow your mind and body focus on your enjoyment and satisfaction. Remember this session is all about you. The escort may certainly have his own personal limits, but it should never be the case that you are doing something that you are not enjoying. if you are not confident in your approach, put yourself firmly in the hands of your well experienced escort. Believe me, his hands will likely be doing exactly what you want done and will likely be guiding your hands, and mouth, and pecs, and legs, and ass and dick to doing some of their best work ever. Biggest thing is dont be intimidated. Relax. if your lucky, your time together will be one of the best experiences of your life. Remember, that even if this is not the most memorable experience, it is the first step to many many more most of which will leave you sweaty, sated and smiling. Good luck. if you feel comfortable here, you might share the name of the man you have hired and get some feed back from the guys here.

[+ bigjoey]

Jon Ramsey as mentioned wrestled for BG; his name there was Wade Cutler so you can do a search. Any of the top escorts will easily put you at ease. Remember, they are professionals and have been with thousands of men and have great people skills. Let them know it's your first time and they will do the rest.

 

Rember, enjoy.

[adriano46]

Definately try Jon Ramsey = he is amazing, has an amazing body and the most beautiful rosebud I have ever seen or tasted. Especially for a newbie he is perfect. Tell him you are interested in a wrestling fantasy, and you will not be disappointed.

[seeker630]

Welcome to the Message Center. The members here have given you lots of good advice about having a good first experience.

 

Hi phillyeagle111,

 

I assume that you also found the Review site and have at least checked out the guys in your area, but in case you haven't, here's a link: http://www.daddysreviews.com

 

And please submit a review after your experience - not only are we interested in the outcome, but the review site is what pays to keep the message center going too.

 

Best wishes for a hot time!

[phillyeagle111]

hey everyone, thank you SO much for all the helpful suggestions. I already feel a whole lot better And can't wait. the escort I hired is angelo Antonio...just because of his body and his wrestling background with thunders arena. does anyone have any experiences with him/know about him in general?

[JT Brooklyn]

The Thunders Arena guys all look very Hunky in their Speedos! :p

 

But IF you ever decide on a "Second Match" either Tristan Baldwin or Jon Ramsey would definitely be your best bet!

[TruthBTold]

I still am nervous with any guy I am going to have sex with for the first time, so an escort is not going to any different. But a good escort (unlike other guys sometime) will try to put you at ease. For the good escorts, they also want to have a good time. When I got in touch with my first escort, I definitely did some research so that I was pretty sure we were going to be compatible. I also made sure that other guys had great things to say about him. I figured I could take risks later on in my escort-booking life if I wanted to. Then I booked for a two hour stretch. I know that it is risky if you don't get along but it really put me at ease that I knew I had a lot of time to ease into the sex. I hate the "I only have 49 minutes left, I better get his cock hard" feeling. Not sure whether you can afford it but it worked better for me. Have a great time.

[Decatur Guy]

I think there's a lot of great advice on here so far. I think the main thing is don't think of this as a make-or-break deal.

 

Only if you are of drinking age and only if you've had alcohol before and know you can handle it responsibly, I'd suggest considering have one drink or two max. A small, reasonable amount can put you more at ease. More than that, really bad idea.

 

Again, this is only if you have previous experience with alcohol and know you can drink responsibly and know what one or two drinks does to your judgment and body.

[bigvalboy]

hey everyone, thank you SO much for all the helpful suggestions. I already feel a whole lot better And can't wait. the escort I hired is angelo Antonio...just because of his body and his wrestling background with thunders arena. does anyone have any experiences with him/know about him in general?

 

Hey Philly, I would start a thread naming the escort Angelo Antonio and see what feed back you will get. Many guys on here will probably know of some feed back positive or negative. Often a member will do some research and pull up an thread that is archived that has info in it. Good Luck

[nycfan2003]

Rob, Welcome and don't be nervous. Look at the reviews and tell the escort what you are interested in. I've mentioned wrestling to some escorts. Most are excited about the idea, but some will say that they don't do it.

I agree with several recommendations. Tristan Baldwin is a great wrestler and a great guy. He'll dominate you if you want. Contact him.

Good luck.

Tom

[+ bigjoey]

http://beefcakesofwrestling.blogspot.com/2010/07/wade-cutler-revisited.html?zx=49b34ebd185bef58

[+ tristanbaldwin]

Philly...in addition to escorts out there who see people on the wrestling level...if wrestling really is the thing that makes you tick..breath...cum...and cum some more, and not neccessarily in that order...try doing a search for private gay wrestling clubs. There are many across this nation, where you will be able to hook up with some great looking guys, on a non-business level. San Diego especially had two or three that I knew of...

[ajirons09]

Philly... Tristan Baldwin is your man!!!

[bigvalboy]

Philly... Tristan Baldwin is your man!!!

 

Well Mr. Irons, glad to see you round these parts. Ya know the boys been talkin bout you....ALL good I might add. One of these days, Tristan has promised a tag team with you me and him...;-) LOL best to you always, AJ, Warm regards, BVB

[+ tristanbaldwin]

OMG! AJ Lives! Didn't realize you got on here much, bro!? You need to drop me a line next time you're in Boston! I'm actually out in the OC this upcoming December 14-17...hope you've been well!

[William]

Philly... Tristan Baldwin is your man!!!

 

 

A.J., I respect you deeply and always agree with you. (You are really smart as well as buff, attractive, and passionate.)

 

As for your recommendation of Tristan Baldwin, I could not agree more Tristan is also really really smart and listens well to where a client is coming from. I have only been with him once, and from the get-go he was in sync with what I wanted (which was pretty wild sweaty and rough). Although we enjoyed a rough-housing scene, it was clear to me that Tristan was being gentle with me and adjusting to my limitations (e.g., I am not 10% as strong as he is, yet me made me feel like SuperMan crushing his enemies).

 

For the originator of this thread, my advice is to find out from Tristan (who can be reached in this Board) when he will be in Northern Connecticut; schedule something in advance, as Tristan is quite the traveling stud. Like Mr. Irons, he is much in demand---but, also like A.J. the Great---he is worth meeting and getting sweaty with!

[+ bigjoey]

http://www.gayforit.eu/static_view_video/179488.html

 

Wade Cutler (in the green trunks) is Jon Ramsey. He is the real deal when it come to wrestling.

[JT Brooklyn]

http://www.gayforit.eu/static_view_video/179488.html

 

Wade Cutler (in the green trunks) is Jon Ramsey. He is the real deal when it come to wrestling.

 

Thanks bigjoey! I haven't seen a "Wade Cutler" Video in a long time! He was definitely one of the ALL TIME Favorites for that site!

 

Alot of guys would not do a HARD & Load Scene.. BUT Ramsey was always Up for it in a Big way!

 

No need to mention why JOSE also was extremely popular and a "Big" Seller for them!

[+ bigjoey]

If you follow the posted link to the video, on the left side toward the bottom there are links to several other Wade Cutler videos. Jon looks even better today as he continually improves and works out very hard, plus his personality is amazing.