HotShott in NYC?

[ues123]

Anyone been with this guy? Thanks in advance for any info

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=288430

[Lewis H]

Anyone been with this guy? Thanks in advance for any info

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=288430

Looks familiar, actually, like I've seen those pics before. Can't say how or when or where though.

 

Too bad he isn't a kisser. Everything else...well... damn.

[bigvalboy]

Not that it matters since I am not in NYC, however I am curious, where does it say he is not a kisser? What did I miss?

[adriano46]

Two hints here:

 

1) He is straight

2) Under "Tastes/Specialties etc..." those who KISS mark it; those who do not, leave it blank so it is inferred.

[bigvalboy]

Two hints here:

 

1) He is straight

2) Under "Tastes/Specialties etc..." those who KISS mark it; those who do not, leave it blank so it is inferred.

 

Well thank you adriano, actually I never knew that. What is funny to me is that even though he is 'straight' he will stick his 'dik' up a gay guys ass, and has no problem with the guy being high, but he won't kiss him. Now that is funny.

[bigvalboy]

What is it about kissing that straight guys find soooo out of bounds sexually? It has always been sorta odd to me. I have been with my share of straight guys over the years and while the sex is often amazing, they have this thing about not wanting to kiss, like that alone will suddenly make them gay.

[uwsman2]

Kissing is associated with emotion in most guys' minds. So to preserve their "straight" image they can't engage in anything so emotional or personal as kissing. That would mean that they were "making love" instead of just "having sex."

[adriano46]

Not that it is 100% the same, remember Julie Roberts' character as the prostitute in PRETTY WOMAN who was given the advice, never let the guy KISS you? I think for straight men, it is very much the same. Kissing is an emotional (and super hot for me) attachment. I think they fear going down that path and discovering they might actually like it.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I'm reminded of a story a friend from India told me about his time in Egypt.

 

He was heavy into sex with a hookup. They were sucking each other, groping each other when my friend

grabbed the guy to kiss him. The Egyptian pulled away in shock and glared at him shouting "You - You!

You are a homosexual!"

 

To remain "straight" he could do anything but kiss.

[seeker630]

Kissing is associated with emotion in most guys' minds. So to preserve their "straight" image they can't engage in anything so emotional or personal as kissing. That would mean that they were "making love" instead of just "having sex."

 

In my earlier days of hiring, I met several escorts who had boyfriends, and they had agreed not to kiss clients. But that was years ago, and I wonder if attitudes have loosened a bit for younger guys.

[Guest Spanky]

What is it about kissing that straight guys find soooo out of bounds sexually? It has always been sorta odd to me. I have been with my share of straight guys over the years and while the sex is often amazing, they have this thing about not wanting to kiss, like that alone will suddenly make them gay.

 

Maybe they've seen Pretty Woman too many times and they think they're Julia Roberts?

[Lewis H]

Not that it is 100% the same, remember Julie Roberts' character as the prostitute in PRETTY WOMAN who was given the advice, never let the guy KISS you? I think for straight men, it is very much the same. Kissing is an emotional (and super hot for me) attachment. I think they fear going down that path and discovering they might actually like it.

 

 

Yeah, it's weird how that is, but that's exactly it. And maybe that's why I like it in an escort, because it seems more personal. Kissing could mean you like the man as a man, and are therefore attracted to men, just not 'taking care of business by sticking your penis in a hole.' Topping is still seen as being dominant, and perhaps just a means to an end (pun intended) meaning the top's pleasure. I think that's why they eschewed showing their models kissing in Sean Cody for the longest time, as it was the 'last frontier.' Not that they're really straight anyhow, but who really knows with how fluid sexuality is shown to be nowadays.

[TruthBTold]

Kissing is associated with emotion in most guys' minds. So to preserve their "straight" image they can't engage in anything so emotional or personal as kissing. That would mean that they were "making love" instead of just "having sex."

 

It probably is true but it is also the dumbest thing ever thought up. If sticking your cock in someone's ass and holding him until you cum in his ass (or not) or he cums is not "making love", I am not sure what is. I think kissing was thought as "making love" when that is all anyone did before they got married.

[bigvalboy]

Maybe they've seen Pretty Woman too many times and they think they're Julia Roberts?

 

Hey everyone, thank you for the feedback on my question about straight guys not wanting to kiss..It really makes more sense now. I just never thought of it in those terms, and it was always odd to me. I can actually kind of understand where a straight guy is coming from. Kissing means he is emotionally and romantically attached as opposed to just having sex...thanks all

[ues123]

Anyone who has actually met this guy? Thanks!