Need some advice re: BDSM & Choosing an Escort

[ErieBear]

Hey guys,

 

I'll be traveling to LA in a couple of months and have been talking to 2 different escorts about spending some time with them. I am into some BDSM, but I'm not a pain pig or anything like that.

 

Escort #1: Totally hot and just looking at his pic gets my cock hard. But, he seems more extreme in the BDSM world and makes me a bit nervous. Answers emails immediately.

 

Escort #2: Not exactly my type, but he is good-looking and well built. Doesn't seem as extreme, and seems more "safe". And he doesn't make me nervous at all. Doesn't seem to answer emails, but does answer his phone.

 

I'm really struggling choosing between the two and thought I'd ask you guys for ideas/ suggestions/ tips.

 

Thanks!

[+ Travis69]

I would give us links to each escort. Perhaps someone here has experienced one of them and can give you some input.

[leigh.bess.toad]

EB -- a couple of thoughts. If escort #1 really does it for you, I would certainly consider pursuing. BUT only if you talk to him about your limits, and he scrupulously adheres to an agreed upon safety word. I would certainly think that a phone call to talk about it him with him is in order, talking about your limits and the use of the safety word. If there is any inkling that he won't, by all means do not use him. He may turn you on but an unsafe BDSM scene can be bad news and ruin any turn-on you may feel. I guess the question is how much experience do either of these guys have. Travis is right, a link would be useful to us.

 

Good luck.

[ErieBear]

#1 has pulled his ad because he's out of town (I emailed him and asked him why it was pulled). His name is Master Enzo.

 

#2 is Master Ryker. Here's a link to his website: http://www.MasterRyker.com/main.html

[bigvalboy]

Hey EB, this is not my thing so I do not have personal experience, but I am positive Master Enzo has been discussed here before. A little research should bring something up. Good Luck

[ErieBear]

Hey EB, this is not my thing so I do not have personal experience, but I am positive Master Enzo has been discussed here before. A little research should bring something up. Good Luck

 

Thanks. I'll look for that.

[ErieBear]

Turns out not much on Master Enzo. Just one person saying that he didn't have a very good time, but no real reason why.

[+ Travis69]

Check Muscleservice.com and do a search. Might be some information there.

[rvwnsd]

#2 is Master Ryker. Here's a link to his website: http://www.MasterRyker.com/main.html

 

PM me and I will share a bit about my experience with Master Ryker.

[buzz]

I have played with both these men and each is very HOT!!! I'm a very submissive FF/BDSM bottom and fairly serious pain pig. Both these guys made me very happy. In many ways I think Master Ryker could be more extreme than Master Enzo, but he is very disciplined and would probably work within your limits. He left me with welts and bruises that were wonderful. Have fun!

[whipped guy]

He left me with welts and bruises that were wonderful. Have fun!

Been there done that... but now I am of the opinion that BDSM can be done without any visual remnants... Unless of course if is what you want that is...

 

I'm really struggling choosing between the two...

The bottom line is this... Communicate your exact wishes... what ever they be... and any experienced BDSM top worth his salt will adhere to and respect those wishes. Trust and confidence in the top guy is what it's all about...

 

I have posted this a million times... and that is if the top does not "respect those wishes" run for the hills. It is the bottom who sets the rules and the top who respects them. If he is not willing to play by your rules then look elsewhere. Sure, limits can be tested... but a nudge over the line... a nudge which you might enjoy... a nudge that might expand your horizons... is not the same as overtly ignoring any pre-discussed limits. Sometimes a bit of under-estimating and taking things a bit slowly can prove to be more valuable in the long run... and get you along farther than might have been thought possible... and is a shorter amount of time.

 

It's amazing how the body gets acclimated to and revels in pain when it is dispensed properly...