To escorts: Would you rather suck a client or have client suck you?

[Decatur Guy]

This is a from a thread in the main chatroom I started. (I was curious what exactly it is about sucking cock that's so enticing to so many gay guys -- on the face of it, it seems like getting sucked would be the slam-dunk choice, especially from the physical stimulation angle).

 

So, when you're meeting someone, would you rather be the primary oral provider or do you like for the other guy to be the main/exclusive cocksucker?

[Michael Wayne]

It is a simple answer really. My GAY clients are into sucking me and they are good at it! My STRAIGHT (closeted, married, bi) clients hire me to give them what their wife/gf either cant or wont do right. I love a nice dick and the truth is that over the years my oral skills have probably got me more repeat/regular clients than my cock has. Alot of escorts are hung but not many are really good with their tongue. also, if the emphasis is on the client and not you then you don't have to cum as much and thus can see more clients in a day. simple math

[jjkrkwood]

It is a simple answer really. My GAY clients are into sucking me and they are good at it! My STRAIGHT (closeted, married, bi) clients hire me to give them what their wife/gf either cant or wont do right. I love a nice dick and the truth is that over the years my oral skills have probably got me more repeat/regular clients than my cock has. Alot of escorts are hung but not many are really good with their tongue. also, if the emphasis is on the client and not you then you don't have to cum as much and thus can see more clients in a day. simple math

 

Mikey, I love the way you Always answer a question with self-promotion. I cant vouch for all the stuff you brag about, but you ARE one helluva business man.....

[Epigonos]

jj I REALLY enjoy the fact that you ALWAYS call it exactly as you see it regardless of the consequences. I may not always agree with you but by damn you are NEVER dull and uninteresting.

[josephga]

lol

[Phil_musc]

I'm waiting for more escorts to weigh in on this question. May help me make decisions on upcoming hires.

[jjkrkwood]

jj I REALLY enjoy the fact that you ALWAYS call it exactly as you see it regardless of the consequences. I may not always agree with you but by damn you are NEVER dull and uninteresting.

 

I rarely get a nice review on this site, and when I do, I am most appreciative. Thank you Epig.....for recognizing GREATNESS. (wink)

[+ purplekow]

I thought Greatness was planning his wedding to a woman and had disappeared from the scene. Could it be that Greatness was less than forthright about himself? In someways though Greatness would be a great fit with jj. One could not control his need to post on every subject and responded to almost every post and in the process of doing so, racked up a huge number of mostly nondescript posts in a short period of time and then there was Greatness...

[zeyfur]

Mikey, I love the way you Always answer a question with self-promotion. I cant vouch for all the stuff you brag about, but you ARE one helluva business man.....

 

JJ-You are spot on about Mikey . You always tell it like it is !!

[Steven_Draker]

I thought Greatness was planning his wedding to a woman and had disappeared from the scene.

 

He hasn't vanished, just relocated or should I say elected a different (cyber)home. And from what I read I understand he's fine. Once in a blue moon he'd chime in here and has done so recently.

[Steven_Draker]

I like both performing oral and having oral being performed on me.

[maxwellissmart]

I like both performing oral and having oral being performed on me.[/color]

 

I like both, but with restrictions.

 

ONE—I love, love, love, love to suck cock. I don't need someone directing me (I AM a professional, you know) by trying to force me in one direction or another. I swear, I'll get the job done and it will be good. Be patient.

 

TWO—Guys who actually know what the hell they are doing are so few and far between that I automatically expect to be disappointed by a client's oral ability. I have two guys on Manhunt with whom I hook up with on a regular basis, and both are excellent. Alas, they don't pay.

[josephga]

id rather have my ass eaten lol

[nynakedtop]

may i add a comment as a client?

 

for me: oral is a must - a deal-breaker in fact. i prefer mutual. that is an understatement!

[Decatur Guy]

Thanks for all the replies (in other words, I'm shamelessly bumping this thread because I want to hear from more escorts).

[maxwellissmart]

id rather have my ass eaten lol

 

Well in all honesty—my favorite thing is to bounce back and forth between the two with a client—have him on his back at the edge of the bed or legs up in a chair, alternately sucking and licking between ass, balls and dick.

[Michael Wayne]

what the fuck is wrong with self-promotion? seriously? That is why I am on here: to meet new clients and give them a great experience and to network. If an escort does not feel that he is one of the best then why escort? Do you not want someone who is confident- yet not cocky? I will gladly leave the forum and never post again if that is what yall want. is it? With my ads and my regulars and my reviews I really don't need the forum to survive. My desire is to make myself known to as many potential clients as possible to give them enjoyment and to thicken my wallet. Also, why is it that when any other escort attaches a website or a number or a pic or describes his style that they never get rudely accused of self-promotion but I do. I am VERY PROUD of my business, of my body of my COCK and of how god-damned nice I am to my clients. I am really tired of the pettiness and shallowness of some forum members who have nothing better to do than get mad if someone promotes themselves. here is more self-promotion @ http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1 . If you want one of AMerica's best tops who never dissappoints then hire me! no attitude UNLESS YOU GIVE ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[jjkrkwood]

what the fuck is wrong with self-promotion? seriously? That is why I am on here: to meet new clients and give them a great experience and to network. If an escort does not feel that he is one of the best then why escort? Do you not want someone who is confident- yet not cocky? I will gladly leave the forum and never post again if that is what yall want. is it? With my ads and my regulars and my reviews I really don't need the forum to survive. My desire is to make myself known to as many potential clients as possible to give them enjoyment and to thicken my wallet. Also, why is it that when any other escort attaches a website or a number or a pic or describes his style that they never get rudely accused of self-promotion but I do. I am VERY PROUD of my business, of my body of my COCK and of how god-damned nice I am to my clients. I am really tired of the pettiness and shallowness of some forum members who have nothing better to do than get mad if someone promotes themselves. here is more self-promotion @ http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1 . If you want one of AMerica's best tops who never dissappoints then hire me! no attitude UNLESS YOU GIVE ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

Wow, quite a Retort. When it comes to self promotion and "tooting ones own horn", you are definately the Master. Please dont leave the site Mikey. All the hot air you bring to the site keeps us nice and "toasty"....

[raife]

www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1[/url] . If you want one of AMerica's best tops who never dissappoints then hire me! no attitude UNLESS YOU GIVE ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

Hey Mikey - I for one very much enjoy your input, you're just the right shade of cocky, and I read your posts with excitement and a frequent hard-on. There are not enough escorts participating here, way too many bitchy snobbish "clients". This is probably why so many other rentboys choose to keep a low profile or use a pseudonym on here, this crowd can be cynical and impossible to please, every topic becomes polarized and controversial, I'm glad you're bold enough to dive into the scuffle and wrestle your way through, you stand up for your viewpoint quite well.

 

I resisted at first, but given recent events have begun using this forum's "ignore" feature, to silence the most egregious trolls. I recommend it highly, makes for a much more pleasurable interactive experience! Keep on strutting your stuff, stud. Some of us love your scrappy style, sure it may cost you an overly nervous customer here and there, but it'll be more than offset by us fans of the masculine alpha male!

[bigvalboy]

what the fuck is wrong with self-promotion? seriously? That is why I am on here: to meet new clients and give them a great experience and to network. If an escort does not feel that he is one of the best then why escort? Do you not want someone who is confident- yet not cocky? I will gladly leave the forum and never post again if that is what yall want. is it? With my ads and my regulars and my reviews I really don't need the forum to survive. My desire is to make myself known to as many potential clients as possible to give them enjoyment and to thicken my wallet. Also, why is it that when any other escort attaches a website or a number or a pic or describes his style that they never get rudely accused of self-promotion but I do. I am VERY PROUD of my business, of my body of my COCK and of how god-damned nice I am to my clients. I am really tired of the pettiness and shallowness of some forum members who have nothing better to do than get mad if someone promotes themselves. here is more self-promotion @ http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1 . If you want one of AMerica's best tops who never dissappoints then hire me! no attitude UNLESS YOU GIVE ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

Mikey love your posts as well...Self promotion is brillant business. Years ago I was watching with envy a succesful and wealthy friend of mine work the room at a Christmas party we were all attending. I watched in amazement as he smoothly worked each group of people in the room engaging in conversations. When I asked him his secret, he said "you should talk to everyone like they are your next employer" If you think about it, that would make someone very engaging. You do come across to me in your posts as someone who would be a blast to be around and just a great escort on any level. There are so MANY escorts that disappoint, it is nice to know that there are some out there who truly take there profession seriously and are as concerned about pleasing there clients as much as we love to be pleased. Be Well, BVB

[instudiocity]

... I am VERY PROUD of my business, of my body of my COCK and of how god-damned nice I am to my clients.

 

... If you want one of AMerica's best tops who never dissappoints then hire me! no attitude UNLESS YOU GIVE ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

... When I asked him his secret, he said "you should talk to everyone like they are your next employer" ...

Which explains why I shan't be hiring Mikey9NOLA as a submissive pig bottom!

 

Which is quite apparently A-OK with MIKEY9NOLA, LOL!

[jjkrkwood]

I agree with BVB to a point. Promotion is a good thing. But on the otherhand, word of mouth is more powerful. A person that is truly GREAT doesnt need to keep reminding everyone of it. Word will be out on the street. It comes off as arrogant bragging (at least to me), and just alot of bullshit lip service. (start typing the hate mail guys) This sort of ME,ME, ME promotion is off putting (at least to me) but I really dont see myself as the kind of client Mikey would see anyway, so my opinion shouldnt matter much.... There seems to me to be a 2-faced sort of mentality on this site. Often, I get pvt messages from members about posts made by others here with Negative comments about them, yet when they publicly POST, its all about ass kissing and comraderie. If that sort of approach works for you in this world, thats fine, but thats not the person i aspire to being. And please dont reply by saying that I am not the person YOU aspire to being. I got that already ! Save your energy.

[instudiocity]

... A person that is truly GREAT doesnt need to keep reminding everyone of it. Word will be out on the street. It comes off as arrogant bragging (at least to me), and just alot of bullshit lip service.... This sort of ME,ME, ME promotion is off putting but I really dont see myself as the kind of client Mikey would see anyway...

 

I believe you might be speaking of a sense of decorum. Mikey's decorum doesn't match up with me at all. I have a sense that we would be uncomfortable together in the hotel lobby, but then I do enjoy not drawing attention to myself. And I appreciate an escort who can pull off a 'good friend', 'nephew', 'business associate' style when in my company.

[bigvalboy]

I believe you might be speaking of a sense of decorum. Mikey's decorum doesn't match up with me at all. I have a sense that we would be uncomfortable together in the hotel lobby, but then I do enjoy not drawing attention to myself. And I appreciate an escort who can pull off a 'good friend', 'nephew', 'business associate' style when in my company.

I stopped worrying about that kind of stuff years ago. I was traveling with a dear friend of mine overseas. We where waiting in the first class lounge for a flight out London. I of course was dressed in all the family jewels, feeling very full of myself, you know the typical all matching luggage and stuff. The trip had gone exceedingly well and I was quite pleased with my life at the time. My friend, then 60 was traveling with his 23 year old lover who was asian and they were holding hands, so the three of us were the topic of some whispers and the look you get with the wrinkled forehead of dissapproval from the other passengers. I of course was visibly uncomfortable and said to my friend "Isn't to bad that in this day and age we just can't be ourselves" He looked at me and replied, "In your world maybe, not in mine." I have never forgotten that, and as I watched him just enjoying himself and his boyfriend at that moment in time it made me jealous. I decided then and there, that going forward I was never again going to hide to the world who or what I was. My life and my travel experiences went up 10 fold after that moment.

[jjkrkwood]

I believe you might be speaking of a sense of decorum. Mikey's decorum doesn't match up with me at all. I have a sense that we would be uncomfortable together in the hotel lobby, but then I do enjoy not drawing attention to myself. And I appreciate an escort who can pull off a 'good friend', 'nephew', 'business associate' style when in my company.

 

ISC, I dont think I was really speaking of decroum per se. I meant I wouldnt be the type Mikey would see because I am not the type to fawn over him and tell him how great he is. He seems to thrive on that... Although I hire seldom and random, when I do, i think the guys I hire are Quality; not the type of guys I could pick up in a bar for Free. They have looks, body and Huge cock, and you never once hear them mention any of those things. You can see it, its obvious. Mikey is the other end of the spectrum entirely. As he says his goal is to give his clients pleasure and make them remember the experience so he gets repeat business, I dont see how thats possible when his focus, at least to me, is Himself. Its just the impression I get from his presence and posts here. (And to PK, I am sorry if this is NOT the "popular" opinion).....