Is it true that most every escort out there has a boyfriend?

[EZEtoGRU]

Yep...I will admit that I never looked at the post from this viewpoint. Thanks EZE

 

Yep...we all like different types. My guys are primarily preoccupied with putting food on the table for their families. And they are super hot and very masculine. Works great for me. Would not work well for others. Live and let live. Peace in Michigan!!

[raulgmanzo]

I don't have a boyfriend but do have tons of friends including a good number of fuck buddies.

A few of my friends/fuck buddies feel as close as a boyfriend but none are exclusive.

Guess I'm just not the monogamous type.

[Decatur Guy]

I don't have a boyfriend but do have tons of friends including a good number of fuck buddies.

A few of my friends/fuck buddies feel as close as a boyfriend but none are exclusive.

Guess I'm just not the monogamous type.

 

Now I find it interesting you have some fuck buddies! Never thought about an escort having fuck buddies. Do they know you escort? How did you meet them? Are they escorts themselves?

[Phil_musc]

This is information I would probably prefer not knowing - whether he has a bf or a gf - or any permutation thereof. The time that we spend together is short and while I am not opposed to conversation, I'm not really one to open up about myself that easily. I would hope that the guy has a nice life and is happy in what he is doing and that if he has a bf, everyone is onboard and cool with the situation. But I do like to feel that there is a certain amount of chemistry between us, and that is why straight escorts generally don't really push the right buttons for me. Bi is ok, but straight with a gf or wife - that's just too weirdly uncomfortable for me. I'd have to be pretty horny to get past that. Ignorance, in my case, is bliss I guess.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Now I find it interesting you have some fuck buddies! Never thought about an escort having fuck buddies. Do they know you escort? How did you meet them? Are they escorts themselves?

 

I do know of escorts with fb's as well. As well as quite a few escorts I know of get on Grindr or Manhunt or whatever and just hookup with guys when they are horny and not working. Some even with bf's.

[josephga]

I've seen escorts on sites giving it away for free b4 too. guess they have a day off or something and want too get laid

[Guest jhmp]

I have a boyfriend (he's also an escort) and most of escorts I met live in some kind of arrangement (either real bf or fuck buddy/duo partner).

[Bosguy]

Three of my favorite working guys are in a relationship, and, from what they told me, are extremely happy. My time with them is wonderful and I applaud them all for loving their partners and truly enjoying their time with us guys. Beyond that, the boyfriend issue is a personal choice by these guys and , very frankly, is none of our business.

 

Boston Bill

[Guest jhmp]

Three of my favorite working guys are in a relationship, and, from what they told me, are extremely happy. My time with them is wonderful and I applaud them all for loving their partners and truly enjoying their time with us guys. Beyond that, the boyfriend issue is a personal choice by these guys and , very frankly, is none of our business.

 

Boston Bill

 

well said

[Epigonos]

The two escorts I see on a regular basis do not have boyfriends. One guy I used to see did have a boyfriend and it didn’t bother me in the slightest. In fact we often talked about what the two of them were doing.

As clients the first things we MUST come to understand, immediately, is the difference between “companionship” and love. Escorts are selling “companionship” NOT love. If we could all hire escorts knowing the difference between these two concepts then there should not be a problem. As a long time participant on this site I can remember a number a threads started by clients who were looking for escorts to fill their need for a boyfriend. Any client who finds himself in this situation is heading for serious emotional trouble.

If an escort I’m seeing has a boyfriend/partner and is happy in that relationship, good for him. As far as I’m concerned happy escorts make happy “companions”.

[robberbaron4u]

Most every "escort" out there THINKS he has a boyfriend. The business lends itself to illusion and, more often than not, delusion. . .

[jjkrkwood]

Most every "escort" out there THINKS he has a boyfriend. The business lends itself to illusion and, more often than not, delusion. . .

 

Here, here Robber, INDUBIDIBLY !!!!!!!!!

[zeyfur]

I think we need to remember the escorts are still human beings at the end of the day. They need love like anybody else. My regular escort has a long time boyfriend.

[JoeyBryant]

I'm not, I but if a sugar daddy would like me to be their partner I wouldn't say no hahahaha

 

LOL, well funny that you say so. I've dated 2 guys who began as clients but then the chemistry was there enough that I went ahead and dated them. It's not something I look for (I usually have to say no more often than not), and the one I'm seeing now..it just sort of happened. He actually wasn't looking to pay but I talked him into it (it was a weird set up, I wasn't hustling him though LOL. I kind of just bought it up to him and he took the offer), but then we didn't see each other for 2 months and then I was starting to like him the next time we met.

 

But in this case, it isn't a sugar daddy arrangement though. It's more of an older guy-younger guy thing. It's just unfortunately, they are the only ones who can understand my occupation without getting all jealous and judgmental like guys my age thru about 40 are. Most of them are always trying to talk me into doing something else.

 

The next question to be asked with reason of course is has anyone ever had someone say "I dont feel right hiring because you have a bf"

 

I can see that makes sense. I mean, how attached can the client feel if the escort has his boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/kids/dog waiting outside in the car til after the appointment is over?

 

Most every "escort" out there THINKS he has a boyfriend. The business lends itself to illusion and, more often than not, delusion. . .

 

 

Well that's no lie. but normal people also live under delusion. Like the guy I went to meet out of town, said he was single but then had another guy telling him to tell me that they are boyfriends. But who was sleeping in his bed for 3 days last weekend? It wasn't his boyfriend. It was me (that's another reason I like dating older guys, less drama LOL)

 

Now I find it interesting you have some fuck buddies! Never thought about an escort having fuck buddies. Do they know you escort? How did you meet them? Are they escorts themselves?

 

Well yeah! We didn't just get born and all of a sudden attracted to guys 45 year old and up. I think every escort does and should have an attraction for someone of their liking. Otherwise they are neglecting themselves.

[scottspearsxxx]

I had a boyfriend about 7 years ago, but have been happily single ever since.