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I was thinking about this the other day, when I was chatting with a guy in another town over the hill. We were talking about different places and about his area.

 

Well, during the conversation he says, "I don't like it here much, but I moved out here with my boyfriend." I was like, ahhhh okay. I thought for a moment he was single LOL.

 

You would think it'd be the opposite, that most of us are single doing our own thing. And that many guys wouldn't accept our lifestyle. But even a guy I knew years ago (the first time I actually met an escort) was in a relationship and lived together.

 

I was watching an episode of 'Tough Love Miami' on VH1, and the dating coach had compelled 1 of the girls to stop go-go dancing if she wanted to continue seeing the guy she'd been matched with. And on the 3rd episode she said she would quit.

 

I'm just curious, do people start escorting before or after they are in a relationship? Or shall I say, during the relationship?

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I have hired several well known escorts who definitely have significant others. I can think of 7 off hand and that does not include Rick and Derek. Considering i have hired about 30 escorts total, at least 1/3 of them are known to have partners by me and many of the others I did not hire more than once and did not get to know well. As i am writing this i have recalled two more who had boyfriends and two more who had girlfriends one who was dating a pre-op transsexual and another who was married to a woman but that is likely a marriage of convenience. That would take the total to nearly half.

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Oddly enough I have been wondering, just how many escorts out there have someone as well. Maybe this was because I have one, and most of my friends who are in the business either have someone, or are talking with someone. The next question to be asked with reason of course is has anyone ever had someone say "I dont feel right hiring because you have a bf" this has happened to me twice both times they were very polite in how they said never mind however I thought it odd, as I figure there are plenty of escorts who have a bf and what if everyone that person choose that he liked had a bf? So how many escorts do have bfs, and also do any say they dont in fear of losing business. And as a client how do you feel about escorts with bfs?

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I don't want to know about another bf...It ruins the fantasy for me. Big turn off for me. Actually had an escort once who began talking about his bf while we were together, needless to say that I ended our session early. Now this might sound strange, but if and escort says that they have a girlfriend, somehow that is erotic for me.

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I don't want to know about another bf...It ruins the fantasy for me. Big turn off for me. Actually had an escort once who began talking about his bf while we were together, needless to say that I ended our session early. Now this might sound strange, but if and escort says that they have a girlfriend, somehow that is erotic for me.

 

Oh BVB, please dont start the str8 guy Fantasy thing again.... Its all just words, words, words.

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Hey hold the phone girlfriend, your B-Day boy is str8, no?............Can't I indulge in a little fantasy of my own? Ya know what they say, VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

You think I believe his Str8 Bullshit ? Give me more credit then that BVB... I am in that for the silicone, not the fish smell on his dick.... ;-O

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You think I believe his Str8 Bullshit ? Give me more credit then that BVB... I am in that for the silicone, not the fish smell on his dick.... ;-O

 

" the fish smell on his dick?"........... ok that just ruined any fantasy I might have conjured up for this. uugh, ya know it is better when they just lie to me and tell me what I want to hear.

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" the fish smell on his dick?"........... ok that just ruined any fantasy I might have conjured up for this. uugh, ya know it is better when they just lie to me and tell me what I want to hear.

 

 

But thats what you pay them for, so you should get it, without question. Maybe you need to start inviting them onton your boat, or to your Theme Park. They obviously dont know the power that you wield.

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But thats what you pay them for, so you should get it, without question. Maybe you need to start inviting them onton your boat, or to your Theme Park. They obviously dont know the power that you wield.

 

The power I wield is between my legs, but you already knew that, right? and NOBODY is allowed on the boat, that is my sanctuary.

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Picky if

 

I don't think that I can afford to be that picky.

 

If an escort has a bf and if I get the impression that his bf knows and accepts what he is doing then I am okay with it. Of course, thats a lot of IFs and you have to take the escorts word as gospel on these matters.

gcursor

 

And as a client how do you feel about escorts with bfs?
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I don't really care one way or the other (BF or GF), other than once I had an long-standing appointment, and two hours beforehand, the escort called and said his BF had flown to Atlanta to see him and that the BF was jealous of him escorting.

 

He offered to still meet, but the whole thing was such a buzzkill by then that I took the offer to call it off. ... And if the boyfriend knew he was in town to be conducting business -- and flew here anyway knowing it would probably disrupt his business -- I thought I just didn't want to get caught up in all that mess. It just wouldn't have been fun.

 

So I do care to the extent that I've learned it can fuck up meeting. But if it doesn't fuck up the session, I'm OK either way. I just hope it's an understood arrangement for the sake of the escort's partner. I don't inquire about these things.

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Having a boyfriend (whether real or fake) is a 'nice' way of keeping clients from getting the wrong idea about where the 'relationship' between escort and client will be going.

 

My suspicion is that clients who are the type that latch onto escorts wouldnt really care about the BF thing. I think they feel its glamourous, trendy, whatever to "befriend" their escorts (and then theres always the hope of getting FREE sex, although generally, they would NEVER admit to that)....

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Having a bf can be a really great thing in the biz but it can also be a major problem. However, it is not a BUSINESS choice. I mean you can't decide who you fall in love with. Having a bf offers me protection, security, a real life, family, etc. Having a bf informs any clients as to my availabilty ( 1 hr, 2 hrs, an evening or a weekend) but NOT FOREVER! I am not in the biz to find a sugardaddy as I have gone that route before and MAN WAS IT A GREAT RIDE!!!!!! But, listen, a 50%/50% equal relationship is the best way to go which is what I have now. Escorting is my profession which I am very good ad. My bf accepts me. 90% of new clients LIKE the fact that I am taken. for 10% it is a dealbreaker. Others don't like the fact that I have alot of female clients but that is just who and what I am. I never try to be what I am not. I am who I am. I was the guy DECATUR GUY was referring to earlier and I have apologized for that unfortunate time and think the situation was resolved. I love my bf and he and my family come first. This keeps me grounded and focused. All my best to everyone, Mikey @ http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

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I'm just thinking about the guys I hire. And I think I can say that most of them do have a bf/gf that I know of. I was chatting with one of my guys today and we were talking about our respective bf's. They are happy I've found someone just as I am happy they have someone in their lives. Out of the 6 or 7 guys I'm closest too, I'm not sure about 1 having a bf/gf, another I know doesn't, and the rest do.

 

I like knowing that the men I'm with are happy in all parts of their lives. I don't need it to be a fantasy that they will be my bf. Fantasy is one thing. Delusional is another. And with me to have that belief would be delusional.

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gcursor Mentor

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another viewpoint

 

Yep...I will admit that I never looked at the post from this viewpoint. Thanks EZE

 

 

None of the three regular guys I hire have BF's. Two are in LTR's with women and have children. The other one also has a child but is not with the girl any longer.
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