Sharing a guy in NYC. Group?

[Guest hardnights]

Thanks for the advice. Good ideas. Are you in NYC?

[Guest hardnights]

Its hard to screen those things, and you never know who is gonna show up. It only takes a few bad apples to spoil the bunch.

 

I agree. I don't really like these more open, mass things. Guys with wedding rings are a turn off to me.

[+ Italiano]

So...WHERE AND WHEN??

[Phil_musc]

I have only now just read this week-old thread. Since I'm not in NYC, I figured why bother. To me though, I don't understand the thinking here. I was taught to share as a child, but somehow I don't think this is what my Sunday School teacher had in mind. I suppose if you have an escort for each participant, then maybe. But (and please don't take offense at this which is going to sound unkind) are you client guys planning on having sex with each other too? If so, why bring in the pros - for a touch of glamour or eye candy or what? You know I love you all, but if I were shelling out the bucks I'd want to be making sure I got my money's worth with the hired hands (or whatever parts of the body are available) and I'm not so sure that I'd be wanting to mess with the amateurs who presumably I might be able to engage with for free (it COULD happen - don't laugh) Aren't there bath houses in NYC where such an evening could be found for a lot less cash outlay?

[zeyfur]

Well if that is what floats someone,s boat. , why not ?

[jjkrkwood]

I have only now just read this week-old thread. Since I'm not in NYC, I figured why bother. To me though, I don't understand the thinking here. I was taught to share as a child, but somehow I don't think this is what my Sunday School teacher had in mind. I suppose if you have an escort for each participant, then maybe. But (and please don't take offense at this which is going to sound unkind) are you client guys planning on having sex with each other too? If so, why bring in the pros - for a touch of glamour or eye candy or what? You know I love you all, but if I were shelling out the bucks I'd want to be making sure I got my money's worth with the hired hands (or whatever parts of the body are available) and I'm not so sure that I'd be wanting to mess with the amateurs who presumably I might be able to engage with for free (it COULD happen - don't laugh) Aren't there bath houses in NYC where such an evening could be found for a lot less cash outlay?

 

Phil, I am HIGLY offended ! Anyway, I did offer the name of a sex club where group acitivity could be had for FREE, but I believe the OP is looking for Pro-caliber eye candy as you call it to entertain the troops. Party decorations are always costly, but they usually make the party.

As for me, I frequent this sex club I mentioned, and you can have 8 hrs of unlimited sex for $15. They may have hot bodies and small cocks, or they may be ugly with Huge cocks. Seldom do you get a HOT BODY "AND" A HUGE COCK (those guys become escorts). But it always serves the purpose for me, and often I hook up with guys that I tend to see again "offsite". Its a Win-Win !

[Phil_musc]

I must be on quite a roll because you. JJ. are the second person I have offended in as many days. Sorry about that - you know I really love you though and would never hurt your feelings for all the world. Nevertheless, I am not dissuaded from what I said. At any rate, the idea seems to have morphed from the OP's original idea which sounded kind of intimate and sweet in retrospect. Suddenly, we're talking about renting Madison Square Garden or Roseland Ballroom, both certainly worthy venues for such an august gathering of menfolk. Somehow the original intimate idea seems to have evolved into something approaching a circuit party. Additionally, many here seem to have wildly different concepts of what the evening should entail. And these wildly divergent ideas have also spawned incredibly different economic ramifications and theories of how the workers should be compensated. Some posters have suggested every escort should be paid full fee, and for an event of say four hours (an idea which also appears above), some of us lesser aristocracy would never be able to afford such a gathering, even with a generous multi-hour discount. Someone also suggested at least two additional escorts be brought on board over the number of amateur players. This is probably a good idea and certainly would offer the workers a fair break which according to most union rules they would be entitled to expect. I'm beginning to see why people hire party-planners and why many companies have event planners. Someone needs to have a handle on all these difficult decisions so that the evening can run smoothly. My head is swimming at the complexities that have to be considered, so much so that I think I'd opt to stay home with my partner (the least expensive proposition yet) or hightail it into Center City for a quiet evening of debauchery at the Club Baths or one of the local playrooms. Probably less fabulous for sure - at least in quantity and qualitiy, but for me it only takes one for a good time. Let's see: do I spend a few bucks and have maybe a terrific evening or do I take out a second mortgage on my house to pay my fair share in this enterprise which, while I'm sure will be one for the record books (Guinness anyone?) will still only furnish me with an orgasm or two. Hmmm. What to do, what to do. I must be getting old. On the other hand, the OP's original idea might be fun - just saying. . . But really, no offense meant.

[jjkrkwood]

I must be on quite a roll because you. JJ. are the second person I have offended in as many days. Sorry about that - you know I really love you though and would never hurt your feelings for all the world. Nevertheless, I am not dissuaded from what I said. At any rate, the idea seems to have morphed from the OP's original idea which sounded kind of intimate and sweet in retrospect. Suddenly, we're talking about renting Madison Square Garden or Roseland Ballroom, both certainly worthy venues for such an august gathering of menfolk. Somehow the original intimate idea seems to have evolved into something approaching a circuit party. Additionally, many here seem to have wildly different concepts of what the evening should entail. And these wildly divergent ideas have also spawned incredibly different economic ramifications and theories of how the workers should be compensated. Some posters have suggested every escort should be paid full fee, and for an event of say four hours (an idea which also appears above), some of us lesser aristocracy would never be able to afford such a gathering, even with a generous multi-hour discount. Someone also suggested at least two additional escorts be brought on board over the number of amateur players. This is probably a good idea and certainly would offer the workers a fair break which according to most union rules they would be entitled to expect. I'm beginning to see why people hire party-planners and why many companies have event planners. Someone needs to have a handle on all these difficult decisions so that the evening can run smoothly. My head is swimming at the complexities that have to be considered, so much so that I think I'd opt to stay home with my partner (the least expensive proposition yet) or hightail it into Center City for a quiet evening of debauchery at the Club Baths or one of the local playrooms. Probably less fabulous for sure - at least in quantity and qualitiy, but for me it only takes one for a good time. Let's see: do I spend a few bucks and have maybe a terrific evening or do I take out a second mortgage on my house to pay my fair share in this enterprise which, while I'm sure will be one for the record books (Guinness anyone?) will still only furnish me with an orgasm or two. Hmmm. What to do, what to do. I must be getting old. On the other hand, the OP's original idea might be fun - just saying. . . But really, no offense meant.

 

Regardless Phil, I am STILL offended. You could have saved your breath and key-strokes because you know damn well guys are MORE TALK than ACTION, and this whole thing will turn out to be a non-event. Everyone is always all in UNTIL it gets down to an actual committment. Then they fade away. An orgy party COULD be fun, but my preference has always been a good ole 1-0n-1, where I can focus all my attention and energy on 1 person, hear the moan, and see the exhausted smile on his face.

[Phil_musc]

JJ, you are truly a man after my own heart.

[LookingAround]

So, if you had to pick among let's say 3 escorts in NYC to join you at a sexclub, who would you pick (recommend)?

[LookingAround]

Ok one more try. Let's say I live the idea of the group but it doesn't happen and I choose the option of going to a group in NYC (in a private club as discussed above). Suggestions for a guy I might hire to go with me? Guys can feel free to PM me as well.

[jjkrkwood]

Ok one more try. Let's say I live the idea of the group but it doesn't happen and I choose the option of going to a group in NYC (in a private club as discussed above). Suggestions for a guy I might hire to go with me? Guys can feel free to PM me as well.

 

Why would you spend escort price to take him to a club where he would be available to all the other guys that only paid $15 admission. ?

 

Or is it just having some eye candy on your arm to make other guys jealous ? Trust me the guys at these clubs would hardly notice. They are so busy doing their own thing....

[LookingAround]

I'm sorry if I wasn't clear--I wasn't asking for commentary or permission; I was asking for recommendations of guys who might want to do such a scene.

[jjkrkwood]

I'm sorry if I wasn't clear--I wasn't asking for commentary or permission; I was asking for recommendations of guys who might want to do such a scene.

 

Permit me to be clear. I wasnt GIVING permission, merely trying to undertsand your motivation. This is a chat Forum, which means "discussion".

If you want question and answer, try Pre-school..... ATTITUDE will get you nowhere here sir.....

[JT Brooklyn]

I'm sorry if I wasn't clear--I wasn't asking for commentary or permission; I was asking for recommendations of guys who might want to do such a scene.

 

L O L ! Your gonna get it anyway from some!