Creating a 3-way with your regular escort

[TruthBTold]

I was talking to a guy on another escort board and he asked me an interesting question. I thought I would broach the subject here. He has been seen one escort for a few years now and he says that their relationship "has gotten like a marriage" in a way. It is comfortable and still passionate at times but it has gotten into a pattern. For instance, he likes to some hog-wild fucking every once in a while but the regular escort is a limited bottom. Also, there are a few things that his regular guy fails to do when they are together, like playing with his nipples and talking dirty (a little), even tho he is asked. So, every once in a while he thinks of having a 3-way. He asked me how to broach the subject with his regular guy. He also wanted to know if he will offend if he tells his regular guy that he wants to both of them to "fully engage" the third guy. I suggested that perhaps he should look for a new escort altogether if his regular guy isn't giving him what he wants because he is paying for it after all. But he told me that he has built a relationship with his regular guy, he is really comfortable with him, and that for the most part he really likes having sex with him. He also noted that there aren't a lot of choices where he lives. The third guy would probably be someone that is just traveling through. Any ideas?

[nate_sf]

I agree with you, if his ongoing relationship escort is not offering everything he wants, he should be looking for another to either supplement, replace, or add to his current choice. He says he doesn't want to replace his regular guy, but I think he should definitely go ahead and find another for the other things he's interested in.

 

With my regulars I don't assume any of them are "exclusive" and it would be crazy to expect them to be. Many will talk about the others they see, and I'm as curious as any to hear about it.

 

Setting up a three-way can be complicated to get the chemistry right, but if his regular guy is professional he should be able to rise to the occasion so to speak. When I'm set up into three-ways or group scenes the client will often ask me ahead of time if I'd be into the other guy he's considering, but ultimately it's the client's choice and if the escorts are professional they'll make it work.

 

It sounds like he is concerned about "breaking the news" to his regular and having this discussion with him, but he shouldn't. That's the difference between a boyfriend and an escort. That doesn't mean he shouldn't handle it with some tact, but if his regular guy is professional he should be able to deal with it.

[Decatur Guy]

For me, asking an escort if he's willing to participate in threeways is usually just behind:

 

1. What are the best times for you to meet in general?

 

2. Will you wear a condom?

 

3. What are your rates?

 

Although if he's never brought it up and he's got a marriage-like arrangement, I can see why he'd feel funny bringing this up now. One reason I turned to hiring was to avoid things just like that ... I feel like at up to $250 an hour, I should feel free to request any safe-sex thing I want and at least hear what the answer might be without worrying about even posing the question.

[TruthBTold]

Thanks guys. I just wanted to make sure that I was headed in the right direction. I told him that an escort should not (and generally) does not

expect exclusivity. I suggested that he could always engage another guy on the side solo just to see what it feels like and then discuss a 3-way with his escort. That way he does only one different thing at a time. But nothing wrong with the "two-hole" solution if he feels like it.

[Guest Merlin]

Truth b told, could you tell us the other escort site?

[TruthBTold]

I talked to him on MuscleService. But I had contacted him about something else then we started talking about this.

[+ Ace]

Well said Nate!!

Another factor to figure in is the possibility that the two escorts might know each other & once the initial news is broken to "Escort A", have BOTH escorts plan a mindblowing experience for the client. (Escort A having the knowledge to share/pass of what pleases the client while watching/participating with "Escort B" to add to the session as well as learn for future sessions with the client). Certainly if the two escorts have worked together in the past it gives the 3 way a whole new dimension.

I've been on both sides of the 3 way coin as an escort & have found that HONEST communication is KEY to a successful session....both client to escort, escort to client & escort to escort.

[best hotel]

Ace.....with that post, you gave me sweet orgasmic flasbacks of the three way you set up for me with you and Chris Neal as my two studly tops....i think you must have shared your knowledge of mw with chris as he was well-prepared to be exactly what i love .....i could never have clearly articulated what i wanted ..... i love the way you intuited it from our previous appointments and led the way....thanks again

[+ Ace]

Certainly a HIGHLIGHT of the tour!