Anyone ever become a "slave" to an escort

[Jakeoconner79]

I met this guy off rentboy in NYC... I hired him a few times however I'm 29 years old and I can't always afford his rate. So he said I can do other stuff for him ... Before I knew it I was regularly cleaning his apartment and driving him places Etc... I do get to spend a lot of time with him... Last time I Cleaned his place. He fucked me. Then asked for a tip... I love a guy who knows he's hot and can get guys to do whatever for them.., anyone else experience something like this?

[bigvalboy]

Don't know what is REALLY going on here Jake, but if you are trying to play the victim, it's not working...CLEARLY you are getting something out of this arrangement as well.....And for the record, you should never buy something you can't afford.

[Strafe13]

I met this guy off rentboy in NYC... I hired him a few times however I'm 29 years old and I can't always afford his rate. So he said I can do other stuff for him ... Before I knew it I was regularly cleaning his apartment and driving him places Etc... I do get to spend a lot of time with him... Last time I Cleaned his place. He fucked me. Then asked for a tip... I love a guy who knows he's hot and can get guys to do whatever for them.., anyone else experience something like this?

 

I wish!

[JT Brooklyn]

I met this guy off rentboy in NYC... I hired him a few times however I'm 29 years old and I can't always afford his rate. So he said I can do other stuff for him ... Before I knew it I was regularly cleaning his apartment and driving him places Etc... I do get to spend a lot of time with him... Last time I Cleaned his place. He fucked me. Then asked for a tip... I love a guy who knows he's hot and can get guys to do whatever for them.., anyone else experience something like this?

 

It sounds like you have an interesting little "Adventure" going on here! I'd "go with the Flow" at least the way things are flowing now

 

There are "Working Guys' who I have known who Charged their BDSM Clients to Clean their APTS! But that's at the Paying Clients Request! So Enjoy Yourself while it lasts...

[Jakeoconner79]

Victim ?! No I think it's great! I love hanging with the guy ... I think it's great that he let's me do that stuff for him because I can't afford his hourly rate... And i love cocky guys who get me to do whatever they want ... Sorry if my post was misleading, I wasn't complaining

[JT Brooklyn]

Victim ?! No I think it's great! I love hanging with the guy ... I think it's great that he let's me do that stuff for him because I can't afford his hourly rate... And i love cocky guys who get me to do whatever they want ... Sorry if my post was misleading, I wasn't complaining

 

Ya Better Not Be! HaHa

[crok]

Give me his number, I'll do whatever you do and pay him 20 bucks - if he's hot!

 

Victim ?! No I think it's great! I love hanging with the guy ... I think it's great that he let's me do that stuff for him because I can't afford his hourly rate... And i love cocky guys who get me to do whatever they want ... Sorry if my post was misleading, I wasn't complaining

[jjkrkwood]

I would pretty much classify this as a "fetish" scene, barely diff than a Master/slave relationship. I wont even question your self esteem for allowing yourself to be used, because obviously you enjoy and NEED it. If it works for you, GREAT, but I'd rather PAY..... (PLEASE guys, no hate mail or nasty comments. You all stated your stance on this situation, and now I've stated mine)

[bigvalboy]

Then you should not have used the word "slave" in that context, unless you are talking about S&M or some aspect of bondage, "Slave" to me always implies something negative.

[Jakeoconner79]

Then you should not have used the word "slave" in that context, unless you are talking about S&M or some aspect of bondage, "Slave" to me always implies something negative.

 

Ok

[whipped guy]

Basically it's the barter system...

 

I have definitely heard about guys doing all sorts of things for escorts in return for certain "favors"... and especially BDSM escorts where guys have indeed cleaned their dom's apartment for the humiliation involved not to mention the additional benefits. One BDSM expert noted that he had such a relationship with a guy who was a big exec honcho who needed to be cut down several pegs. Still others have done all sorts other mundane but non-humiliating activities in return for some session time... Others have actually exchanged "professional services"... No matter what the level... it's called the barter system and is used in many a business operation... so I really don't see anything wrong... unless the requests get out of hand and the services rendered by the escort don't are not equitable and just compensation for the client's efforts... or visa versa. Being fair is a two-way street...

[bigvalboy]

Agreed..my first impression was that Jake was unhappy with the situation and wanted out, but didn't know how to end it. Now i realize that it is a mutual experience.

[mansniffing]

Perhaps slave is a bad choice of words. I can understand obsession though. For now it seems you have a mutually agreeable arrangement. I've known of similar relationships between lovers and spouses. It's reminds me of an article I read years ago in Sexology Magazine about an exhibitionist who finds the perfect voyeur.

[jjkrkwood]

Perhaps slave is a bad choice of words. I can understand obsession though. For now it seems you have a mutually agreeable arrangement. I've known of similar relationships between lovers and spouses. It's reminds me of an article I read years ago in Sexology Magazine about an exhibitionist who finds the perfect voyeur.

 

The OP is happy, the escort is getting what he wants. Sounds Ideal, No problem here. I would agree "slave" is not the right word. It implies some forceable action. Its more like an indentured servant. Win-win all around.....

[seeker630]

The OP is happy, the escort is getting what he wants. Sounds Ideal, No problem here. I would agree "slave" is not the right word. It implies some forceable action. Its more like an indentured servant. Win-win all around.....

 

For me, the use of the word 'slave' was not an issue; I don't think it has to be restricted to a B&D context. The word is often used loosely and metaphorically.

In this case, the servitude is voluntary (as indeed it is in most role-play, I think.)

[jjkrkwood]

For me, the use of the word 'slave' was not an issue; I don't think it has to be restricted to a B&D context. The word is often used loosely and metaphorically.

In this case, the servitude is voluntary (as indeed it is in most role-play, I think.)

 

Theoretically, The servitude IS a bit forced because thats the only way the escort will have sex with the client since the client cant pay. So in turn the client is being forced to submit to random acts of "domesticity" to pay for his butt-fucking... Butt, he leaves with a smile, so I'm happy !

[whipped guy]

Personally I was disappointed that this thread did not describe the slave in the literal sence... but heck the OP was using the term as would a poet... in the metaphorical sense... and as long as there is a smile on everyone's face and everybody is happy, it should not matter if the term is used literally or figuratively...

[bigvalboy]

Yes WG, I can understand that, except for ME...I would not clean anyones toilet just because I wanted to get fucked, or be in any kind of servitude role. And at the youthful age of only 29, I would think the surely one could find great sex without all of baggage, unless of course as the poster put it " I love a guy who knows he is hot, and can get guys to do whatever for them" Sounds like we do indeed have a little "Slave and Master " thing going on....and who among doesn't find that hot! Maybe he will send us a link to a video!!

[whipped guy]

I would not clean anyones toilet just because I wanted to get fucked, or be in any kind of servitude role.

Nor would I... and especially the toilet business... Still, in the world of the dom vs. sub... it is the sub who sets the parameters... otherwise it is indeed slavery and/or abuse in the literal sense... In other words, the sub "rules the day"... or at least that is the way things should be played out... and if he wants or needs to clean toilets, "So be it..."

 

Not my approach to such a scene...

[bigvalboy]

Well WG, I have never done the whole dom vs. sub thing. Know nothing about it. I was surprises to hear that the sub "rules the day" Not the dom? That's kinda hot. So as a sub, I would control things?, Whoah...might have to try this.

[+ Axiom2001]

It sounds like you have an interesting little "Adventure" going on here! I'd "go with the Flow" at least the way things are flowing now

 

There are "Working Guys' who I have known who Charged their BDSM Clients to Clean their APTS! But that's at the Paying Clients Request! So Enjoy Yourself while it lasts...

 

I like Brooklyn Guy's response! I say you have a good thing goin'!! Keep it up until either of you tire of each other's company!!!!

 

I'd love to be fucked by Michael Brandon if he desired that I clean his apartment and wash his auto!!!! He's on http://www.TimTales.com fucking the hell out of Element Eclipse.

I'd truly love to trade places with EE!!

[whipped guy]

I was surprises to hear that the sub "rules the day" Not the dom? That's kinda hot. So as a sub, I would control things?, Whoah...might have to try this.

It surprises most guys who have never been there... If a dom refuses to respect... and the key is respect... the sub's limits then it ain't gonna work. It's all about the sub having trust and confidence in the dom's ability to "take good care of his boy"... and by taking good care of his boy the dom recognizes that he needs to take the sub right to the edge of his limits... but not over the edge... Of course the sub can eventually decide if he needs to test his limits by crossing over the agreed upon parameters... The dom can tease and nudge the sub to cross the line... but never over the line unless it is the sub's decision to do so.

 

Read some of the threads in the Fetish Forum including the BDSM Primer thread... which includes advice on the use of safe words etc. Incidentally I have changed my safe words since that thread from a year and a half ago... but while the words have changed the concept has not changed.

[Bosguy]

It surprises most guys who have never been there... If a dom refuses to respect... and the key is respect... the sub's limits then it ain't gonna work. It's all about the sub having trust and confidence in the dom's ability to "take good care of his boy"... and by taking good care of his boy the dom recognizes that he needs to take the sub right to the edge of his limits... but not over the edge... Of course the sub can eventually decide if he needs to test his limits by crossing over the agreed upon parameters... The dom can tease and nudge the sub to cross the line... but never over the line unless it is the sub's decision to do so.

 

Read some of the threads in the Fetish Forum including the BDSM Primer thread... which includes advice on the use of safe words etc. Incidentally I have changed my safe words since that thread from a year and a half ago... but while the words have changed the concept has not changed.

 

I am relatively new to this phenomenon of our lifestyle and have moved forward at my pace to be able to make this experience mind boggling for the dom and sub. My first few experiences were very mild with my role as a very inexperienced sub being made very clear to the doms. They respected my wishes and it was a marvelous experience for both of us.

 

This past weekend I spent with a very experienced guy who was extremely skilled as a dom and also incredible as a sub. We established our safe word and went through generally our game plan but leaving multiple areas open to exploration as I felt comfortable with. It was a strange experience being "in control" while seemingly giving yourself up to another. The end result was an experience I have never felt physically or emotionally before. LOVED IT!

 

Boston Bill