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bcohen7719 Grand Master

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I've read some excellent tips on this forum about "The Boyfriend Experience," which sounds today like AA rated bonds.

 

Do any escorts purport (or have a reputation for) offering a

triple AAA experience you could call "The Lover Experience,"

or would that be considered unprofessional?

 

BC

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jjkrkwood Grand Master

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As long as both the client and the escort are aware that they're each playing a role, I think you can combine both the lover and the boyfriend experience.

 

What differentiates boyfriend from lover ? Most gays tend to use them synonomously....

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I'm thinking we all agree..A Lover is Great in Bed and a Boyfriend is great to have on B'days and at Xmas Time. ;)

 

IF your Paying for it that ain't NO Boyfriend!

 

So then my interpretation of the difference would be A Lover is the guy you cheat on your Boyfriend with ? ;-P

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So then my interpretation of the difference would be A Lover is the guy you cheat on your Boyfriend with ? ;-P

 

Ive heard some guys mostly older call their partner or their bf their lover. I always thought lover was just someone you had an affair with.

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As if we don't know that "boy friend" experience isn't meant literally...

 

BFE means the escort puts an effort into making the session not just about about commercial sex but also (or primarily) about social-personal interaction in talk and physical gestures and atmosphere.

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I have had the pleasure of enjoying both types of encounters. IMO the boyfriend experience is about a friendly warm social acceptance of being with some one and the sex is fun and comfortable. The lover experience has more passion, maybe more abandon - it streches your limits and the sex is F***ing amazing! The lover experience is harder to find. At least that has been my experience!

 

Tom

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2 levels

 

great...now there's 2 different levels and i had trouble before getting to the 1st level

 

I have had the pleasure of enjoying both types of encounters. IMO the boyfriend experience is about a friendly warm social acceptance of being with some one and the sex is fun and comfortable. The lover experience has more passion, maybe more abandon - it streches your limits and the sex is F***ing amazing! The lover experience is harder to find. At least that has been my experience!

 

Tom

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jjkrkwood Grand Master

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I honestly enjoy sex..especially with older men so I like to think I am a full on lover in bed.

 

Well we know what YOU think of yourself, but what do the people in bed with you think ? LOLOLOL

 

We tend to rate ourselves on the HIGH side.....

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great...now there's 2 different levels and i had trouble before getting to the 1st level

 

You and me both GC--if I may be so familiar. Now I am going to have to be worried whether the escort wanted the boyfriend client experience or the lover client experience. It was so simple before--why are people complicating things?

 

Gman

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on the BFE topic- i hadn't really looked for that in the past until.... last fall when chatting with a potential hire as i planned to be in NYC a couple days - (he's 26, me 45) he starts firing off the questions - asking me about my look, haircolor, build, etc - then finally admitted he has a thing for "older" guys. We met up, had dinner & drinks b4 the session, and the cutie is flirting BIG time. We leave the restaurant, and the kid is sporting a boner (ahh..the good ol days when the wind would get me hard..) well, he knocked my socks off! It was a great time, and although i hired for only an hour, he stayed all night - either he deserved an Oscar, or really DID have a good time. We've since met up again, repeated the encounter... and occasionally chat on the phone just to "say hi and touch base".

Moral of the story: the boy ruined me...

 

So donmuscle...i clearly understand your response. Come to think of it, we should hook up sometime........ ;)

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on the BFE topic- i hadn't really looked for that in the past until.... last fall when chatting with a potential hire as i planned to be in NYC a couple days - (he's 26, me 45) he starts firing off the questions - asking me about my look, haircolor, build, etc - then finally admitted he has a thing for "older" guys. We met up, had dinner & drinks b4 the session, and the cutie is flirting BIG time. We leave the restaurant, and the kid is sporting a boner (ahh..the good ol days when the wind would get me hard..) well, he knocked my socks off! It was a great time, and although i hired for only an hour, he stayed all night - either he deserved an Oscar, or really DID have a good time. We've since met up again, repeated the encounter... and occasionally chat on the phone just to "say hi and touch base".

Moral of the story: the boy ruined me...

 

So donmuscle...i clearly understand your response. Come to think of it, we should hook up sometime........ ;)

 

Please, share this stud's name!

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Phil_musc Grand Master

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Majortom and mojohnny - you guys get it. There is a difference here between the BF and the lover experience. I'm sorry I passed up the opportunity on Brandon when he was in my area a while back. Silly me.I won't make that mistake again. The bfe is great but the lover experience is on a whole other level. Cant' by cynical about this - there is a difference. And yes, I know it's a fantasy, but as we have read any number of times on tis board, the brain is the most powerful sex organ and for some of us, that lover thing just really flats the boat and raise the level of the encounter immeasurably.

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