How I was ripped off

[Jakeoconner79]

Last night I went home with a stripper I met at the goldcoast, a strip bar in detroit. He was very good looking str8 muscle guy with a huge 9 inch dick.

We went back to my hotel... he strips and jumps on the bed...said "get to work bitch" While im sucking him i notice him going for my wallet. he opens it up and takes 300 dollars out of it...( we agreed that i would give him 150).... He said that he said 400 and that i owe him 100 bucks... i didnt have it so he said he would be nice and give me 5 minutes on his dick... I feel kinda stupid but its hard to say no to someone so hot...

 

anyone else have run into a problem like mine?

[robberbaron4u]

My worst scenario was the old "Wimpy" scam: for the price of a hamburger today, I will gladly pay you on Tuesday. The "rentboy" was an import who was lavish in his promises and lax in their fulfillment; had someone only warned me. As we lunched in the home of a friend, and, he had the use of weekend house, my "damages" were limited to his travel expenses (fortunately, only fuel for his automobile), the cost of suitable clothing and "detailing" of the rentboy for presentation in a social situation.

[geoffk]

Well first of all thanks to advice on this site and my own fears, I have always kept my cash and wallet hidden and unaccessible to anyone in my room. I was with a guy once that wanted extra for everything he did. I didn't hire him again, although looking back he was worth it. It's just the principle of the deal. I guess there isnt much you can do other than send the guy on his way. Glad I didnt take anyone home from Gold Coast when i was there. But I certainly could have.

[jjkrkwood]

Last night I went home with a stripper I met at the goldcoast, a strip bar in detroit. He was very good looking str8 muscle guy with a huge 9 inch dick.

We went back to my hotel... he strips and jumps on the bed...said "get to work bitch" While im sucking him i notice him going for my wallet. he opens it up and takes 300 dollars out of it...( we agreed that i would give him 150).... He said that he said 400 and that i owe him 100 bucks... i didnt have it so he said he would be nice and give me 5 minutes on his dick... I feel kinda stupid but its hard to say no to someone so hot...

 

anyone else have run into a problem like mine?

 

I guess thats what happens when you let your COCK rule you, and not your brain. If it was me, i would have said FORGET IT, get the fuck out !!!! 5 minutes on ANY size cock aint wirth $150..

Live and Learn buddy

[jjkrkwood]

Well first of all thanks to advice on this site and my own fears, I have always kept my cash and wallet hidden and unaccessible to anyone in my room. I was with a guy once that wanted extra for everything he did. I didn't hire him again, although looking back he was worth it. It's just the principle of the deal. I guess there isnt much you can do other than send the guy on his way. Glad I didnt take anyone home from Gold Coast when i was there. But I certainly could have.

 

I am always AMAZED when I read posts by guys that say they were "ripped off", but it was WORTH it. WTF ???? There is just too much cock around to allow that to happen, and then rationalize that it was OK because the guy was HOT !!!!! Allowing yourself to be "used" by a pretty face is often the sign of weakness or desperation, and I dont think anyone should be that desperate. Unnacceptable.....

[bcohen7719]

Last night I went home with a stripper I met at the goldcoast, a strip bar in detroit. He was very good looking str8 muscle guy with a huge 9 inch dick.

We went back to my hotel... he strips and jumps on the bed...said "get to work bitch" While im sucking him i notice him going for my wallet. he opens it up and takes 300 dollars out of it...( we agreed that i would give him 150).... He said that he said 400 and that i owe him 100 bucks... i didnt have it so he said he would be nice and give me 5 minutes on his dick... I feel kinda stupid but its hard to say no to someone so hot...

 

anyone else have run into a problem like mine?

 

When I was younger, I went with a "bar hustler" who took me to a strange apartment building, where we went up to the 2nd or 3rd floor. He demanded I take out my wallet, which I did to avoid a fight. He pulled out several "twenties" and took them. This robbery was a traumatizing experience.

 

In your situation, however, I really don't think you should feel stupid. The way you describe it has almost an element of thrill. On a separate thread, I was introduced to the concept of "cash masters" and "cash slaves" by some of the more experienced escorts on this site as a separate underworld, although not the same as being "hustled" or "robbed." If you found the experience potentially titillating, but you don't want to be taken advantage of, maybe next time you could prepare a separate wallet, and put in some extra money budgeted for the "robbery" that is part of your plan (not the "hot number's" plan). It would be great if you could find some fake money to stuff in the wallet as well. Not sure if this is too complicated...

 

BC

[josephga]

I disagree on being ripped off there's the option of saying no and get out

[JT Brooklyn]

Last night I went home with a stripper I met at the goldcoast, a strip bar in detroit. He was very good looking str8 muscle guy with a huge 9 inch dick.

We went back to my hotel... he strips and jumps on the bed...said "get to work bitch" While im sucking him i notice him going for my wallet. he opens it up and takes 300 dollars out of it...( we agreed that i would give him 150).... He said that he said 400 and that i owe him 100 bucks... i didnt have it so he said he would be nice and give me 5 minutes on his dick... I feel kinda stupid but its hard to say no to someone so hot..

 

anyone else have run into a problem like mine?

 

Of course other's have! It happens with "Working Girls" Definitely! You know this site exists so I would go shopping thru the Reviews First!

 

I would go back to the "GoldCoast" and inquire about this Dude! I'm pretty sure of course they will say "we have no control once you leave the Premises"!

 

If he's a Reg Dancer..BUT again Paying for Sex is a "Crap Shoot" in alot of cicumstances..Good Luck Next Time.

[EZEtoGRU]

Jake,

Interesting and unfortunate story. Most of us that hire guys for personal pleasure have been ripped off at one point or another. I am often attracted to dancers/strippers. However, I do not invite them to my hotel until I have really gotten to know them over many nights....and they have seen that I am well known by the club. In my experience, this "courtship" period allows one to weed out the problem guys in most cases.

 

Gold Coast is one of the clubs where one can really get away with quite a bit of action in the lapdance area...to the extent that I usually don't feel the need to see the strippers outside of the club. I will PM you Jake cause the description you provided sounds very much like on of the dancers I am familiar with from Gold Coast. He also dances at Richards in Atlanta.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Had a similar thing and happen to me many years go with a dancer from the old Gayity in New York. When we got to the room his price went up - I simply told him no and open the door to usher him out of the room. Since then I have only hired escorts who have reviews and I have had no problems (rip-offs).

[bostonman]

Some years ago, when meeting (non-escort) guys by phone was more common than using the net, I talked to a young guy and wound up inviting him over. (And to be fair, there's ALWAYS some danger in this I suppose, though I always made sure I talked to such guys enough to feel I had a good sense of them before making the invitation.) I can't remember what we did or how it was, lol, but as he dressed to go, he quoted a price.

 

I told him I wasn't expecting that - we hadn't ever talked about money - and besides, I didn't have any cash on me. (And at this point in my life I was literally living paycheck to paycheck, and couldn't afford his price anyway.)

 

Then he asked me how close the nearest ATM was - we could go there.

 

For a moment, I didn't know what to do.

 

Then, I decided to resign myself to my fate, grabbed my wallet, and started to walk out with him.

 

In a split second, he was out the door, and I managed to get the door shut behind him (I seem to remember a bit of a struggle, but he lost). This was very late at night, and I suppose he realized that since there were other people in the apartment building, raising a ruckus trying to get back in wasn't the best idea. So he left. I heard him walk downstairs, I heard the door lock behind him, and I watched him walk down the street and out of the neighborhood. Only then did I breathe a sigh of relief. I suppose he could have tried to come back, but thank god I live on an upper floor, lol. Never saw him again.

[Keller]

Hate that happened to you... I'm sure there so many more stories like yours out there. Ive been very lucky I guess, because I have never experienced that in 10 years of hiring. You should def use this site for the wonderful insight these guys can give you. I just discovered it and am glad I did.

[bcohen7719]

Some years ago, when meeting (non-escort) guys by phone was more common than using the net, I talked to a young guy and wound up inviting him over. (And to be fair, there's ALWAYS some danger in this I suppose, though I always made sure I talked to such guys enough to feel I had a good sense of them before making the invitation.) I can't remember what we did or how it was, lol, but as he dressed to go, he quoted a price.

 

I told him I wasn't expecting that - we hadn't ever talked about money - and besides, I didn't have any cash on me. (And at this point in my life I was literally living paycheck to paycheck, and couldn't afford his price anyway.)

 

Then he asked me how close the nearest ATM was - we could go there.

 

For a moment, I didn't know what to do.

 

Then, I decided to resign myself to my fate, grabbed my wallet, and started to walk out with him.

 

In a split second, he was out the door, and I managed to get the door shut behind him (I seem to remember a bit of a struggle, but he lost). This was very late at night, and I suppose he realized that since there were other people in the apartment building, raising a ruckus trying to get back in wasn't the best idea. So he left. I heard him walk downstairs, I heard the door lock behind him, and I watched him walk down the street and out of the neighborhood. Only then did I breathe a sigh of relief. I suppose he could have tried to come back, but thank god I live on an upper floor, lol. Never saw him again.

 

Wow! What a story. I'm sorry this happened

to you....It would have scared the shit out of me.

 

Thank you for sharing this.

 

BC

[Jakeoconner79]

What kinda things did he want you to pay extra for? did he want a lot more?

[Jakeoconner79]

Hey did you go to the apartment building to hookup and he just took your money and left?

[Jakeoconner79]

Yeah his name is Knight, have you met him or had any expereices with him?

[jjkrkwood]

Yeah his name is Knight, have you met him or had any expereices with him?

 

That name alone should have tipped you off.... I guess he sensed you were and EASY target.

[JT Brooklyn]

Had a similar thing and happen to me many years go with a dancer from the old Gayity in New York. When we got to the room his price went up - I simply told him no and open the door to usher him out of the room. Since then I have only hired escorts who have reviews and I have had no problems (rip-offs).

 

Yup! The Gaiety had some "Notorious Private Menu" Guys! Most of them eventually made it to HOOBOY for discussion by the New York Delegates...

[Guest Merlin]

Years ago, in Las Vegas, I hired a guy from an agency. Was told to pay him the $100 fee up front, but that he would expect a tip later. After he arrived and got the $100 he announced he expected a $500 tip. As I was pushing him out the door he said "You could have had me for $100."

Over all, I have had very, very few experiences which were "bad" in terms of money. Most escorts are honest and fair, but of course, I keep my wallet out of sight.

[JT Brooklyn]

When "Impulse Buying" at a Strip Club always mention the Rate more than once and definitely stash the wallet!

 

If going to an ATM Donot take the "Working Guy" with you! Unless of course your OLD FRIENDS!

[RexAll]

I am always AMAZED when I read posts by guys that say they were "ripped off", but it was WORTH it. WTF ???? There is just too much cock around to allow that to happen, and then rationalize that it was OK because the guy was HOT !!!!! Allowing yourself to be "used" by a pretty face is often the sign of weakness or desperation, and I dont think anyone should be that desperate. Unnacceptable.....

You both right and wrong. Yes, nothing makes up for being ripped off. And No-- in that some of us have to hire to get cock-- and depending on where we live the pickings may be slim. We are not all of us fortunate enough to live in NYC, LA, SF, or even Chicago.

 

Rex

[nate_sf]

I would go back to the "GoldCoast" and inquire about this Dude! I'm pretty sure of course they will say "we have no control once you leave the Premises"!

 

If he's a Reg Dancer..

 

Maybe I'm naive, but I suggest telling the Gold Coast what happened, even if you do so anonymously. They may not do anything immediately, but if enough complaints or trouble follow this dancer they'll probably decide to send him away eventually. Based on his scam he sounds like the type that would attract trouble wherever he goes, and maybe yours would be the final straw to send him packing.

[MiamiLooker]

Over several years of hiring, I recall being ripped off only twice. Once by a guy who I’d given the money to when he arrived. He went out to his car to get something….and of course, proceeded to drive away. I really should have seen it coming. A couple of weeks later I set him up to go to an appointment about a hundred miles away. He needed to hurry because I’d told him I only had a limited window of time for the appointment. Not only did he make a 200 mile round trip to nowhere, he was also rewarded with a speeding ticket. Sometimes karma just needs a little help.

 

The other time was by a very well-reviewed Florida escort (known for his unsolicited phone calls to clients: “I’m going to be in your city next week. When do you want to schedule an appointment?” or, “I’ve got some great weed…”). On the pretense of dropping by to see me (we hadn’t seen each other professionally or socially in a couple of years; I had no interest anymore in his escort service), he asked for a tour of my home. When I showed him the bedroom, he proceeded to make himself comfortable on the bed and asked me to join him. I certainly wasn’t expecting this and not all that interested, but what the hell. We played for a little bit, both got off, and then as he’s getting dressed, told me it would be $250. It was a little awkward, at least for me, realizing what had just happened. I told him I hadn’t expected that his visit was going to go in the direction it did. I had a hundred bucks on hand and gave him that. As he left, he made some comment about looking forward to getting together again. That was not going to happen…ever.

[Racketjock]

The second time I ever hired for a massage appointment, after the massage and using the bathroom to clean up afterwards, I came back out of the bathroom to find the guy rummaging through my briefcase. I confronted him, got some LAME excuse about confusing it with his backpack. I'm not a sex god by any means, but a beefy guy. He quickly busied himself then tried to quote a price higher than we agreed. I handed him the $$ as discussed and he starts yelling and hits the door. I pick up the hotel phone to call the front desk and he calls me some delightful names then leaves. Learned a lesson to always keep my stuff out of site!

[Zapped]

"Sometimes karma just needs a little help."

 

Love that, MiamiLooker! Perfect.