Why would you ever hire a "straight" escort?

[Guest BMBNYC]

Why would you ever hire a "straight" escort? HELLO!! They are in it just for the money. Of course they all are,but when they touch me,i'm thinking that they are feeling GROSSED OUT! And I don't wanna feel GROSS for anyone. Specially if I pay good money for them. Let's just keep our "own" gay boys busy. I understand that there are some folks that don't like themselves as gay and that's why they have a need to "look up" straight guys. But that's a whole another subject...

[Bosguy]

Why would you ever hire a "straight" escort? HELLO!! They are in it just for the money. Of course they all are,but when they touch me,i'm thinking that they are feeling GROSSED OUT! And I don't wanna feel GROSS for anyone. Specially if I pay good money for them. Let's just keep our "own" gay boys busy. I understand that there are some folks that don't like themselves as gay and that's why they have a need to "look up" straight guys. But that's a whole another subject...

 

One of the qualities that upsets me the most is when people GENERALIZE when our world is made up of a group of INDIVDUALS. You are entitled to your views of "straight" escorts but you have a lot of nerve (and apparently little knowledge of our wonderful professional guys who escort) to make this statement "They are in it just for the money. Of course they ALL are,".

 

I am totally appalled!!!

 

Bill K.

[Guest BMBNYC]

Of course they are in it for the money ALL of them,as i mention earlier. BUT as a gay man if I "have to" have a sex with a woman for money and touch her....it would be GROSS! That's just my 2 cents. xoxo

[seeker630]

Of course they are in it for the money ALL of them,as i mention earlier. BUT as a gay man if I "have to" have a sex with a woman for money and touch her....it would be GROSS! That's just my 2 cents. xoxo

You're assuming all gay men are like you. Not true.

[josephga]

imo there's a second reason that's not always considered. Regardless of gay, str, bi, male, or female imo there can be another reason. 1 yes its the money there are times when some people may be down on their luck and its a temporary job until they get on their feet, others might be doing it to pay for college to pursue the career they really want down the road. so yes the moneys one great reason. but imo there's a second reason for some. Some people have the need too be desired. For some they get off on the thought of 100's of guys or gals finding them attractive desiring them and getting paid as well. For some its not just getting off on being desired but the being desired by so many feels an emotional need. Sure the moneys a large part of it. but maybe the str8 escort also likes the feeling of being desired regardless of who the client maybe. same thing regardless of gender. I'm sure it happens but I can't see a person who does it for the money only doing it for long.

[Guest BMBNYC]

"HAPPINESS is not so much in having as in SHARING.

 

We make a living by what we get, but we make a LIFE by what we GIVE." Peace on Earth :-)

[TruthBTold]

As JG says, $ + desire can = a trip to my door. I don't think a straight guy is judge not straight if he enjoys a BJ no matter the mouth. I guess it is the person that has the gender, not just the wet lips and throat.

[JoeyBryant]

Why would you ever hire a "straight" escort? HELLO!! They are in it just for the money. Of course they all are,but when they touch me,i'm thinking that they are feeling GROSSED OUT! And I don't wanna feel GROSS for anyone. Specially if I pay good money for them. Let's just keep our "own" gay boys busy. I understand that there are some folks that don't like themselves as gay and that's why they have a need to "look up" straight guys. But that's a whole another subject...

 

OK, you are asking escorts...and I don't think many of us are 'hiring' straight male escorts.

 

But although I see where you're going, it's not subjective. There's plenty of flaming queen escorts out there that cringe at kissing clients, think they're gross, and are only in it for the money. Or worse, dare I say it; drugs. Although I assume the latter is a much smaller number.

 

But, if I were a client...it wouldn't matter to me. If a straight guy wants to suck my dick and let me fuck him, I can't see how that would be so degrading. He bought himself into the situation, I didn't force him to be gay for pay. So therefore he's going to do what he markets himself to do...You just have to live in the moment for that period of time and forget what he's thinking about. Because he may not even be thinking that.

 

Besides, many of these so called 'gay clubs' have straight male bartenders and dancers who are ESPECIALLY in it for the money. Now THAT pisses me off. Don't have some hot, juicehead bartender or dancer flirting with me only to find out he's straight. Oh HELL no...

[Keller]

I had a friend that owned a agency and hired alot of str8 guys. He actually preferred them.. As HE told it, YES, they were in it for the easy money, but he didn't have to coddle them as much as his gay boys. They almost never asked for a description of the client, all they cared about was what the client was expecting on the call. I was usually the 'test run' guy for the boys first gig and it was a pretty interesting time in my life to say the least. Out of the 18 or so guys I met only 4 were not able to deal with the experience. Yes, it was usually a 'one sided' experience for me, but at that time in my life I didn't care. I was not looking for a BFE.

Since that time I have stuck with mostly gay hires, but do miss the jolt I got from those earlier experiences..

[josephga]

Not sure about the current line up haven't been in years but back in the late 90's the majority of the strippers at swinging richards in atl were str8 guys. Allot of male dancers prefer to strip for men than women because women are more aggressive in clubs and the worst tippers. The majority of my massage clients identify themselves as str8.

[EZEtoGRU]

And here we go again. The weekly thread asking why gay men hire straight male escorts. Sheesh. And why this posted in the "Ask an escort"section is beyond me.

[Decatur Guy]

Sometimes, I like a no-recip kind of scene and just service the guy -- or escort. A straight guy can work for me in a situation like that. In fact, a straight guy could possibly be better for that, depending on things.

 

When I want something more interactive and personal, then yes -- being straight could be a problem. I would at least ask about it.

 

So I see both sides of this argument, and it does come down to the individual.

[seeker630]

And here we go again. The weekly thread asking why gay men hire straight male escorts. Sheesh. And why this posted in the "Ask an escort"section is beyond me.

 

Yep. Chalk it up to a Newbiew, perhaps. But what bothered me most was that it didn't come across as a real question but more of a "you shouldn't!"

[Guest BMBNYC]

My friend hires them (he has lot of issues of been a gay man himself,so he thinks straight guys are better all the way,LOL), but sometimes things did not go to way planned. They wanted more money afterwards because they stayed 10-15 min extra drinking a soda. And when they didn't get their way, of course the first name that screams out of they mouth was "YOU F*CKING F*GGET!!!!" That's when the TRUE colors come in.

[Guest BMBNYC]

I'm NEW here. I posted this is a wrong section. I KNOW. GET OVER IT. ;-)

[N13]

I'm NEW here. I posted this is a wrong section. I KNOW. GET OVER IT. ;-)

 

Possibly it could have read. "I'm NEW here. Sorry, I posted this in the wrong section." No need to be snippy it is not called for in this situation. Not a good way to present yourself. Just saying.

[Epigonos]

BMBNYC I wasn't going to post on this thread but to paraphrase Flip Wilson "The devil is making me do it" In the end the answer is simply; different strokes for different folks or whatever floats your boat. Isn't it wonderful that not everybody is turned on by the same guys. Hiring would sure be a lot more difficult if we were all telephoning and emailing the same escorts.

 

Now to answer your question from MY vantage point. I haven't, I don't and I won't

[mansniffing]

Why would you ever hire a "straight" escort? HELLO!! They are in it just for the money. Of course they all are,but when they touch me,i'm thinking that they are feeling GROSSED OUT! And I don't wanna feel GROSS for anyone. Specially if I pay good money for them. Let's just keep our "own" gay boys busy. I understand that there are some folks that don't like themselves as gay and that's why they have a need to "look up" straight guys. But that's a whole another subject...

 

Lately I've had good sex with two escorts who advertise themselves as straight. One said he said he loved to be worshiped and I loved worshiping him. Sex is a tricky subject, especially when it comes to homosexual, bisexual or straight labeling. Many men are wired to enjoy sex with both males and females. They're called switch hitters. And even HBO's upcoming season of "Hung" is introducing a pre-operative transexual into the story line. The lead character has bills to pay and his character ain't making enough with just straight women so he needs to expand his clientele. So, stick to what you prefer and let the subject rest. No need to generalize about straight men or even gay men. It's an occupation and certainly the oldest profession deserves kudos. In this difficult economy both male and female college students are hiring themselves out to pay the bills and the tuition. We're all wired differently.

[JoeyBryant]

And here we go again. The weekly thread asking why gay men hire straight male escorts. Sheesh. And why this posted in the "Ask an escort"section is beyond me.

 

I agree with your location: Get outta Texas! You know a state is big when it not only takes a couple days to get out of it...but once you get away from it, it's like a Black Hole still trying to suck you back in.

 

It's like really? How is it humanly possible to dredge up something from over a year ago and not have had solved it?

[jjkrkwood]

Until someone can explaim to me HOW you know the escort is str8, other than by him telling you, is a mystery to me. In alot of cases you are hiring a gay guy who is giving you the Fantasy you are paying for, BUT HE AINT STR8 !!!!!!

 

I am so over this topic......

[josephga]

Not always but I'm sure there's guys that just pretend to be str8 to target market those with the str8 guy fantasy.

[EZEtoGRU]

 

I am so over this topic......

 

Really? Why then do you keep on posting to threads related to this topic?

[jjkrkwood]

Really? Why then do you keep on posting to threads related to this topic?

 

Because I know it Annoys YOU, obviously. LOLOLOL

 

Are ONLY your comments allowed here ???? I didnt get that memo.

[EZEtoGRU]

No memo. Just your own words indicating you are "so over this topic....".

 

Your posts on this topic don't annoy me at all. On the contrary, they provide comic relief.

[jjkrkwood]

No memo. Just your own words indicating you are "so over this topic....".

 

Your posts on this topic don't annoy me at all. On the contrary, they provide comic relief.

 

Based on the following post, made by YOU, it sounds like you are "over it" as well, but continue to post in this thread. Maybe THATS the comic relief ? You certainly are a contradiction...... But, FREE SPEECH TO ALL !

 

And here we go again. The weekly thread asking why gay men hire straight male escorts. Sheesh. And why this posted in the "Ask an escort"section is beyond me.