Which is the Hook for you, the Pic or the Description ???

[jjkrkwood]

I do not use escorts alot, but as i get older, it really makes more sense to... I read alot of ads and was wondering what the hook actually is for most guys, the escorts Pic or his description of self and services ???? Personally, I feel a combination of both should be made to make a decision on choosing an escort, but I have heard that some people go by looks alone, while other dont care about the look, and go by the "personality" of the offerings.... My motto is always "BUYER BEWARE" .. Care and caution should be used and if possible speak to the escort beforehand and try to get a "gut feeling". In the end, its your money, and you should get what you paid for... The pics do draw you in, but READ, READ, and READ, and make sure you know what you are getting into. Peace and Fun guys :o

[Mark450]

The description is the most important to me. Just the other day I came across an ad with an absolutely gorgeous picture but the description started out " a friend told me this was a good way to make cash". Pass.

[+ sf westcoaster]

The picture is the starting point. If the picture is appealing then I read the description and search for reviews. In the majority of cases I place the greatest reliance on the reviews.

[Decatur Guy]

I'm with sf westcoaster. The picture is a good starting point. But that's it. I'd rather have good photo / great description than great photo / so-so description.

 

The best sex isn't always with the best looking guys.

[seeker630]

I'm with sf westcoaster. The picture is a good starting point. But that's it. I'd rather have good photo / great description than great photo / so-so description.

 

The best sex isn't always with the best looking guys.

 

I concur as well! Lots of 'purdy pix' out there but the key is the service provided!

[jackcali]

I agree with everything that's been said so far. The pic gets my attention but the description is what makes or breaks the sale. One thing I wanted to add, though, is that a face pic gets a good deal of my attention. If I can get a sense of the escort's character or personality, that may also make a sale. There are ads where the escort looks hot and the description is fine, but if I get some attitude off the face pic, I won't hire. Similarly, a very inviting face can make up for a less good description.

[jjkrkwood]

Hey, bottom line is whether you are shopping for an escort or a husband, its all about the chemistry and connection..

 

A huge cock and muscles wont makeup for the fact that the guy is an asshole in the longrun. You will have wasted at least $200, and your time. It a tuff economy out there and we need to be savvy with our money... Once the escort walks out your door, you are a forgotten entity.....(until the nect time he needs a few bucks, LOL)

[jawjateck]

Neither the pics nor the ad text seals the deal for me. If the escort can communicate (via email, phone, text) timely and coherently, and answer my questions, he will get my bizness. Sadly, many promising candidates fall by the wayside at the communication stage. I strike 'em off and move on.

[mansniffing]

Neither the pics nor the ad text seals the deal for me. If the escort can communicate (via email, phone, text) timely and coherently, and answer my questions, he will get my bizness. Sadly, many promising candidates fall by the wayside at the communication stage. I strike 'em off and move on.

 

Good post jawjateck. "Enthusiasm is the yeast that raises the dough."

[Bosguy]

Neither the pics nor the ad text seals the deal for me. If the escort can communicate (via email, phone, text) timely and coherently, and answer my questions, he will get my bizness. Sadly, many promising candidates fall by the wayside at the communication stage. I strike 'em off and move on.

 

Thank you for emphasing the communication point. I firmly believe that proper communication is absolutely essential for a quality meeting for both parties. To rush into things without doing the necessary groundwork is leaving oneself open to disappointment. In fact, I absolutely insist on verbal communication prior to meeting. So far it has had super results.

 

Bill K.

[JT Brooklyn]

"The Wonderful World of The Working Guy" is nothing more than a "Crap Shoot"!

 

Pix's/Email/Cell Phone all fine....BUT til your "Face to Face or Dick to Dick" that tells the Tale!

 

OR on Daddys in this case the "Review"! Good Luck Boys!

[dannyboynyc]

I tend to do a combination of picture and description. Face pictures are important. Pictures of the guy's dick is important. And, message in the ad. The best looking guy with a great looking dick and a description of "call or text anytime" doesn't do it for me.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I'm with sf westcoaster.

 

Gee, I thought only one other forum member was with sf westcoaster. Damn you, David-sf. Why did he have to choose you over me? Seriously guys, have fun on the cruise. It sounds incredible.

 

 

However, in sentiment and process, I certainly agree with SFW. The picture is the first step. The description is the next. The third is the reviews. And the fourth and final deal-clincher is the communication with the escort before the hire. And talk to friends/acquaintances who have hired the escort before if you can. Although I must say that for the most part, one of my biggest tools is word of mouth from these friends. At least that's how I go about it.

[gcursor]

Well it used to be the description..then it was the pics...but now I've just turned to using a OUIJA board

Gcursor

[leigh.bess.toad]

Once the escort walks out your door, you are a forgotten entity.....(until the nect time he needs a few bucks, LOL)

 

On this point I certainly can't agree. Within the last week, I've exchanged texts and emails with 8 different escorts, only one of whom do I have a currently scheduled appointment. I certainly maintain contact with the guys I hire, but the communication can start on either end. I've gotten texts from a guy at the front row of a U2 concert (guess who), guys who've gotten a big hire and wanted to share it with me, to plain old "how you doing" texts. And sometimes I'll just text or email them to give a quick update on me. This "in between appointment" communications are important to me in maintaining that intimacy I think I share with the guys I hire. And because of it I’ve been rewarded with some incredible friendships. At least in my case, “out of sight, out of mind” doesn’t apply.

[orbital sander]

I do not use escorts alot, but as i get older, it really makes more sense to... I read alot of ads and was wondering what the hook actually is for most guys, the escorts Pic or his description of self and services ???? Personally, I feel a combination of both should be made to make a decision on choosing an escort, but I have heard that some people go by looks alone, while other dont care about the look, and go by the "personality" of the offerings.... My motto is always "BUYER BEWARE" .. Care and caution should be used and if possible speak to the escort beforehand and try to get a "gut feeling". In the end, its your money, and you should get what you paid for... The pics do draw you in, but READ, READ, and READ, and make sure you know what you are getting into. Peace and Fun guys :o

 

I am more worried about the "scrach N sniff" dot ...

[Lohengrin1979]

How to tell?

 

Well it used to be the description..then it was the pics...but now I've just turned to using a OUIJA board

Gcursor

 

This is so sadly true on some levels. There is no real way to tell because so much of a truly stupendous encounter with someone requires chemistry. It may also speak to people's expectations of these encounters. Good sex is good sex but a lot of us also want connection, conversation, and that warm, fuzzy feeling that has you floating a few days afterwards. To assume that every or even most of the working guys out there can provide that to any one individual is sheer folly. If a masseur, (not hiring escorts yet), takes the trouble to keep in touch with me every few weeks or so then I know there is at least enough regard to put the effort in, especially if it's just to say hi and shoot the breeze for a second and not "It's time for your next appointment." type of communications. Those guys get my business. Others move to the "It was nice once" pile.

 

So I guess I'm saying description and communication are essential because pretty happens way more often than interesting.

 

Regards,

 

Lohengrin10979

[+ Axiom2001]

The picture is the starting point. If the picture is appealing then I read the description and search for reviews. In the majority of cases I place the greatest reliance on the reviews.

 

D I T T O!!!!!!! I check out the pic, and if interested proceed to reading the review/s. If I really become enticed from what I've viewed as well as read, I begin additional search via other sites. After all of this, with my interest in high gear, I send the escort an email, and both of us go from there.

[zeyfur]

The pic needs to grab my attention. It s only then I will go on to read the ad. But if the pic is great and what's written is rubbish I will pass.

[gallahadesquire]

My latest escort: I glanced at the photo. I read his profile. I was hooked. Normally, I take two to three months to get my act together to meet with someone. I had an encounter within two weeks.

We've met four times since late July. But he's bad at staying in touch. His school schedule is nasty, but a quick "howdy" would be sufficient.

 

I digress. I read and I had to meet him. And he's even better in real than he is in pictures.