Fit clients, and trying not to feel attached LOL...

[JoeyBryant]

So I met a client now for the 3rd time and I must say he is in such good shape. I feel kinda blah right now because our time is over. But at the same time the attraction that I feel is like the instant he walks in the door I just feel it!

 

And it's weird because part of me feels like I wish I could have more than the arrangement we have (generally a couple hours each time) but at the same time I know he has his reasons for hiring and part of it may be the fact that he already has someone in his life. And I know it could never be more than what it is. And also I know that I'm out of town, on business and I am not willing to meet other guys unless it is for hire.

 

But I just keep wishing I was with a guy like him and that it would be so nice. And it makes me wonder, I want a guy like that! Why have I not crossed paths with a guy like that who would take it to the next level and not just fun?

 

Anyone met any hot clients and started having feelings for them? But you know you can't for obvious reasons? Sorry if this is sounding like alienating anyone...but it's an integral part of the biz that's bound to happen!

[bcohen7719]

Joey:

 

I think you have described what one of the few researchers who studies male sex workers calls "The Dream Encounter."

 

BC

[Diverdan]

Hey Joey,

I am not an escort, so you may want to ignore these comments. I am sure, however, that you know that the reverse is true too... clients can develop feelings that are much deeper than we first realize, even though our rational head knows the limits and the parameters of the transaction. I have a couple of good friends who are escorts (although not with me) and we have talked about this situation on more than one occasion. One of them has stopped escorting in order to devote time to this new found friendship in hopes that it develops into a permanent relationship. It all started with a very hot encounter. Follow your heart and your head. It will all depend on what you really want out of life.

[Michael Wayne]

it is even harder when the escort already has a boyfriend and he meets a HOT client. That used to happen to me in South Florida and it drove my bf at the time crazy because he could always tell when I came home with a smile on my face! Man, did I meet some GODS! My thought was, "Why is this guy hiring? I should be hiring him!"

[JoeyBryant]

it is even harder when the escort already has a boyfriend and he meets a HOT client. That used to happen to me in South Florida and it drove my bf at the time crazy because he could always tell when I came home with a smile on my face! Man, did I meet some GODS! My thought was, "Why is this guy hiring? I should be hiring him!"

 

Well, I'm single so for me it's more of a reminder of what type of guy I'd really be happy with

[dcguy20]

Joey, looking past the physical aspects of your hot client, ask yourself what else it is about him that you find so attractive. That might clue you in as to what exactly you're looking for in another guy. Granted we don't click with everyone we meet but it's nice to make that connection every now and then.

[JoeyBryant]

Joey, looking past the physical aspects of your hot client, ask yourself what else it is about him that you find so attractive.

 

Physically fit, financially fit, courteous, keeps his word, 100% versatile...that's the type of guy I find attractive and is what he comes off as LOL. To find all 4 of those in sync is not an everyday thing.

 

I feel like I'm writing a review on a client LOL. I guess the saying is true, "you're not paying for sex, you're paying us to leave" Because I most certainly would not wanna leave THAT!

[bcohen7719]

Guys:

 

Is it possible that some escorts are looking for love, as opposed to just the clients?

 

BC

[JoeyBryant]

Guys:

 

Is it possible that some escorts are looking for love, as opposed to just the clients?

 

BC

 

Are you asking if some escorts seek love from clients? If you ask me...that is not the case. Again, I understand there is generally a reason behind hiring and that is not a stepping stone to love.

 

But at the same time, one cannot help if they are feeling something for someone. Even if it's slight and we both realize the boundaries set in place. But it's important to act accordingly and not fixate on it.

 

I don't know if it would be easier to do this being single or in a relationship, but as a single guy it's definitely more tempting to feel 'something' when the right guy comes along than if one were in a relationship I suspect. But at the same time, by being single I feel I can devote more of myself to clients and not have to be worried that someone I'm with may not be okay with me doing something.

 

Man, did I meet some GODS! My thought was, "Why is this guy hiring? I should be hiring him!"

 

LOL, I could say the same thing. But of course what are the odds of us meeting up with them if it wasn't for hire? (I decline to answer at this time....)

 

But again, it's not all about looks. I think some of the really hot clients know people might get attached to them, so keeping it professional keeps things at a distance somewhat. And they don't want to put themselves out there too much either. Just a guess...Of course it doesn't apply to every scenario may be other reasons.

 

I have the utmost respect for clients who are hot. Not because they are hot, but because they don't feel the need to not pay us just because they are hot. People who aren't participating in this say things like, "well how do you do blah blah blah if they look like this, or I could never hire because it would make me feel like this, this and that" But clients who know damn well they are fucking fine as hell don't seem to even feel that way.

 

I don't know if I'm making sense or not...but that's what I think

[Michael Wayne]

exactly!!! I had an experience a year ago (no name, no city- discretion is key) but all i can say is that he was the 2nd best bottom I have ever been with. He was exquisitely beautiful and masculine too. He came 3 times WITHOUT STOPPING me and then before the 4th orgasm he did stop me cause he had to save one for the wife so she would not be suspiciouis.. I came then and then we visited. He is married which is why he hires and he can't go to bars or be on manhunt. He also told me that because he is so hot (and he knows it) that the few times he did hook up with non-escorts they hounded him, called him, showed up at his work, etc. This is why hot guys hire and ,boy, we escorts love it. If he were my boyfriend he would put me out of business. I could not keep up with him! Ruff!!! p.s. as a bonus this boy had a fat 8 inch cock and money! Some guys do indeed have it all.