Anyone else into cocky arrogant guys

[Jakeoconner79]

I was seeing this muscle middle eastern guy...hot as hell , hung and straight. Hes cocky, rude and does not hide the fact that hes only into me for my money... but hes so hot and he drives me craxy. Anyone else under the spell of a stud?

[trilingual]

You'll love Brazil if you like this type. There are a lot of guys there who are what Brazilians call "marrento," which means cocky, swaggering, boastful, loud -- a total testosterone overload! Every sauna has some, strutting their stuff around the place like the cock-of-the-walk!

[Jakeoconner79]

Damn that does sound just what im looking for...what places are good to go to? have you been?

[Decatur Guy]

I like it -- up to a point. If it's real overbearing, it's a turn-off. But a generally nice guy who has a bit of cocky attitude and a little arrogance can make for a hot fuck.

[best hotel]

jake.....i understand fully....the type of cocky guy that you are referring to makes me weak in the knees.....i also love the way they love to get sucked, but they do not treat you well.....my narcissistic ex once paid me a complement, something about how nice his cock looked with my lips around it...and i was once seeing an escort who knew his body and cock were amazing and he turned my onwith his confidence and sense of entitlement regarding worship....he wanted every sex act performed in front of a mirror....and it wasn't me he was looking at but how i enhanced how he looked.....he saw his fee as a tribute to his beauty....it was all about him.....masculine superiority can be so sexy....but i prefer my regulars escorts, who can make the experience about both of us....so tell us who your escort is?

[JT Brooklyn]

You'll love Brazil if you like this type. There are a lot of guys there who are what Brazilians call "marrento," which means cocky, swaggering, boastful, loud -- a total testosterone overload! Every sauna has some, strutting their stuff around the place like the cock-of-the-walk!

 

Totally Agree with trilingual! Most Brazilian Men fit this Image perfectly!

 

Argentinians ain't bad either at Macho!

[RockHard]

"Anyone else into cocky arrogant guys?"

 

Is deej escorting now?

[Doe Be Doe]

I like it when a cocky arrogant type bends over and bottoms!

[Guest WinsomeVic]

I like young, muscular/bodybuilder types guys that are masculine. That's pretty much the only thing that gets me excited, so a guy that disciplined and dedicated to his body is probably going to be a bit vain and that can come across as arrogance, definitely.

 

But look, I'm a flabby middle aged guy that pays money to get nude with a handsome stud like that and gorge myself on his package. I'm figuring that even though we have a professional relationship, he's not going to think to highly of me just based on the dynamics of what I want from him. As long as he isn't berating or mean, I consider it part of the show and just enjoy it. No harm done.

 

Honestly, some of those traits are associated with exaggerated masculinity, and if the guy isn't masculine, I am just not tempted to get busy with him. I don't care what he looks like, if he is exactly what I like physically and not masculine, it's a huge turnoff for me.

 

Strangely, if a woman is exactly what I like physically, I'll get busy with her regardless of her personality, demeanor, etc. I don't even care if she doesn't speak English. :-)

[trilingual]

Try any of the saunas with escorts in Brazil, like Pointe 202 or Clube 117 in Rio, or Lagoa in São Paulo. Lots of details on http://www.gaytravelbrazil.com Been going to Brazil since 1983, so yes, I've been there!

[robberbaron4u]

I suppose malignant narcisstic personality disorder can be attractive in a man. As exemplified by Andrew Cunanan, there is a caution as such men are inclined to episodes of narcisstic rage in the event they feel "threatened" in their dominant position.

[bigvalboy]

DITTO!!! Doe Be Doe, I am with you, especially if they are straight, I have had the BEST sex ever with straight guys. It seems more erotic and sexsual to them and forbidden, like they are being naughty.

[Doe Be Doe]

What I really like is when they really don't want to be doing it, but they need the cash. Should that make me feel guilty?

[bcohen7719]

I suppose malignant narcisstic personality disorder can be attractive in a man. As exemplified by Andrew Cunanan, there is a caution as such men are inclined to episodes of narcisstic rage in the event they feel "threatened" in their dominant position.

 

Robberbaron:

 

Can you expand upon some possible gender role theories related to the above?

 

BC

[essjay]

Anybody know any escorts that fit the bill?

[down_to_business]

I am not so much into arrogant guys, but I really like confident guys.

[zeyfur]

I think cocky and arrogant as part of role play is fine but not in real life !

[Decatur Guy]

I tell you what I really like in this regard -- a guy (or escort) who mixes natural confidence and even a little cockiness with genuine friendliness and then gets more aggressive and more cocky during sex play and loses some of the friendliness. But somehow still manages to remain a cool guy even when he's growling in your ear to lay flat on your stomach, squeeze your legs and get ready to get fucked and has no doubt you'll do what he says because he's ... well ... cocky. LOL.

 

Renn Callahan is that way if you're looking for that kind of escort. Very nice guy. But he knows that you know you're gonna do what he wants.

[zeyfur]

I tell you what I really like in this regard -- a guy (or escort) who mixes natural confidence and even a little cockiness with genuine friendliness and then gets more aggressive and more cocky during sex play and loses some of the friendliness. But somehow still manages to remain a cool guy even when he's growling in your ear to lay flat on your stomach, squeeze your legs and get ready to get fucked and has no doubt you'll do what he says because he's ... well ... cocky. LOL.

 

Renn Callahan is that way if you're looking for that kind of escort. Very nice guy. But he knows that you know you're gonna do what he wants.

 

Ooooh ! That;s hot. Bring it on !

[Decatur Guy]

Ooooh ! That;s hot. Bring it on !

 

Well, he's well-reviewed here (including two from me). He's in the NYC/Philly area.

[+ azdr0710]

yeah, I certainly prefer straight-acting/looking/sounding dudes (yeah, we sometimes debate what that means....whatever) to effeminate, twinky little homos (yep, playing into the thread title - don't freak!).... a masculine, confident, man's man.....

 

one dude I see regularly has a classic New York accent, loves sports, sells cars, ain't shy, loves to bullshit you, no gay vibe at all....and he likes nothing more than to give head and take it up the ass.....

[Doe Be Doe]

one dude I see regularly has a classic New York accent, loves sports, sells cars, ain't shy, loves to bullshit you, no gay vibe at all....and he likes nothing more than to give head and take it up the ass.....

 

Any chance you'll tell us who this is or send me info in a private message? Thanks.

[+ carlos45]

The last couple of times I've gone to EROS, a sex club here in San Francisco, there's a guy who usually manages to get fucked by a couple of the patrons present. He usually walks around nude with such a swagger to him, that I suppose some people could describe as cocky or arrogant. Anyway, he and I have never partaken in anything, but when he walks around with that attitude, I find him to be really hot!

[robberbaron4u]

"Pussy on a stick"?

[Okliehomo]

Why is no one naming names here?

 

If they are advertising truthfully as escorts and you are actively hiring them and they are delivering the goods as promised, what's the secret?

 

Not like you could hurt their business, right?

 

Okie