What type of communication show I expect from an escort prior to a 4 day trip

[Guest Markwlake1]

I have hired an very hot escort to be my companion on a 4 day vacation trip. I e-mail him about his like or dislikes and am trying to IM him. Im trying to determine ground rules etc. So this trip can be fun and we do things that are pleasurable for both. Am I asking to much info? Should I be concerned about his likes and dislikes?

 

I am a caring guy that want to have fun by all, and dont want to be a cold ass... I guess I need guidance as what to do and expect?

[Guest Rich.]

Hey Markwlake1,

 

Relax! If you go to a restaurant you're not worrying about whether the owner has a good time or not, at least I hope you're not. You should check out a few basic rules in advance, wear a jacket-n-tie, no trainers, etc. but after that it's down to them to make your experience a memorable event, n'cest pas?

 

I'm guessing that because you won't be having sex 24/24 (unless you've booked Brandon Williams) you're concerned about what to do with the other 96 hours 40 minutes huh? My advice? Just decide on the day(s). Connect. Find common ground. Then do what YOU want to do! Remember Freud's advice. A good escort is fantastic in bed. A fantastic escort already has you on the couch!

 

Richard

[KMEM]

In some respects I think you have gotten the cart before the horse. One does not hire an escort and THEN ask what is allowed, preferences, etc. One discusses these things BEFORE hiring, or so I have to think. It IS possible to work things out "on the fly" so to speak but there may be ugly or semi-ugly moments during this process.

 

OTOH, any two reasonable people who offer to observe civil discourse, etc. and responses between themselves can likely work things out.

 

In other words, if he is a nice guy and you are also, then things likely will be OK.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[leigh.bess.toad]

I have hired an very hot escort to be my companion on a 4 day vacation trip. I e-mail him about his like or dislikes and am trying to IM him. Im trying to determine ground rules etc. So this trip can be fun and we do things that are pleasurable for both. Am I asking to much info? Should I be concerned about his likes and dislikes?

 

I am a caring guy that want to have fun by all, and dont want to be a cold ass... I guess I need guidance as what to do and expect?

 

First of all, welcome to the forum Markwlake1.

 

I guess first thing is you might want to find out how he prefers to communicate -- text, email, im, phone. And then resepct it. Don't innundate him with ideas, but maybe through out a few ideas that might be of interest to you. I know you want to do things that are pleasurable for both. So give him some ideas of what you might like. For me, the big thing is to make sure that they understand I want an honest answer on what they might be interested in -- no escort bs. Of course a good escort will go along with most of your ideas, but you want to find out what he REALLY likes. Of course, leave a lot of room for improv too. Don't plan the entire time down to the last minute.

 

Relax, enjoy, and let the relationship with him develop naturally. Over the 4 days, you'll sure to find out things to do that you both like.

 

Sounds like a great time. Good luck.

 

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[+ sf westcoaster]

Most of the answers to you questions should have been discussed prior to the actual agreement to hire, but since it sounds as if that didn't take place then you need to do it before you embark on your holiday. You need to discuss play time expectations - frequency, type etc., and you need to discuss wheather or not you expect the escort to be by your side 24/7 - remember that many people need some alone time. Specific likes and dislikes about food can be handled just prior to selecting an eating establishment. What you want to do those four days should, for the most part, be your call - remember you are the hirer and he is the hiree. Upfront communication is the key to an enjoyable holiday.