Ending a session

[bobchitown]

Today's otherwise good review of Chicago Rob contains a line about how the reviewer was put out when Rob announced "you have 10 minutes left". Likely not the most polite way to state the fact, but I'm thinking that I can't remember an escort EVER giving me notice that our time was almost up. I've been conscious of the time myself when he'd told me beforehand that his schedule was tight, but never anything more than that. Frankly, most have been very content to just kind of lay around and shoot the breeze for awhile. More ofter than not, I'm the one who says "I can see by the clock that I should let you go now."

 

How do other escorts end a session that is about to go over their time limit?

[+ newatthis]

I've rarely had an escort call time on me as ungraciously as Chicago Rob did. Most have been adept at managing the timing to finish more or less when planned, or, when things looked like they might go substantially overtime, to call that to my attention gently (e.g. by asking at an appropriate moment "are we doing one hour or two?").

[NYTomcat]

I've rarely had an escort call time on me as ungraciously as Chicago Rob did. Most have been adept at managing the timing to finish more or less when planned, or, when things looked like they might go substantially overtime, to call that to my attention gently (e.g. by asking at an appropriate moment "are we doing one hour or two?").

 

Exactly, or making some very nice comment.. such as Jeez. I better get showered.. Do you want to take one first.

[doitb4ugo]

Exactly, or making some very nice comment.. such as Jeez. I better get showered.. Do you want to take one first.

 

The invitation to get cleaned up and showered is almost always the polite hint that it is time to go...and almost every escort I have been with uses it and makes you feel like he is thinking of you rather than rushing you out the door....I had one recent escort explain that while not a clock-watcher, he needs to orchestrate his time with you to end up giving you what you want rather than running short at the end and rushing you through....I thought it was a very good point on how he puts a session together....of course this applies more to a shorter 1-2 hour gig.

[gcursor]

Clock watcher

 

I never run into this problem. Typically I usually watch the clock somewhat closely when I'm on a "short appointment" and usually end up leaving either slightly before or at the time I'm supposed to leave.....in other words, typically no prodding is needed to get me to leave. i've thought about setting my cell phone up to sound an alarm once the appt. time is done (so I don't have to watch the clock closely) but haven't started doing that yet.

 

p.s. and the reason I watch the clock is so that I can be fair to the escort and the person that might be coming after me. I want to afford them the same respect and courtesy that they might offer me in return.

Gcursor

 

Today's otherwise good review of Chicago Rob contains a line about how the reviewer was put out when Rob announced "you have 10 minutes left". Likely not the most polite way to state the fact, but I'm thinking that I can't remember an escort EVER giving me notice that our time was almost up. I've been conscious of the time myself when he'd told me beforehand that his schedule was tight, but never anything more than that. Frankly, most have been very content to just kind of lay around and shoot the breeze for awhile. More ofter than not, I'm the one who says "I can see by the clock that I should let you go now."

 

How do other escorts end a session that is about to go over their time limit?

[rossthebosssf]

I know it's not cost effective but it's why I always do two hours at a minimum. Usually it's me pushing them out the door early. I just like the opportunity that if we click socially we have time for chatting or another round if I'm able.

[joeyboy107]

Be polite

 

I always try to be as gracious as possible when a client seems to be just sticking around. But I have had clients ask me to give them a "ten minute call."

I don't like to watch the clock, but I'm always very appreciative when a client seems to respect my time as much as I try to respect theirs (by being available to fit in their schedule, not rushing them, etc.).

[+ purplekow]

I have always had a difficult time saying goodbye. I anticipate a death bed scene longer than Camille's as a result. In addition, I happen to love to talk and I imagine it to be, though it probably is not so, that people like listening to me as much as I like speaking with them. It is always a jolt to my system to get a gentle, and at times no so gentle, reminder that our time is up. The more I linger, the more rapport I have felt with my partner. With that as a background, it is probably clear that escorts have thrown me out more often then they throw out used condoms. Rather than being a lack of respect, I consider it a sign of a job well done that I am too exhausted to get out on time. So for you few escorts that have seen me leave on time or even a bit early, known that you really weren't all that good.

[leigh.bess.toad]

With that as a background, it is probably clear that escorts have thrown me out more often then they throw out used condoms.

 

So I'm guessing that someone must have a nice collection of used condoms.

 

So for you few escorts that have seen me leave on time or even a bit early, known that you really weren't all that good.

 

Ouch!

 

 

But as for me, I do tend to rely on the escort to give me the clue it's time to go. One reason is that I typically remove my glasses when we are in bed together and I am visually challenged enough so that I couldn't see a clock to know it's time to go. Hell, I'm so visually challenged that I can't find the floor without having my glasses on. I take no offense when my escort reminds me of the time. I do try to respect their time. But the clue to leave, for me at least, needs to come from my escort.

[justaguy]

I tend to be the one who watches the clock so it's never been a problem. That being said, I've never had an escort even come close to the behavior shown by Rob.

[+ Shoreboy]

I am usually the one that keeps tab on the time and I am usually the one that nicely says to my escort that his time is almost completed...and in almost every instance I get a nice response saying "don't worry about it"....

 

I have found that when we treat escorts with respect and dignity for what they are doing the response is always nice.

 

Now my therapist is a different story

[BaronArtz]

We've only heard it from the client's side, not from Rob's. So, I am not willing to throw Rob under the bus just yet. Maybe this was a client who just wouldn't come to a 'conclusion' and just wouldn't leave ...

[leigh.bess.toad]

I have found that when we treat escorts with respect and dignity for what they are doing the response is always nice.

 

Exactly right, Shoreboy.

[Guest Spanker01]

Only once some years ago did something similar happen to me. He was young, nicely packaged, and willing to do a scene with me. Things were really getting hot, for my part at least, when the announcement came. "Times Up" Needless to say I never hired him again. Apparently he would check his watch every few minutes, and I did't notice him doing it.

 

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[Bart]

I will say this thread or thought has come up before, some very excellent gentlemen have responded by saying in general it is up to the client to keep tabs on the time. I learned that early on and only once in 8 years have I gone over it was 10 min, I was mad at myself and they both laughed at my recognition of the time. I purposely do 2-3 hour appts to avoid such quick departures. I would say only thing Rob may have done wrong was his presentation of the time, otherwise I would say he was well with in his rights to bring the issue up and I think it is a bit rude to just assume you will get an extra 5-10 mins. I have been known early on to be a tad late but I dont over stayed and always assumed my being late does not mean I get 3 hours, if the appt was to end at 2, I am out the door by 2.

 

Purple love your response.

[+ newatthis]

...Typically I usually watch the clock somewhat closely when I'm on a "short appointment"...

For my part, I hate watching the clock myself; that puts me completely out of the mood. I expect the escort to keep track of the time and say so at the beginning -- I figure they should be experts at doing so unobtrusively. That also gives them the choice of whether to let things run a bit over if we're having an interesting conversation or bonding experience.

[uwsman2]

I also assume that the escort is keeping track of the time. That's what he's selling, time.... )

[+ purplekow]

Most good escorts have little tricks. If they are doing an incall, the music may seem random, but when Hit the Road Jack comes on, well no mystery there. Or perhaps, a subtle buzz of a cell phone, or a timed light that goes out may be the signal to the escort that time has ended. Fortunately, I have had several escorts who enjoy a nice post fuck cuddle as much as I do. To many, that extra time is well spent, as am I and hopefully as are they too, well spent that is. In golf they say you drive for show and putt for dough. As far as escorts go, for me, they fuck for show but they cuddle for dough. For me, no matter how great the guy and how great the sex, if as soon as we are done they are dressed and leaving, well chances are they are not coming back. An average session with a caring afterplay is much more likely to get a second chance from me.

[seeker630]

... As far as escorts go, for me, they fuck for show but they cuddle for dough. For me, no matter how great the guy and how great the sex, if as soon as we are done they are dressed and leaving, well chances are they are not coming back. An average session with a caring afterplay is much more likely to get a second chance from me.

 

We have that in common. I always express this expectation in my pre-session negotiations. Anyone who omits this or is obviously uncomfortable with it is also not likely to get a tip.

[+ Tygerscent]

Hmmmm... multiple Clients after the first one seems like a rip off to me... I mean if I was hiring I would not want to be in the middle or end of the shaft's shift if that makes sense~ ...even if I was at the end and got the esteemed happy ending from the Escort~ WTF so, the rest of the escorts Clients before that get less then that??? That's okay???

So... how sessions generally end for me is my client is ready for bed or has to get ready to fly out or has a conference to go to. Clocks suck in a bad way... My preference is to make the time the least important factor with appropriate consideration and reason. Sometimes I just feel like staying longer and do... not asking more financially... it's my choice so why should my Client pay for that? They should not~

"Tricks" for leaving, (even gracefully), seem potentially red flag-ish to me somehow~

I prefer, (and hope my CLients feel comfortable enough to be so inclined), to concentrate less on the time of the clock and indulge in time together as deeply as you are both able to go. Time together sucking and fucking as that happens but, also connecting on all kinds of levels... I find that can matter more. Quality time that withstands the test of time, over time and certainly beyond the "clock". I don;t mean using quality time as a ploy to provide more gainful income to the Escort...

The goal: exceptional experience... shared Intimacy on whatever level that is meaningful and withstands the test of time.

One can buy a million items at the dollar store that will each last an instantaneous desire and moment of day, a week a month... or have several cherished, quality experiences for the same money that last a life time. Determine what is of value to you and attain that~

What does one invest their time and money into??? What brings long term satisfaction? Is the preference short term gratification of void with ongoing want for more? ...or the experience/meaningful things that accrue interest over time?

While I understand the importance and need for distinction between a given session and something like an over night or days spent together, when after the business part is done and both leave with something personally "meaningful" and "more" that withstands the test of time, the important things is the quality of the experience and not as much the time?

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Most good escorts have little tricks. If they are doing an incall, the music may seem random, but when Hit the Road Jack comes on, well no mystery there. Or perhaps, a subtle buzz of a cell phone, or a timed light that goes out may be the signal to the escort that time has ended. Fortunately, I have had several escorts who enjoy a nice post fuck cuddle as much as I do. To many, that extra time is well spent, as am I and hopefully as are they too, well spent that is. In golf they say you drive for show and putt for dough. As far as escorts go, for me, they fuck for show but they cuddle for dough. For me, no matter how great the guy and how great the sex, if as soon as we are done they are dressed and leaving, well chances are they are not coming back. An average session with a caring afterplay is much more likely to get a second chance from me.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Hmmmm... multiple Clients after the first one seems like a rip off to me... I mean if I was hiring I would not want to be in the middle or end of the shaft's shift if that makes sense~ ...even if I was at the end and got the esteemed happy ending from the Escort~ WTF so, the rest of the escorts Clients before that get less then that??? That's okay???

So... how sessions generally end for me is my client is ready for bed or has to get ready to fly out or has a conference to go to. Clocks suck in a bad way... My preference is to make the time the least important factor with appropriate consideration and reason. Sometimes I just feel like staying longer and do... not asking more financially... it's my choice so why should my Client pay for that? They should not~

"Tricks" for leaving, (even gracefully), seem potentially red flag-ish to me somehow~

I prefer, (and hope my CLients feel comfortable enough to be so inclined), to concentrate less on the time of the clock and indulge in time together as deeply as you are both able to go. Time together sucking and fucking as that happens but, also connecting on all kinds of levels... I find that can matter more. Quality time that withstands the test of time, over time and certainly beyond the "clock". I don;t mean using quality time as a ploy to provide more gainful income to the Escort...

The goal: exceptional experience... shared Intimacy on whatever level that is meaningful and withstands the test of time.

One can buy a million items at the dollar store that will each last an instantaneous desire and moment of day, a week a month... or have several cherished, quality experiences for the same money that last a life time. Determine what is of value to you and attain that~

What does one invest their time and money into??? What brings long term satisfaction? Is the preference short term gratification of void with ongoing want for more? ...or the experience/meaningful things that accrue interest over time?

While I understand the importance and need for distinction between a given session and something like an over night or days spent together, when after the business part is done and both leave with something personally "meaningful" and "more" that withstands the test of time, the important things is the quality of the experience and not as much the time?

 

And that's why you are who you are and those of us who are lucky enough to be clients treasure every moment we can spend with you.

[raulgmanzo]

How do other escorts end a session that is about to go over their time limit?

 

Time? Who the hell keeps track of time when having fun? Seriously.

If the client has somewhere to be then he can keep track of time or set an alarm. Because otherwise I really don't care if our two hour appointment takes 4 hours. The charge is still for two hours as I am not going to penalize the client because I lost track of time.

[NYTomcat]

And having been with both ty and raul. They certainly do get wrapped up in the moment. "Time meant nothing.. never would again. "

[gtx1]

If it's a short appointment (under 3 hours) I try to be respectful of the time and be sensitive to the escort's schedule. I don't mind going over but I'm sensitive to the messages transmitted by the escort.

 

I had the unique experience recently of having to kick an escort out of bed! - I didn't want him to leave, he didn't want to leave but at some point in time with next day commitments - someone has to make the right decision. I can't believe I'm saying that and now I wish I'd just let him stay, sorry friend. LOL.