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Have any escorts contemplated finding or have a sugar daddy? And if so, what would the stipulations be in terms of limits and finances? How does it impact your personal relationships?

Recently, I've met a guy at a friend's party and have hooked up with him a number of times. Each time we've met up, he says he's a little short of cash and needs some help. Unfortunately, it's in my nature to help where I can. Last weekend, he asked me to be his sugar daddy but i'm not sure I want this as I feel too (relatively) young to be one and I don't want to lock myself in to just one guy. Has anyone else been in such a situation? I don't want to piss him off yet am sort of titillated with the idea....

+ *beethoven* · April 27, 2011

Tyger, I'm curious. If you spent so much money on this bloke -- tuition, clothes, etc. -- where is he now?

+ *Tygerscent* · April 27, 2011

The honest answer there is that while I was called away from our home on the coast due to a strike with the corporation I was working for, (I was in upper management there), he got involved with a meth maker he worked with in a chem lab and they started making meth at our home. He was asking for money for bills and not paying them... he turned our home into a meth lab... he, after two months of me being gone via work needs, left the day before I came home. He fled to Palm Springs and got more involved in meth. After seeing powder falling from the ceiling and naked men dancing on his porch and hearing voices he contacted me and fled back to oregon for safety. Long story short, with frequent visits to the emergency rooms for attempted suicides and hearing voices, I became his guardian for the next seven years. I fell in Love with a different partner after he left and was not able to disclose my address to the boy we are speaking of with respect to my new partner and his family who also lived with us. After awhile the boy came to realize that I was not going to be dating him to the capacity that he preferred. In one day he put our kitty Kumbaya to sleep, left his things behind and ventured for SF. Once there, he did not have a job or medical insurance. He went back to meth and drugs, was sleeping in a car, having seizures since not on his meds and sometimes domiciled at his sisters house outside of SF.

Knowing his spiral down pattern, I tried to contact his family to intervene. The mother called me and I asked her to go to him. She was not willing. So, I called into work and went down to SF... missing him by some short time he had taken a gun to his head and that was that. Very messy and frightening.

The love of my Life really. Loved that boy so very much.... sweet, silly, sexy, naughty, mischievous, intelligent... but... you know... the meth ate him~ There was nothing anyone could do, so he took it upon himself to find the only resolution he could in his understanding of things. I miss him dearly~

He had such great potential... such depth of heart and sense of silliness. I miss him terribly. Where is he now? Wish he was in my arms... he is always in my heart.

As with those who have passed before me, I believe that none of them would want me to stop living my life... that they would want me to reach my greatest potential and help others to reach theirs.

Hence some context to my tedious and perhaps overly cerebral postings~ Live Life to the fullest... share good things back to help others reach their greatest potential. Learn, and give back. Above all else, Love. Plain and simple. Family is those you encounter and have history with... Love them gently and respectfully... It;s not just about sex. Love has all kinds of ways of meaning, feeling and expression.

I was Sugar Daddy to my Mom when I moved her from greece to portland... as some of you know, she arrived in a wheel chair. I invested into her care and recovery from her disabilities. By the second year she was driving and walking and doing things on her own. I got her into water therapy. Despite my efforts and intensions, her card was drawn and she passed away gently but suddenly. I miss her as well... deeply and unchanging in some ways.

I will never forget the Love each gave to me... in both, the gift of life was what they offered in their own ways and appreciating it is what I do for them out of respect and Love back. They helped me realize what my own life can mean and what life can mean for others.

What would be the worth of money for the gift of Love?

Sometimes, Love overrides all...

That is my heart~

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Tyger, I'm curious. If you spent so much money on this bloke -- tuition, clothes, etc. -- where is he now?

JoeyBryant · April 27, 2011

^^ Jesus Christ, bless his heart. I'm sorry to hear that

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Diverdan · April 27, 2011

Hey Tyger, although we have never met, I am very impressed by your posting about the "loves" of your life. Thank you so much for sharing. Some of our mutual friends rave about you, and I can certainly see why based on this post alone. As you pointed out, "Sugar Daddies" come in all sorts of variations, and it is not necessarily related to sex, although a lot of young men see it that way. As for the original post from cany, I would have to say "run, not walk" from the situation you describe. He is looking for deep pockets and you will never be able to have enough to satisfy him IMHO. If you want to be a SD, you need to establish the rules at the very beginning of the relationship and have some boundaries. I don't know of any situation where a SD has worked out to the mutual satisfaction of both parties over a long period of time. But, there is always an exception to every rule, so if you want more info, or comments, send me a PM. In the meantime, good luck with your situation.

nate_sf · April 27, 2011

As for the original post from cany, I would have to say "run, not walk" from the situation you describe. He is looking for deep pockets and you will never be able to have enough to satisfy him IMHO.

I agree. Unless you get off on handing him money and supporting him (and some guys do), it does not sound like a good situation. It would be one thing if it were for specific things like tuition or training, or moving into a stable place, but (Tyger's experience aside) that can bring expectations of control over the outcome in exchange for the support and could get messy. An open-ended arrangement for someone who is routinely short on cash is just taking advantage of you, though. Even worse if the hook-ups are contingent on your handouts.

+ *Tygerscent* · April 27, 2011

It sounds kind of like the concept of "hustling". (Not to be mistaken for Escorting).

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...Even worse if the hook-ups are contingent on your handouts.

Bart · April 27, 2011

I am sorry to hear of this situation. You may be titilated now, but it is a one-way street and not going your way.

The moment he asked for extra is the last time he would have heard from me. I have had a few such as a person (I wont use gentleman as is my usually moniker, because he was not one) who I too thought I was building a bit of a relationship with. He was delightful to talk to or so I thought, seemed like he cared and then he began calling with stories of personal tragedies, brother in an accident and trying to get his mother here from Prague. His car was broken into and then he was in an accident. Not once did I offer monetary help, that is where I draw the line. He stopped calling. Dont worry still in the business no desire to meet him anymore.

I would leave now and dont look back. End it on your terms, not his.

Bart · April 27, 2011

Tyger thank you agan for sharing from your heart. We have shared those moments about our mothers with each other and as always I cinch up when I hear them. The story of the love of your life, is truely one of the saddest. Again as always you are that emotional wall people can lean on.

cany10011 · April 27, 2011

Yeah, this guy asked for 3K.He was catering for my friend's party and said he worked for a modeling bartending agency. I don't think he'd make that much as a caterer but he probably would make that and more if he did a few overnights a month as an escort (although he claims that he never escorted).

nate_sf · April 28, 2011

Yeah, this guy asked for 3K.He was catering for my friend's party and said he worked for a modeling bartending agency. I don't think he'd make that much as a caterer but he probably would make that and more if he did a few overnights a month as an escort (although he claims that he never escorted).

$3000 holy shit! That's more than "a little short on cash" in my book. Think of all the quality time you could get with an escort for that much money, or a massage therapist... ;-) Not to mention any other number of things.

cany10011 · April 28, 2011

Yes, indeed a lot of fun can be had with that amount. Although I'm sure there are a lot of people that can afford that amount, I'd rather spend it on nicer lasting things like ferragammo shoes and parterre seats at the opera.

bcohen7719 · April 29, 2011

A quick follow-up....might he have been "worth" $3,000? I.e., was he extraordinarily hot?

+ *Tygerscent* · April 29, 2011

Hot is Hot BUT... Hot AND adding what makes a constructive impact on your life with meaning thru the content and context of your experience shared is another. There are Hustlers and then there are Escorts?

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A quick follow-up....might he have been "worth" $3,000? I.e., was he extraordinarily hot?

SteveStacks · April 29, 2011

Wow

Tyger, my measure of manhood is how well a man takes care of those he claims to love.

It sounds to me like you are ALL man....

I'm sorry to hear about how much you have been through, but what most moves me is that rather than having been made bitter, you have grown from your troubles into that much better of a human being....well done.

+ *nycman* · April 29, 2011

Eartha Kitt said it best....

"I just want someone who's able...to send champagne to my table,

Sugar Daddy...Sugar Daddy....don't you just love me in sable?"

In other words, if you're not ready to start handing out sable coats....you're not ready to be a Sugar Daddy.

It gets expensive FAST....

+ *Tygerscent* · May 1, 2011

It's a garden variety sensibility perhaps: that the purpose of Life is to be Alive, to live it... Experience it by taking roots, wielding branches, baring leaves... Share it through fragrant flowers and pollen, teaching what you have become, then giving back into it, giving life back through the delicacy of your fruit... provide nourishment... and in the end, let your leaves drop gracefully, branches bow and come to rest on the ground with purpose, let the sun in for everything around you, make good soil for other life to grow in~

(As nauseatingly psuedo-poetic as that sounds, I actually believe that~)

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Tyger, my measure of manhood is how well a man takes care of those he claims to love.
It sounds to me like you are ALL man....

I'm sorry to hear about how much you have been through, but what most moves me is that rather than having been made bitter, you have grown from your troubles into that much better of a human being....well done.

NYTomcat · May 3, 2011

Tyger... Forgive that I am not sorry for you in the least. Ive known you for some time now and that story has been quintessential in building the amazing man I know today. While it is unfortunate you had to live through it to get where you are... You have the most amazing heart and soul I have ever met... my guide and advisor. Your capacity to love those around you and yourself do really seem limitless. Some would say i mean its better to have loved and lost... but thats not it at all... You loved and won and carry that love with you now effecting everyone you meet. In many ways your life is a testament to his and makes his life significant in ways it may not have been while he drew breathe. You are his legacy as a child is to a parent in many ways

So to the O.P. while being a sugar daddy may seem enticing... understand that same money could be used to have experiences with men like Tyger and others and perhaps even travels that will find you someone who wants to be with you not for your monetary value but for the value you bring to their life.

+ *Tygerscent* · May 4, 2011

Such depth in the Panther's eyes~ Such great Beauty~

Tyger!

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