suggestions for LA?

[italian40]

I'm in Italian man and I will be in Los Angeles for business from April 11th for 5 days more or less. I will stay in West Hollywwood. I don't know the city and I'm not informed that much about porn stars or escorts there. I'm into straight men, with big muscles or not.I don't ask for hard sex, but the most important thing is to meet someone who is straight or bisexual. Any suggestions about a guy to meet one evening? Thanks.

[ManToManDave]

Hi!

 

Please call me or e-mail. I have several suggestions. Thanks!

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

ManToManDave@gmail.com

866-626-4626

[Jaker27]

I'll never understand this straight guy fantasy. You never see a straight guy out there saying he's looking for a gay guy. Why not just find a hot masculine guy. Why does he have to be straight. Then there are the guys who post looking for someone who's straight acting on their online profiles instead of just saying their looking for someone masculine, manly, or whatever. Just seems to me like self hate. Anyways, sorry didn't mean to hi jack this post.

[italian40]

I'll never understand this straight guy fantasy. You never see a straight guy out there saying he's looking for a gay guy. Why not just find a hot masculine guy. Why does he have to be straight. Then there are the guys who post looking for someone who's straight acting on their online profiles instead of just saying their looking for someone masculine, manly, or whatever. Just seems to me like self hate. Anyways, sorry didn't mean to hi jack this post.

hi, jaker. I understand what you mean but I assure you that I don't hate myself and I've never had problems with my homosexuality. I have a stable relationship (and great sex) with a gay man like me. So consider my request as a sexual phantasy. There are people that get crazy for feets, or SM sex an so on. And I respect every form of "perversion" in sexual desire. So, if I like to have a straight man posing for me or discussing about the girls he fucks while I touch him, I don' see where the problem is. Italy is full of available straight men. Freud would say that they have a big dose of homosexuality that they keep secret inside or that they hate gay people that hire them, but who cares? I'm only looking for an hour of pure fun. Nothing else. Excuse me for my bad English and have fun with the all the escorts you like. My only problem is that I didn't get any suggestions at all! Ciao.

[MscleLovr]

You MUST get in touch with Dave at ManToMan (his contact details are above). I have no interest in his agency, but I'm also a foreigner who visits the US and I've used his services a few times. He always responds promptly and is genuinely helpful; he said above that he has "several suggestions" so you will have your desires met.

[EZEtoGRU]

hi, jaker. I understand what you mean but I assure you that I don't hate myself and I've never had problems with my homosexuality. I have a stable relationship (and great sex) with a gay man like me. So consider my request as a sexual phantasy. There are people that get crazy for feets, or SM sex an so on. And I respect every form of "perversion" in sexual desire. So, if I like to have a straight man posing for me or discussing about the girls he fucks while I touch him, I don' see where the problem is. Italy is full of available straight men. Freud would say that they have a big dose of homosexuality that they keep secret inside or that they hate gay people that hire them, but who cares? I'm only looking for an hour of pure fun. Nothing else. Excuse me for my bad English and have fun with the all the escorts you like. My only problem is that I didn't get any suggestions at all! Ciao.

 

I understand your interest in straight guys as I have the same taste. Like you, I also consider myself well balanced and fully accepting of my gayness. For some reason in the US, some gay folks get offended when one of us is attracted to straight guys and they automatically revert to the self-hate thing. I dont really understand that reaction.....and it seems typically American to me. I am an American but travel extensively and I just don't see that same type of reaction outside of the US. In most of Europe and Latin America, gay people fully understand and accept the attraction to straight guys. Anyway, for me the core issue is finding super masculine guys......the majority of the gay escorts just don't fit the bill I'm afraid. If I could find very masculine gay escorts, I would be more than happy to hire them.

 

Hope you have a great trip to LA and find what you are looking for!

[boccadellaverita]

Caro amico, because there seems to be no way to answer you privately, I've just now registered here for that one, express purpose--to send you a message. And I've done so because I'm 100% certain I have the answer to your question.

 

The escort you should see during your visit to LA is a bodybuilder named COLTON.

 

He has only one review here. (Frankly, this site is not the best place to come looking for a guy like him. You'd do a lot better checking out the Logbook in the forum section of muscleservice.com.)

 

The review here was posted last November, and you'll find it in the Reviews section by searching under his name. The email address shown there is valid; however, the Rentboy link to use to reach his ad is this--

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=263862&scid=52801281&sp=1&pos=0&locid=1569&iid=125738

 

--and that's because he happens to be in New York City at the moment. He'll be going home to LA before the weekend, and I expect his ad will then reappear there. If the NYC ad doesn't come up, go to Rentboy and do an Advanced search in Manhattan, using his name.

 

Being 100% certain that he is the perfect choice to answer your needs, I'll say nothing further in his favor at the moment. But I am equally certain that, if you follow my advice and meet him, you'll remember me in your prayers forever after.

 

[runthemhoes]

try Rusty Stevens. one of my faves when i want a good hot straight guy that appreciates gay men coming for him.

http://www.rentboy.com/listing.aspx?lu=rustystevens2

[leigh.bess.toad]

I understand your interest in straight guys as I have the same taste. Like you, I also consider myself well balanced and fully accepting of my gayness. For some reason in the US, some gay folks get offended when one of us is attracted to straight guys and they automatically revert to the self-hate thing. I dont really understand that reaction.....and it seems typically American to me. I am an American but travel extensively and I just don't see that same type of reaction outside of the US. In most of Europe and Latin America, gay people fully understand and accept the attraction to straight guys. Anyway, for me the core issue is finding super masculine guys......the majority of the gay escorts just don't fit the bill I'm afraid. If I could find very masculine gay escorts, I would be more than happy to hire them.

 

Hope you have a great trip to LA and find what you are looking for!

 

EZE -- to me it isn't so much a thought of self-hate. My concern is more societal in nature. The fear that "the gays" are constantly out trying to recruit the straights. Like the post the other day of the film from the 50's "Boys Beware". It is to me the cause of rampant homophobia in "male" enclaves such as the gym. And the cause of more gay-bashing.

 

Maybe I'm wrong. I'm certainly willing to entertain that notion. But that is more my biggest concern. The fear of straight society that we are constantly "recruiting new members". Like we're the Ruritans or something.

 

And maybe it's the guys I hire but for the most part I sure wouldn't question their masculinity: Tyger, Sean Knight, Romann, Dane Michaels. You tell me this isn't masculine:

 

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5270/5596949448_06fef3e470_m.jpg

 

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5023/5596790014_75b171ced3_m.jpg

 

And btw -- those are real issue uni's. That he wore during 8 years in the navy/marines. Serving 2 tours in Iraq.

 

And he's as gay as you or I!!!

[Rick Munroe]

Why not just find a hot masculine guy. Why does he have to be straight.

 

Because straight guys aren't necessarily masculine! That's why the term "straight-acting" doesn't make any sense. But I totally understand the straight-guy fantasy/fetish. I also like straight guys and on the rare occasions when I watch porn, it's straight.

[Rick Munroe]

You tell me this isn't masculine:

 

I have no doubt that the guys you mentioned or displayed are masculine (because I don't doubt your word!) but I think there's a difference between looking and acting masculine, so you can't expect somebody to tell just from a photo. I think that's why a lot of clients want to talk on the phone before meeting.

[EZEtoGRU]

Because straight guys aren't necessarily masculine! That's why the term "straight-acting" doesn't make any sense. But I totally understand the straight-guy fantasy/fetish. I also like straight guys and on the rare occasions when I watch porn, it's straight.

Rick,

I couldn't have responded better myself. I also very rarely watch gay porn. The guys just don't do it for me.

 

Leigh,

Masculinity is 90% demeanor and how a guy handles himself (gestures, way of speaking, way he walks, etc). It goes way beyond how someone looks in a photo. This is why the escort scene via RB & M4RN does not really work for me. You can hire the hottest/butchest guy from the ads and when he turns up and opens his mouth....it's tinkerbell. For this reason the Brasil sauna scene works much better for me. Spain also.

 

Lee, I love you dude, but I know what I like and how to get it. And I have never been accused of "recruiting". On the contrary, Tony in Madrid, Luciano in Sao Paulo, and Diego in Miami are all happy for my patronage...helps pay for clothes, and school for their kids.

 

Peace. I still love you and your superbly entertaining posts.

Thanks

[leigh.bess.toad]

EZE -- thank you. What I love it most about here is when we can disagree agreeably. The strange thing is I think you and I are after a similar type but we go about it differently. I want masculine men as well. I find it through research on the escorts, hiring only known, well-reviewed escorts, as well as probably having an average age of hire in the low to mid 30's at least. But because I want all of them engaged with me during our encounter, I think the likelihood of finding that is much stronger in gay or bi men.

 

I certainly am not opposed to, nor judging, your preference. That's so not my job. But if that's how it came across, I apologize. I only have one solid rule in judging preference -- NO KIDS!!!!!!. I will vehemently draw that line. To me, NAMBLA is the true enemy of gay men everywhere. Other than that, I think, I hope, I'm at least as tolerant as anyone. Everyone in the entire LGBT community needs to stand together at all times to promote our self interests, rather than bicker over our differences. In many ways, I think our preferences may tend to be as hard wired as our orientation. And I certainly would never accuse of you recruiting. God forbid. That's someone else's job. But someone must be in charge of the secret society we gays have that goes out and recruits all the straight guys for us. Isn't there? Wasn't there a cabal meeting about that recently? I could have sworn I got an invitation to join.

 

And actually guys here on the forum who prefer straight guys are probably the least likely to recruit because they will meet some/many/all of their desires with escorts. At least that would be my guess. Although purely a guess.

 

But I was trying to merely hypothesize and was worried about a possible Matthew Shepard effect. The perception in the straight community -- no matter how wrong, how stupid and how biased it is -- that we're all out recruiting them. In much the way white men protected their women-folk from African-American men. Of course most guys don't need a hell of a lot of protecting but even an approach or an appearance of an approach is a direct frontal assault on their "masculinity". Or an assault on any latent homosexual desires. And whether or not there is a physical reaction to it, the stories will be told to all his straight buddies about the faggot who tried to hit on him (sorry for the term but that's how it'd be described, as much as I hate the term). Which at some point may trigger a violent response to any perceived enticement to come to our side by someone who is truly mentally unstable.

 

But trust me, when my marine I posted opens his mouth, the only thing you'd say is "SIR, YES, SIR". Because as a wise man once said. "Been There, Done That". Or more accurately, "Been There, Been Done by That" . No tinkerbell, he. But I do understand your point as well.

 

Be well and thanks for the thoughtful response.

[EZEtoGRU]

Matthew Shepard? NAMBLA? Secret society? Cabal meeting? I don't even know what the last three are and I am not clear at all what any of it has to do with attraction to str8 guys. Lee, I think you are way over-analyzing this. I like str8 dudes. You do not. It's all normal and all cool. No-one is getting hurt.

 

Other than us both being roughly attracted to guys in the same age range (for me, 25-35), I really don't think we like the same thing at all. Some day when you are in Houston, I'll explain it all to you over a drink. Peace...and I still love ya!

[daviddd49]

Does anybody have anything on the LA Escort on rentboy.com called JCHEV:

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=248624&scid=52905177&sp=9&pos=177&locid=1378&iid=115228

 

He looks fabulous, but I can't find any reviews of him.

[jeffla]

Just wanted to ask this question again. Sean - JCHEV - is so luscious! His green light (available now) was on a lot in the beginning but I never got a chance to call him. Now that some time has passed, I wonder if anyone has any experiences with him? I love what he writes - he seems real - but surprising that there have been no reviews.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=248624&scid=52905177&sp=9&pos=177&locid=1378&iid=115228

[bigvalboy]

I most certainly agree with you Italian40, to me it is not a matter of self hate, I don't feel the need to repeat what you just said, but for me also it is a fantasy. Some guys like the Daddy types or SM and Bondage or chasing twinks. It is all about fantasy in the realm of hiring or even in your personal life. Sometimes we are vocal about it other times we keep the fantasy to ourselves. I have been with guys that looked like linebackers, but get them behind closed doors and fine linen womens pantys would come out. Go figure. I am out to my family and coworkers and neighbors...but I like the straight boys. Having a straight guy get turned on for the first time is the ultimate fantasy for me. Of course that begs the question,.... WAS HE EVER REALLY STR8...dunno, but I don't care, as long as he tells me what I want to hear when I'm paying the tab, then I am good to go. Is that a bit shallow? maybe, but it is my money.