Question for Clients

[seeker630]

My bad. Nothing anal was meant. I'm new at this and find that I misinterpreted the term "pop". I ASSUMED it meant orgasm. There is an old saying "Never assume, for it makes an ASS out of U and ME". In response to your inquiry I looked up "pop" as a gay term and find that f**k is the most appropriate definition as used in this thread. I can now understand the confusion my assumption caused.

 

As a noun, I always interpret a 'pop' as an orgasm, so I assumed 'assisted pop' meant 'manual release' or hand job. But it's not a term I've seen sued that much, at least not in my area.

[Guest Spanker01]

I too am into kink, except as the top. Spanking is my specialty. Most of my sessions last about an hour and a half, which includes corner time(s). When I have to hire from outside the area, it is generally for an overnight. Due to budget constraints, I rarely hire beyond that.

 

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[Guest WinsomeVic]

I actually prefer to get to know the guy a little bit, so I usually ask for their hour rate and try to then figure out something fair for 90 minutes. Then I usually meet the guy, have a drink and talk a bit in the hotel bar or something. Maybe 20 minutes of this relaxes me and also turns me on, especially if he is exactly my physical type.

 

Usually the guys understand and give me a very good deal for that 20-30 minutes extra, and not a pro rated 30 minute rate based on their regularly hourly rate.

 

Then I pair off to the room for an hour or so and get busy. I am just looking to get taken care of, not a more complete experience. No multiple hours or overnights for me. After I get topped, especially well, I have no particular desire to hang out with the guy for any length of time. Just clean up and go. I'm respectful and nice, of course. But I'm just not into extended time together.

 

As for cumming, I just know when my sweet spot is hit, and I don't cum often. If I do cum, it's probably because I'm really excited and the guy is very skilled at what he is doing, so I only expect it once. This really pleases me. I don't expect multiple pops from me of the guy.

 

Frankly the idea of an overnight with a working guy turns me off. Maybe that's just me.

[gtx1]

My bad. Nothing anal was meant. I'm new at this and find that I misinterpreted the term "pop". I ASSUMED it meant orgasm. There is an old saying "Never assume, for it makes an ASS out of U and ME". In response to your inquiry I looked up "pop" as a gay term and find that f**k is the most appropriate definition as used in this thread. I can now understand the confusion my assumption caused.

 

You read the question correctly. In this thread pop meant orgasm.

[instudiocity]

I actually prefer to get to know the guy a little bit, so I usually ask for their hour rate and try to then figure out something fair for 90 minutes.

Winsome, sounds like you're a 'let's have a drink, then slam, bam, thank you, Sam!"

[+ not2rowdy]

I don't hire often. But in my short experience with escorts and sensual/erotic masseurs:

I have always had at least one successful pop (all multi-hour sessions)

Only one time did escort not pop. I am reasonably certain he would have if wanted him to. I did not feel deprived.

[Guest WinsomeVic]

Winsome, sounds like you're a 'let's have a drink, then slam, bam, thank you, Sam!"

 

Yep, that's me! ;-)

[Toulouse]

I always hire for one or two hours and usually hire on average about once a month. I've never hired anyone for an overnight appointment--just not my thing. I have always shot my load at least once during an appointment (occasionally twice). I never pressure or expect the escort to "pop" his load during our appointment--some do, some don't. Either way is fine with me. I just like the making-out and sex to be natural, spontaneous and unforced in any way.

[curiousheartguy]

I hire escorts at least forty to fifty times per year. In the case of a "new" guy, I almost always hire for one hour. I try to leave it open ended and suggest that if we get along then we can extend the visit. For guys that I know, I really prefer 2 to 4 hour visits. That gives us time to catch up, maybe go out for a drink/dinner, then head back to our room for some more fun. In essence I am trying to make it a "really hot date".

In general, I have gotten away from doing overnights. The reason for this is that if there is a hot naked guy lying next to me in bed......then I am not interested in sleeping no matter what time it is. So whenever I do hire a guy for an overnight, then I make it clear that neither one of us is going to sleep very much. Some guys cant handle that unfortunately. But I have to ask the question "Why should I pay someone to sleep??".

As far as orgasms go, I really dont care about whether I cum or not. However, I am very, very disappointed when an escort doesnt cum. I am close to 50 years old. I can cum five or six times a day. I guess I dont understand why younger guys cant do it for their clients. My view of things is that cumming is "part of the package" when you hire a guy. Therefore escorts should keep that in mind before they schedule appointments.

[JT Brooklyn]

Always 2 Hour Hangouts...I Shoot he Shoots or "No Return Engagement"!

 

My Reg Guy 2 Hrs..I Shoot he Shoots 2 Times that's why he's always a "Return Engagement"!

[gtx1]

In general, I have gotten away from doing overnights. The reason for this is that if there is a hot naked guy lying next to me in bed......then I am not interested in sleeping no matter what time it is. So whenever I do hire a guy for an overnight, then I make it clear that neither one of us is going to sleep very much. Some guys cant handle that unfortunately. But I have to ask the question "Why should I pay someone to sleep??"

 

Curiousheartguy

 

I've just about come to the same conclusion. If there is a hot guy in my bed there is just no way that I'm getting any sleep and if I'm not sleeping then he's not sleeping. Then I'm dead meat the next day, so I think I've done my last overnight for a while.

[Guy Fawkes]

You may wish to take into consideraton that the M/C traffic is about 20% of the traffic to the site. Daddy

[gtx1]

You may wish to take into consideraton that the M/C traffic is about 20% of the traffic to the site. Daddy

 

OK, my ignorance is showing - M/C? I've tried every combination of words. I've even googled it:

 

M/C Machine (mechanical engineering)

M/C Motorcycle

M/C Multiple Choice

M/C Miscarriage

M/C Medical Certificate

M/C Maitre de Cabine

M/C Midshipman Candidate (Naval Academy Prepatory School)

 

While the Midshipman Candidate might be interesting - I don't think that's what was intended.

[jgoo]

I believe Daddy is referring to this forum (with its various threads and categories) as the Message Center (M/C) and the "site" as the Daddy M4M Reviews (http://www.daddysreviews.com/). At least that is how I interpret it.

[curiousheartguy]

gtx1

 

My point is not that i dont want overnights. I do. I can go all night, who cares. I can sleep when I am dead. My point was that the escorts are not willing to go all night and always want to incorporate sleeping into the experience. As I stated, I am close to 50 years old. If I can do an "all nighter" at my age why cant a 25 year old escort do the same? So, again I must ask the question "Why should I pay someone to sleep?".

[raulgmanzo]

gtx1

 

My point is not that i dont want overnights. I do. I can go all night, who cares. I can sleep when I am dead. My point was that the escorts are not willing to go all night and always want to incorporate sleeping into the experience. As I stated, I am close to 50 years old. If I can do an "all nighter" at my age why cant a 25 year old escort do the same? So, again I must ask the question "Why should I pay someone to sleep?".

 

Plenty of guys are willing to go all night. Certainly I and many with which I've done all night threeways have been. But maybe NOT if we have important obligations in the morning or the next day. So the important thing would be to be sure and communicate your desires and plans for sleep or lack thereof up front. Then the escort could be sure and plan on getting a good nights sleep the next and maybe previous night and not making any other bookings or plans that would interfere.

[gcursor]

nice insight

 

This was a very nice thoughtful response. great insight

 

Plenty of guys are willing to go all night. Certainly I and many with which I've done all night threeways have been. But maybe NOT if we have important obligations in the morning or the next day. So the important thing would be to be sure and communicate your desires and plans for sleep or lack thereof up front. Then the escort could be sure and plan on getting a good nights sleep the next and maybe previous night and not making any other bookings or plans that would interfere.

[mike4393]

Locally I only book Multi ( 2 hour or longer appointments) when Traveling always overnights.

Only expect to pop once in a 2 hour . With the escort, The more the merrier. mostly 2-3 times