Threesome issues

[clive101]

I haven't found a topic about this yet in a forum search so I thought I'd ask. Since I've never had a threesome before, I'll be trying one soon with a well reviewed escort on this forum and was wondering the proper etiquette, things to expect or do if you only wish to take one role, ie bottoming . What do you if you're into one escort more than the other?

[Diverdan]

Threesomes can be a fantastic experience. You mention that one was with a "well reviewed escort", but you didn't say anything about the third guy in your triangle. You probably want to make sure that you know both of the other guys and that they know each other or are at least very open to spending this kind of time together. It helps if you have some expectation of the roles of all three in advance, but sometimes it is just best to "go with the flow". Fortunately most of my experiences with three, and in one case four, have been great. I only had one that was not so good. If you want more information or more detailed comments, send me a pm.

[adriano46]

Yes, I agree with Divedan -- in all the 3-somes I have done (and there are many), I make sure both escorts know who the other is. Sometimes I try to balance things (one is a top the other a bottom, or at least one of the two is very versatile); and I let them know what my own expectations are (full participation, partial, voyeur).

 

I have found that in 90% of the times I have done this, by being frank and open with the other two on what I want (and it is ALL about the client), they will give quite a performance and I have never felt left out or unattended.

[nate_sf]

Adriano's and Diverdan's responses are good ones. When I've been asked to participate in a three-way I've appreciated when I've been told who the other guy will be, so I know what to expect. Just send them links to each others' ads so they know who's who.

 

And yes, if you have a preference let them know who you want to do what with, and how. You're the client so it's your call. You can also just let it be spontaneous, but they're there to show you a good time so be sure to tell them what you like for yourself.

 

If they have different rates from each other, you can have their fees in different envelopes with their names on it so you don't get into any awkwardness with payment. When each is ready to leave at the end just hand him the envelope with his name on it.

[nate_sf]

Adriano's response is a good one. When I've been asked to participate in a three-way I've appreciated when I've been told who the other guy will be, so I know what to expect. Just send them links to each others' ads so they know who's who.

 

And yes, if you have a preference let them know who you want to do what with, and how. You're the client so it's your call. You can also just let it be spontaneous, but they're there to show you a good time so be sure to tell them what you like for yourself.

 

If they have different rates from each other, you can have their fees in different envelopes with their names on it so you don't get into any awkwardness with payment. When each is ready to leave at the end just hand him the envelope with his name on it.

[Bart]

Somewhere between 25%-33% of my outings, too many to count or remember, have been three-ways and a couple of 4-ways. Now mind you I have never done a mutiple person outing for anything less than 3 hours. Whether I have met them before or not, I always try to get 20-30 min alone with each. I have always love the dynamic of multi-person outing. I am a bottom, I do like a synergy between the gentlemen. Only twice have I felt things were not in sync, both multi-day appts and one was due to one of the gentlemen getting blitzed 1/2 through the outing and unable to perform following due to worshiping the porcelin god, the other long-time couple I had seen more than anyone else was one the outs and the outing went very well sexually but the ending was uncomfortable as the gentlemen were obviously not on the same page personally.

 

That said I am probably the odd ball as I like the other two people to get along sexually, just not when I am present. I have witnessed what should have been hot sex, in a porn flick yeah, in person my one major fault and the only time I am a really selfish bastard or bitch which ever you prefer, I want to be the center of attention and the one that gets fucked. If you still have energy to fuck I want to be the person to get fucked.

 

So relax and enjoy yourself, if you do want sexual energy between the two guys you should mention that to them so they are prepared and you dont catcch one of them off guard.

[rickp]

I have done several three ways and four ways with clients and they have all turned out to be wonderful experiences. I very rarely have known the other escorts before meeting them, although once and a while a client will ask me to recommend to third or fourth escort.

 

Usually what happens is the client will tell us either before hand by email or in person at the start of the session, what he expects as far as how we interact with each other and him. If you find that you're particularly getting along with one escort better than the other, try extending your time with him beyond the initial session after the first escort leaves.

 

3-ways, and even more so 4-ways can be very hot! Hope you enjoy it.