Are Any Really Nasty/Dishonest Clients Ever Blacklisted?

[bcohen7719]

Most of DR's aims at sharing the best of the escort world. Do escorts also share notes about clients who are just absolutely

nasty or dishonest or possibly unhinged....or does that break the rules of client confidentiality?

 

BC

 

[Note to "Anonymous": please hold back on sniping.

They are not funny, and this is too serious an issue.]

[+ Travis69]

The blog http://blacklistednow.blogspot.com.

[Guest MajorTomp]

During a recent escort visit we were discussing the anxiety a client feels in anticipation of meeting an escort for the first time. My escort told me that he always felt the same especially since he often doesn't know what to really expect fromthe client. I asked if there was any "references" ever provided between escorts? He told me that m4rn has a section in the escort login that allows escorts to comment on clients but it's not frequently used and when it is it is for warning of problem clients.

 

MT

[sincityboy2010]

I've been fortunate that all the clients I have met have been respectful and good guys. Sometimes Ill get someone thats really drunk, giving me the run around or maybe a little arrogant but for the most part I think clients want to have an enjoyable and memorable experience. Its all about Karma I guess... what you give out is exactly what you're gonna get!

[Guest countryboywny]

Its all about Karma I guess... what you give out is exactly what you're gonna get!

 

You hit the nail on the head, Chris.. amen!

[Decatur Guy]

 

Eventually the "client with the boy" cost me money. Especially since I was travelling, I had appreciated to know the "reliability" of this client in advance.

 

Warmest, Anton.

 

This is exactly why I don't book more than a few days in advance. It's difficult for me to promise someone that in three weeks, I'm absolutely sure I'll be free. People should be respectful of escorts' time.

 

I will sometimes tell an escort: Let's say it's Monday. I'm interested in 9 p.m. Saturday. But I can't commit to that time until Friday night. I'll suggest if he gets another client offer in the meanwhile, take it. And I'll add I know I'm taking my chances. I think that's fair to both parties.

[adriano46]

I have said things about this problem before.

 

I travel extensively, and am organized in my professional life, which spills over into mhy private life. I juggle many meetings in the course of a day, and my weekly calendar is filled often months in advance, but also the reality of the business I am in is that plans change - often at the last minute. This past winter, with weather, travel delays etc.., it has made my calendar book a mess already.

 

If I am going to a different city, I like to plan (and admittedly "reserve") a guy in advance as I am going out of my way to meet him, usually for the first time, and I want the meeting to go well. I e-mail my plans, and if he is willing to book that far in advance, then fine for me. If he says, "Call me when you arrive," I often pass him by unless something happens and my other plans are changed suddenly.

 

On the other side, I can understand completely what Anton said, and he has an extremely valid point -- most guys here take time to prepare for a meeting (an hour or so not counting time in the gym), and then to be blown off at the last minute, after penning you in, and turning away others, well it is not fair. I have occasionally had to do this, and in 90% of the cases, I have reimbursed the escort 50% or more of the fee (for my inability to come through with the plan). I know many clientsw would think me crazy (insane??) but I feel that I owe the man this money out of professional courtesy.

 

As long as we hire, and they accept hiring, these issues will continue. Which is why certain guys are amazing in their ability to "go with the flow" with such plans and are so professional and so affirming (guys such as Romann, Brad Hunt, Michael Vincenzo [admittedly I saw him a LONG time ago], Dane Scott, Rod Hagen [another one from a decade ago], Tyger, Jon Ramsey and one all-time favorite from way back, Joey C. from VA/DC/ etc... and others are always up there in my list of people to see).

[bobchitown]

What he said. I also travel a lot and sometimes things come up that intrude on my personal plans. If I know there is someone I would really like to see I'll also drop a note a few weeks in advance to say "will you be in town the week of xxx, I'd like to see if we can get together when I'm in town, would Thursday the 17th work for you??" If I get a response I say "Pencil me in and I'll call a week or so in advance". Sometimes when I call I get a "yep, we're all set" and sometimes a "huh?" I hardly ever cancel after I've made that call, but it does happen - missed flights, dinner I can't get out of, etc.

 

I had to "blacklist" someone who started stalking me - leaving mutiple angry e-mails and phone messages about how I shouldn't make plans and then cancel. I was like "what??", we never had a firm date and I told you over a week ahead of time that its wan't going to work out.

 

I think we should do a flowchart of "who's met whom" someday. adriano46's list heavily overlaps with mine.