411 on Fetish Needs Guy

[sfsexualhealing]

Does anyone have any information on this guy or had any experiences with him? He is new to m4rn in San Francisco/Oakland. Thank you.

 

http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=247264&Login=FetishNeeds

[Guest Spanker01]

Don't know anything about him. Obviously a SM/BD "top". If that is what you're looking for check him out. Just make sure if your fairly new to this that he is safe, sane, and consenual. I learned a long time ago that the "bottom is in control. And make sure he is willing to give you safe words. Finally, on your first time with him, you shgould not let him tei, or otherwise restrain you. Just some thoughts

 

Spanker

[whipped guy]

Great advice!

 

...I learned a long time ago that the "bottom is in control...

sfsexualhealing welcome and all Spanker's advice is right on target... and I have quoted the best line from that advice!!!! If you need to remember one aspect of BDSM it is that the "bottom rules"!

[Guest Spanker01]

Good evening, My typing is not the greatest, and in my prior post I was suggestioning that you do not let yourself be tied or restrained the first time out with someone. If you are a bottom, please take me seriously on that point. Good luck.

 

Spanker

[sfsexualhealing]

Thank you for your replies to my posting Spanker and whipped guy. I haven't heard back from him yet because he only communicates through e-mail so I will take these suggestions into account in the future.