A Point of Clarification...

[Okliehomo]

A couple of weeks ago, there was this thread on here about "Tops doing Tops"..... or something like that.

 

In it, a poster stated that he had hired Arpad Miklos and that Arpad "eagerly agreed" to bottom for him. Now, I found that WAY out of bounds for the Arpad that I hired years ago, but I thought, oh well, people change. Ridge was a total top, too back then but he has a review now that says that he offered to bottom as well... ??

 

Deal is.... I am in the process of setting up a visit. I mentioned that thread to Arpad and he said, "It's a lie". So, apparently, no policy change regarding the bottom bunk. No worries.... the man definitely has other exceptional skills and a very, very furry butt.

 

Just pointing out the discrepancy.

 

Okie

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A couple of weeks ago, there was this thread on here about "Tops doing Tops"..... or something like that.

 

In it, a poster stated that he had hired Arpad Miklos and that Arpad "eagerly agreed" to bottom for him. Now, I found that WAY out of bounds for the Arpad that I hired years ago, but I thought, oh well, people change. Ridge was a total top, too back then but he has a review now that says that he offered to bottom as well... ??

 

Deal is.... I am in the process of setting up a visit. I mentioned that thread to Arpad and he said, "It's a lie". So, apparently, no policy change regarding the bottom bunk. No worries.... the man definitely has other exceptional skills and a very, very furry butt.

 

Just pointing out the discrepancy.

 

Okie

[BaronArtz]

Human nature and experience will tell you that people engage in different acts with different people. Escorts as well. Nonetheless, the policy can remain in place.

 

That is exactly right. And that's why Arpad bottomed for me. Eagerly. I can understand why he needs to protect a certain 'image' out there as being the 'total top', but he is not.

[+ bigjoey]

I have had escorts do things with me that are not in the normal list of things they do. Sometimes, it just does happen when the "chemistry" is right. Also, since I tend to hire for overnights and weekends, familiarity helps. I have been asked not to put The exception in a review so others do not expect the same treatment.

[LookingAround]

Me too. A popular escort on this site who is reported to be a total top bottomed for me, and asked me not to disclose it on the board. Definitely happens. (It wasn't Arpad).

[Rick Munroe]

I have had escorts do things with me that are not in the normal list of things they do. I have been asked not to put The exception in a review so others do not expect the same treatment.

 

Exactly. For example, I will put on a pinafore and sing "On the Good Ship Lollipop," but it's not something I would do for every client, so on the rare occasions when I am persuaded to do it, I always ask that it not be made public. [Note: I have no idea what song Arpad would do.]

[Okliehomo]

So, you all are saying....

 

That there is a difference in what the guy might do one on one in the heat of the moment (or to make the outing a success )... than what the guy might do with 3 other escorts and an old guy with a camera in the room? Especially if the aforementioned old guy likes to write reviews with tedious detail?

 

Are you saying that such a well documented and potentially well publicized outing could represent to some a change in policy? Making said thing more rule than exception? And leading to other clients wanting to get to the bottom of things when that ain't on the daily menu butt rather more of a blue plate special?

 

Hmmm. Seems to be a matter of deniability, no? And protecting one's own ass, so to speak.

 

That makes sense to me.....

 

I wonder how the guy would feel about the pinafore? And I could have the new Adele-addicted David sing "Rolling in the deep"... since he apparently, won't be... in the.... ummmm .... guy. Deep, I mean.

 

Okie

[JackTwist]

Human nature and experience will tell you that people engage in different acts with different people. Escorts as well. Nonetheless, the policy can remain in place.

 

Jackster, I've had the same experience a couple of times with "total tops" who bottomed for me but didn't want to be known as a bottom (note: neither of them were Arpad). Interestingly, on the other hand, an "exclusive bottom" escort I hired recently told me during our pillow-talk that he tops some clients who request it but it's on a case-by-case basis. He said he didn't promote himself as "versatile" since it might obligate him to try to top someone when he perhaps couldn't get IT up or hard enough to fuck.

[runthemhoes]

hmmm. i'm inclined to believe a member of our philanthropic brotherhood rather than an ...ahem...vendor.

[Guest countryboywny]

I have had escorts do things with me that are not in the normal list of things they do. Sometimes, it just does happen when the "chemistry" is right. Also, since I tend to hire for overnights and weekends, familiarity helps. I have been asked not to put The exception in a review so others do not expect the same treatment.

 

This is why I steer away from graphic details in my reviews. I think a lot depends on "chemistry" and comfort level of the escort and client.

[instudiocity]

Love it! Philanthropist Okliehomo! Not to mention Videographer Extraordinaire!

 

hmmm. i'm inclined to believe a member of our philanthropic brotherhood rather than an ...ahem...vendor.

[Diverdan]

I have to agree that a lot depends on chemistry and the passion of the moment. I have had both experiences where someone says he is only a top, but then loved being a bottom, and the reverse has also been my experience. In one situation it was a three way where I had one guy who was well known as a top and one who was well known as a bottom. Before our session was over they had also reversed roles. It was clear that the chemistry was superb and the occasion lent itself to a "sharing" of roles. My advise is always to have a good time and not worry about roles... just see what develops and enjoy.

[seeker630]

This is why I steer away from graphic details in my reviews. I think a lot depends on "chemistry" and comfort level of the escort and client.

 

I agree that chemistry is important, and we can't assume that our experience will replicate that of a reviewer. However, a review that doesn't give some details of what actually occurred seems to me to be of llimited use. For many of us, there are certain activities that are necessary for a satisfying session, and we need some assurances they are likely to occur in a satisfactory manner.

 

An escort may be incredibly good-looking and have a wonderful personality, but in most cases, unless something sexual happens, we are going to be disappointed (unless we only hired for non-physical interaction.) And not all of us are totally versatile.

[Okliehomo]

Pretty sure....

 

That the member of the "philanthropic" brotherhood who deserved to me believed wasn't me... but instead, Baron.

 

My last post was just coming around to his way of thinking.

 

Okie

[Gar1eth]

Exactly. For example, I will put on a pinafore and sing "On the Good Ship Lollipop," but it's not something I would do for every client, so on the rare occasions when I am persuaded to do it, I always ask that it not be made public. [Note: I have no idea what song Arpad would do.]

 

Rick,

 

If I could get you to take a request-- I'd much prefer 'My Heart Belongs To Daddy' in honor of-- well who else-- DADDY!!!

 

Gman

[Rick Munroe]

I'd much prefer 'My Heart Belongs To Daddy' in honor of-- well who else-- DADDY!!!

 

That's a bit before my time. Can I do "Sugar Daddy" instead? It's more appropriate to this site, too!

 

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