How regular are you?

[gcursor]

SO I am curious..how do you get to be a "regular" customer with somebody? Is it something that comes up on the first, third or tenth time? and what if the person you want to hire is super busy...so then are you a regular every 6 to 12 months? Then are you called a "semi-permanent" regular? as opposed to an "irregular stranger"?

 

Is there a type of code that should be used to show that we're REALLY interested in future visits or is it just something that gets worked out in future emails, phone calls and/or further visits? i mean are there little signs to watch out for in the emails, calls, etc? Something like "HEY...I REALLY LIKED OUR TIME TOGETHER! LET'S DO IT AGAIN ANYTIME!, OKAY?!?!"

 

gcursor

[JT Brooklyn]

The same as in being a "Regular" in ANY Service Industry! IF you like your "Shopping Exprience" you keep going back for more!

 

Most "Working Guys" due like Regulars due to the fact The RENT has to be Paid Reguarly especially in a City like New York where it ain't cheap even with a Roomate!

[Mark450]

I don't think there is any set frequency that would qualify someone as a "regular". I do think you may not be a regular if your escort has to ask "who are you again?"

[ChiTown]

Hoe regular are you?

 

I don't think there is any set frequency that would qualify someone as a "regular". I do think you may not be a regular if your escort has to ask "who are you again?"

 

I'm quite regular thank you. I've found that a high fiber diet works best for me. Lol

[Juan Vancouver]

How do you get to be a "regular" customer with somebody?

 

It's really simple: Book appointments regularly and show up every time you book. It's no rocket science.

 

 

Is there a type of code that should be used to show that we're REALLY interested in future visits? Something like "HEY...I REALLY LIKED OUR TIME TOGETHER! LET'S DO IT AGAIN ANYTIME!, OKAY?!?!"

 

If in his first email to me a guy starts by saying that he is looking for a regular, that we will meet very often and that he will shower me in all manner of outrageously luxurious gifts, I know for sure that the second part of his email will be an elaborate request for a huge discount, considering that he is such a great regular.

 

In many years of escorting I have always had trouble actually meeting any of these gentlemen because I will not give a discount to my future "regulars". From the few that have finally broken down and met me at full rate, none of those have ever come back.

 

I have a very high percentage of clients who become regulars and I have nurtured such relationships for many years.

 

True regular clients are simple to book, easy to follow up, show in time, respect our agreement and never, ever demand more than they have requested. True regulars NEVER promise future appointments or try to negotiate anything based on a possible sustained long relationship.

 

Now, if you tell me "we should do this anytime, OK?", aside from being a lovely nicety, this has absolutely no extra weight to me: since I can't pick up the phone and ask you to have an appointment, this amounts to the same as promising future appointments.

 

Book again, show up, respect the agreement and focus on the present session. Then you are a regular.

 

And again, this is the way in which I operate, it is very possible that someone else will do things differently.

[BaronArtz]

I'm quite regular thank you. I've found that a high fiber diet works best for me. Lol

 

That's exactly what I was thinking when I read this. Prunes for breakfast help a lot with that ...

[+ bigjoey]

I see one currently active escort for at least a weekend every month and have missed only one month because I was traveling in Asia: I have been seeing him for a year. I see a second retired escort for a second weekend each month: I have been seeing him for six years. The remaining two weekends I normally rotate between some old favorites and occasionally try a new man. If I travel to a city, I will usually tryout some new men but have trouble working them into rotation.

[uwsman2]

It's great to have the money for such frequent hiring. I have somebody I see in NY two or three times a year, and have done so, more or less, for the past several years. I don't know if he considers me a regular, but whenever we see each other it is like re-connecting with a friend. There are two traveling escorts who I see maybe once a year - sometimes twice - when they come through NYC. I don't know if they consider me a regular, but again there is no need for re-introduction and everything always goes smoothly, and we greet each other as old friends. In both cases, these relationships go back several years.

[bcohen7719]

GCursor:

 

Without prying too much, were you hypothesizing that you like--or might like--one escort/companion so much that you wanted "more" than a business relationship?

 

This has always been a fear of mine: I might meet up with some guy who was just "too much."

 

BC

[gtx1]

Giddy today?

 

I'm quite regular thank you. I've found that a high fiber diet works best for me. Lol

 

ChiTown,

 

You really are giddy today, aren't you? Can't say I blame you!

[gcursor]

BC:

nope...I know what the relationship is. I know the boundaries. Although the illusion can sometimes become so real that you can taste it, it's still an extension of a fantastic dream....but what amazing dreams they can be at times! this is just how I feel though.

 

GCursor:

 

Without prying too much, were you hypothesizing that you like--or might like--one escort/companion so much that you wanted "more" than a business relationship?

 

This has always been a fear of mine: I might meet up with some guy who was just "too much."

 

BC

[leigh.bess.toad]

I'm quite regular thank you. I've found that a high fiber diet works best for me. Lol

 

I was waiting for someone to go there. Thanks ChiTown

[Guest Magnus]

I often hire the same out of town guys when they come through New York. I don't know if they consider me a regular, but I always get an email from them telling me when they will be coming through. I imagine that they send the same email to all their NY "regulars". Even though I don't always see them when they come through, I still get the emails.

I also tend to hire for longer appointments and overnights, and I find that most of the guys I rehire remember me even if I only hire them 2-3 times a year. So in my experience, I don't really have a clear answer for you.