"Watch your wallet"--what exactly did everyone mean?

[bcohen7719]

I'm still a relative newbie, except for one first experience, which was excellent, thanks to wonderful advice from some terrific guys on this forum. At the outset at being introduced to this world, however, numerous commentators cautioned: "Watch your wallet." Not to throw timber on any flames--what did everyone mean? Was this

intended to be prudent advice about one's personal budget, or watch out for certain types of escorts? I tend to be a "soft touch"

financially, to be honest, so any advice would be appreciated.

 

Thanks again, guys! Help out a newbie, and that gates of heaven shall be opened for you.

 

Best wishes,

 

BC

[Guest Merlin]

It is a good idea to hide your wallet and other valuables when you are with an escort. In my experience, most are honest, but it is best not to tempt them. I usually have the payment cash available so I do not need to get out my wallet. If the room has a safe, I use it.

[bcohen7719]

It is a good idea to hide your wallet and other valuables when you are with an escort. In my experience, most are honest, but it is best not to tempt them. I usually have the payment cash available so I do not need to get out my wallet. If the room has a safe, I use it.

 

That's all everyone meant? Jeez, now I'm embarrassed.

Thanks, Merlin2!

 

BC

[leigh.bess.toad]

That's all everyone meant? Jeez, now I'm embarrassed.

Thanks, Merlin2!

 

BC

 

Don't be embarrassed bc. In spite of the error of old adage that there are no stupid questions (yes, there really are some stupid ones) yours was a perfectly valid and good question. The thought that any of the guys that I hire would be a risk to me like that is a bit preposterous, given that I have only hired well reviewed guys (every one of them was mentioned somewhere in the Escort of the Year list). But I can also see where it is wise advice just to be sure.

[Guest greatness]

Good question

 

I agree with Lee. You don't have to be embarrassed. I believe there is no stupid question. The forum is here to share information not to discourage it. Anyways, I had no problems with any escort that I've hired even with those escorts not reviewed. Hugs~~~

 

 

Don't be embarrassed bc. In spite of the error of old adage that there are no stupid questions (yes, there really are some stupid ones) yours was a perfectly valid and good question. The thought that any of the guys that I hire would be a risk to me like that is a bit preposterous, given that I have only hired well reviewed guys (every one of them was mentioned somewhere in the Escort of the Year list). But I can also see where it is wise advice just to be sure.

[Guest GQ Pro]

I think it's a great idea to hide your wallet when an escort arrives. On the flip side of that, as an escort I always leave my wallet in my car. When I'm doing an outcall, I like to shower before I leave. Therefore, I feel safer if I leave my wallet hidden in my car.

I was recently with a new client. After we were done he wanted to shower before me. While he was in the shower, I noticed a bunch of his credit cards and bundle of cash in clear view on a night stand. I didn't think this was very bright on his part. After he got out of the shower, I told him that in the future he may want to hide his credit cards and bundle of cash when he hires an escort again.

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[Guest Magnus]

I agree with Lee, there is no stupid question. The forum is here to share information not to discourage it. Anyways, I had no problems with any escort that I've hired even with those escorts not reviewed. Hugs~~~

 

Actually, I thought Leigh WAS saying that there are stupid question, but that this was not one.

 

Don't be embarrassed bc. In spite of the error of old adage that there are no stupid questions (yes, there really are some stupid ones) yours was a perfectly valid and good question.

 

My question is what do you do when you go to an escort's place? I generally take a cab there so I don't have a car to leave me wallet in.

[josephga]

I always had my massage clients undress in the bathroom. once on the table i never left their side for the whole massage. that way if they shower they are still in the room with their money. iv heard storys of escorts and masseurs going through clients pockets. iv heard storys of females having the client shower first then go through their wallet looking for id making sure they arnt cops

[Guest greatness]

Oops error on my part. I edited my post. Anyways, I trust escorts I hire. If they steal my credit cards then I can just report them stolen and I am not liable for anything. If they steal my cash then I won't hire them any more. I will just trust an escort rather than trying to hide my wallet. You don't go to a professional hair salon and hide your wallet or anything. I think the possibility of my wallet being stolen is not that high.

 

Actually, I thought Leigh WAS saying that there are stupid question, but that this was not one.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I believe there is no stupid question.

 

G - I do believe there are stupid quesitons because I've learned never to underestimate the ability of the human race to contemplate the truly ridculous. From a website devoted to them, here are a few:

 

If a cow laughs really hard, does milk come out of it's nose?

What is the speed of dark?

What happened to the first 6 Ups?

What happens to an 18 hour bra after 18 hours?

What happens if you take a No-Doze and wash it down with a Nyquil?

After they make Styrofoam, what do they ship it in?

Why do they call it quicksand if it sucks you down slowly?

Why do they put Braille dots on the keypad of the drive up ATM?

If peanut butter cookies are made from peanut butter, what are Girl Scout cookies made of?

What is a synonym for Thesaurus?

Whose cruel idea was it for the word "Lisp" to have an "S" in it?

If toast always lands buttered side up and a cat always lands on its feet, what would happen if you strapped a piece of buttered toast onto a a cat's back and dropped it?

 

See, there really are some stupid questions. A whole slew of them.

[adriano46]

Really funny Leigh - you are a true quintessential Southern Gentleman, and a pleasure to meet here over and over here!

 

On the original question, my experience is the following:

 

1) Know clearly what the fee your escort expects - no negotiation on price and acts after he enters the apartment - EVER!!!!

 

2) Have the agreed-upon fee out clearly on a table or in a nice envelope clearly marked. I sometimes even fan the bills so if he has a quick eye, he can see it is ALL there.

 

3) Then make SURE your wallet, and anything else with your name on it such as your agenca book, suitcase tags etc are all put away; when one of you showers the other is roaming the room and can see things, even inadvertently. I trust all escorts implicitly, but as the adage goes, "Trust but verify!" Mine is "Trust, and leave nothing that could tempt one to distrust"!

 

4) I have a way of hiding some extra $$$ in case I want to tip (see the many many threads on that topic), never more than $20-$50. I can reach for this (or refrain from reaching for it) without giving an idea where all the rest of my $$$ is hidden.

 

So "watch your wallet" to me has different levels of meaning. Be careful also in the throes of the hot moment from wanting to throw even more $$$ at the god on your bed, couch, divan, shower - who has given you such a wonderous release and satisfaction. No need to also give him your 401 K too, unles he is a virgin you have deflowered and now wish to make a decent gentleman out of him...

[CF]

It is unfortunate that this thread is a necessity, but let's be honest, with all the good there are elements of bad.

When choosing an escort, I have been very cautious in reading posts and reviews. However, I also realize that this can't always be the case. Sometimes a leap of faith is necessary if you find someone new or not reviewed extensively. At these times, I try to rely on my street smarts to feel thru that person thru emails and conversation.

Luckily, I have never encountered a problem with an escort. I also am one that does not hide my wallet. In saying that, I guess I just am trusting enough to believe in a persons integrity until they give me a reason to doubt. CF

[Guest Bauer]

I'm still a relative newbie, except for one first experience, which was excellent, thanks to wonderful advice from some terrific guys on this forum. At the outset at being introduced to this world, however, numerous commentators cautioned: "Watch your wallet." Not to throw timber on any flames--what did everyone mean? Was this

intended to be prudent advice about one's personal budget, or watch out for certain types of escorts?

I thought it meant to know the price of everything and the value of same.

 

Somehow two rentboys @ 250 can be much more rewarding than one @ 350.

 

Your mileage may, of course, vary.

[Guest greatness]

well

 

My southern gentleman... You have a point. For this question "What is the speed of dark? ",however, there is something called dark matter in the universe.. It might be a valid question if we can identify what this dark matter actually is.. It might be traveling who knows? I get a lot of strange questions from children but I never consider them stupid though. I sometimes spend a lot of time answering their silly questions. I bet you did that your son too. So did I convince you that at least not all stupid questions are actually stupid? Hugs~~~

 

G - I do believe there are stupid quesitons because I've learned never to underestimate the ability of the human race to contemplate the truly ridculous. From a website devoted to them, here are a few:

 

If a cow laughs really hard, does milk come out of it's nose?

What is the speed of dark?

What happened to the first 6 Ups?

What happens to an 18 hour bra after 18 hours?

What happens if you take a No-Doze and wash it down with a Nyquil?

After they make Styrofoam, what do they ship it in?

Why do they call it quicksand if it sucks you down slowly?

Why do they put Braille dots on the keypad of the drive up ATM?

If peanut butter cookies are made from peanut butter, what are Girl Scout cookies made of?

What is a synonym for Thesaurus?

Whose cruel idea was it for the word "Lisp" to have an "S" in it?

If toast always lands buttered side up and a cat always lands on its feet, what would happen if you strapped a piece of buttered toast onto a a cat's back and dropped it?

 

See, there really are some stupid questions. A whole slew of them.

[Edward]

Just a though. When I travel, weather going to a bar or meeting someone. I carry a few bills to cover the evenings entertainment. Never a wallet. One form of ID and a credit card with a low credit limit. I usually carry the these cards in my shoe or boot. Worst situation, I can afford to lose a couple of bills. Or a credit card with a low balance. However, a credit card with a large limit or idnitity theft I want to avoid at all costs. Dont flash cash or invite trouble.

[+ glutes]

With any stranger, you should be careful with your possessions.

A thread from 7 years ago:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?54215-Would-you-like-to-take-a-shower&highlight=shower