"Pushing limits" means....?

[bcohen7719]

When an escort/companion is described as "excellent in pushing limits," what exactly does that mean in practice, both physically and psychologically?

[+ deej]

It depends on both the escort and the client.

 

I'd imagine with some first-time clients getting their pants off is "pushing limits".

 

There is no firm definition here.

[NYTomcat]

It depends on both the escort and the client.

 

I'd imagine with some first-time clients getting their pants off is "pushing limits".

 

There is no firm definition here.

 

Oh hell yes is DEEJ right on that one. My first hire a good limit pushing was getting me to uncross my arms. Forget getting the pants off LOL

 

That same companion (Now thats a term I like BC) now pushes my limits with things such as a tens machine... LOL God only knows what limits we will push with a week long vacation (but I will let you know in April )

[+ Ace]

To me, "pushing limits" is taking the client further than he's been before either because of a lack of experience, or because of the limits he sets for himself... It can be as simple as a hot passionate kiss (with a married guy who has never kissed another man before, for example), OR getting fisted when the guy has only taken a few fingers previously...It's definition (to me), is as individual as each client is.

[bcohen7719]

That's very, very funny. My own "limit" was answering the first phone call--I wasn't

even able to do that. I didn't think of it as a limit, but it was. Thanks, Deej, for putting this in

wise perspective.

 

BC

[bcohen7719]

It depends on both the escort and the client.

 

I'd imagine with some first-time clients getting their pants off is "pushing limits".

 

There is no firm definition here.

 

Deej: By accident, I posted my reply 2 or 3 items below, saying how wise this

was. Thanks so much for putting things in perspective...

 

BC

[justaguy]

"My own "limit" was answering the first phone call--I wasn't even able to do that. I didn't think of it as a limit, but it was. "

 

The real upside: Remember how nervous but excited you were about making that first phone call? Well, as you grow in your confidence and range of experiences, there will always be something else, a new limit, another 'I don't know if I can/should do this'. If you think about it, you're looking at a whole lot of firsts :-). Not that I would be speaking from personal experience, but be sure to keep an eye on your bank account while you're busy exploring new things :-).

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

When an escort/companion is described as "excellent in pushing limits," what exactly does that mean in practice, both physically and psychologically?

 

In my limited experience, an escort who has "pushed my limits" was able to interpret my unspoken desires and lead me to something wonderful. Or based on what I've described as enjoyable activities in the past, one who suggests a new activity that I would immediately decline, but with his encouragement and expression of support is able to help me relax and try the new activity - usually to my great pleasure.

[ChiTown]

Sam,

 

I just noticed your handle. I'm probably not the first to ask this, but does Patrick also fit Sam?

[bcohen7719]

"My own "limit" was answering the first phone call--I wasn't even able to do that. I didn't think of it as a limit, but it was. "

 

The real upside: Remember how nervous but excited you were about making that first phone call? Well, as you grow in your confidence and range of experiences, there will always be something else, a new limit, another 'I don't know if I can/should do this'. If you think about it, you're looking at a whole lot of firsts :-). Not that I would be speaking from personal experience, but be sure to keep an eye on your bank account while you're busy exploring new things :-).

 

Justaguy:

 

This happened to me, too! And, with my own first time coming up, what in God's

name explains this nervousness? Remember when you were in grade school and

had to get an innoculation or shot for the first time? It seems very similar....

 

Best wishes,

 

BC

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

:o

Sam,

 

I just noticed your handle. I'm probably not the first to ask this, but does Patrick also fit Sam?

 

You are the first to ask. And yes, that was the first 'pushing limits' experience for me. :o

[ChiTown]

:o

 

You are the first to ask. And yes, that was the first 'pushing limits' experience for me. :o

 

Very funny and subtle. Possible more subtle than I thought if I'm the first to comment.

[bobchitown]

There is no firm definition here.

 

LOL

 

For the client, it can certainly mean doing something that wasn't previously expected. I remember one very persuasive escort who had me blindfolded and tied up while he teased me with I don't know what all. Very hot, and very much pushing the limit for me.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Just go get laid and enjoy!

[orbital sander]

Pushing the limit for me is adding sliced bananas to my morning bran flakes...

[bcohen7719]

LOL

 

For the client, it can certainly mean doing something that wasn't previously expected. I remember one very persuasive escort who had me blindfolded and tied up while he teased me with I don't know what all. Very hot, and very much pushing the limit for me.

 

GOOD ANSWER! Thanks for this one!

 

BC

[hunkymuscles]

I've found that depending upon the client, it can mean many different things. I've had clients who have never been with a man before, that was defintely pushing limits. For the most part, I've found that clients may have some sort of fantasy or want to try something new sexually and are afraid to talk to their b/f or partner about it. They seem more comfortable contacting an escort instead. I enjoy helping clients pushing thier limits. That's one of the things that is exciting about escorting.

 

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