What exactly is....

[bcohen7719]

What exactly is a "Boy Friend Experience"? Does this mean an escort provides role-playing for a limited or extended period of time, or does it mean a certain kind of intimacy, or something else?

 

BC (still a newcomer)

 

P.S. to Moderator: yes, I tried looking up both "BFE" and

"Boy Friend Experience" using the blank data field with the

magnifying class to the right. Usually this works, but

not this time.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey BC,

 

I hate to be the one who delivers this answer and I hope you won't hate me for this, but the only answer is:

 

It depends.

 

There are as many different interpretations of that term as there's people using it:

 

For some it means everything but kink, for others it means holding hands and being romantic, for some others it means being with someone who doesn't put out and is nagging and moody, (I am not kidding), for some it means going out on a date for theatre, candlelit dinner and then succumbing to the throes of passion, for some others it means an extensive call that not only includes sex, for some it actually means pretending that you are boyfriends, introducing the escort to other people as a make believe partner, for heterosexual escorts it means kissing their clients and letting them penetrate them vaginally...

 

The overall meaning of it is definitely the idea of a session or a series of sessions that will lay more heavily on the intimate, sweet, romantic, emotional side of the spectrum rather than on the merely carnal one.

 

I hope this helps.

[instudiocity]

Hey BC,

 

I hate to be the one who delivers this answer and I hope you won't hate me for this, but the only answer is:

Boyfriend, that was PERFECT!

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

It all Depends

 

What exactly is a "Boy Friend Experience"? Does this mean an escort provides role-playing for a limited or extended period of time, or does it mean a certain kind of intimacy, or something else?

 

BC (still a newcomer)

 

P.S. to Moderator: yes, I tried looking up both "BFE" and

"Boy Friend Experience" using the blank data field with the

magnifying class to the right. Usually this works, but

not this time.

 

Could be what Juan described. Or if you live in a trailer park - it could be a guy in dirty boxers and a

 

sweaty wife-beater resting a can of beer on the top of your head as he skulls fucks your head

 

which is wedged into the corner of the kitchen cabinets -- while he smacks your face with the other hand

 

and says "Gag on it Bitch!" or so I've read.

[+ deej]

Yeah, not surprised BFE doesn't turn up much in a search. It has a slightly more colorful history around here.

 

You might, instead, search for the term "whammer" or "charmer". There's quite extensive discussion around those two.

[Diverdan]

Communication is always the key. If you are looking for a "boyfriend experience" you should have a discussion with your potential companion about what you are looking for, what you expect the time to be like and ask him if that is something he likes to do or can do. I find I have a much better time with my companions if I am very explicit to start with, as it prevents misunderstanding on both sides of the transaction. So, BC, decide what YOU want from the encounter and then you should not have much trouble finding what you want. I also agree with what Juan has put so well, but IMHO it still comes down to open and honest communication in advance. Good luck in finding what you want.

DD

[bcohen7719]

Yeah, not surprised BFE doesn't turn up much in a search. It has a slightly more colorful history around here.

 

You might, instead, search for the term "whammer" or "charmer". There's quite extensive discussion around those two.

 

Deej/Administrator:

 

Many thanks. I just did as you suggest. Those discussions

now scare the hell out of me.

 

BC

[Michael Wayne]

Juan is 100% correct. talk and make sure you are on the same page because the term can mean so many different things. I will tell you one funny story that actually happened to me last october . A Lady called me and told me she had just broken up with her fiance but was so devastated that she was not ready to tell any of her family or friends. She had an important social setting that night (no notice) and that she did a nationwide search of male escorts and I was a dead ringer for her bf- almost an identical twin. I literally had to stand in as him for 3 hours that night and act a little drunk so if I forgot details of her life it would not be obvious. I pulled it off and no one had A clue. It involved no sex at all and when we were done she cried on my shoulder at a gay bar and I walked her back to her hotel. That is the closest thing to a true boyfriend experience as I have ever provided. Good thing I went to acting school years ago. I thought I had seen it all................http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[instudiocity]

Could be what Juan described. Or if you live in a trailer park - it could be a guy in dirty boxers and a sweaty wife-beater resting a can of beer on the top of your head as he skulls fucks your head which is wedged into the corner of the kitchen cabinets -- while he smacks your face with the other hand and says "Gag on it Bitch!" or so I've read.

Sounds HOT! "Trailer-Trash" the movie.

[hunkymuscles]

"What exactly is a "Boy Friend Experience"? Does this mean an escort provides role-playing for a limited or extended period of time, or does it mean a certain kind of intimacy, or something else?"

 

 

I've had several clients request the "boyfriend experience." From my experience they are looking for something more than just good hardcore sex. They want to be treated a little special. More passion, body contact, kissing, saying nice things to make them feel good, etc. I very much enjoy providing that for my clients who request it...It provides something a little more to the session.

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