Payment rituals....?

[NYTomcat]

Ok BC. You have gotten every possible advice on this topic. I happen to favor the envelope with his name on it left very obviously on the desk. Sometime I even say a here you go. As much as I would like to find the ebb and flow of cash like a kiss that Juan describes.... I don't. Truly wish I did. Its the dirty little secret I don't cherish and that I have to forget about as I go into a Bfe fantasy. Perhaps if I just hired for wild blatant sex the cash and payment might be a turn on even. But for the Bfe... not so much. I only hire the well respected and reviewed so payment up front. Never an issue for me. But if it became one I'd live with it. A. Risk im willing to take.

 

Now of anything I can say. Its simply relax and enjoy and be clear with him now... in advance what your expectations are. Ohyeah. And try to keep those expectations withinreason. Then after you have hadthe escorting cherry popped. For God sake meet us all out at c20 or le boyz and regale us with the tale.... or tail. Whatever your poison.

 

Btw sleep-overs are for pajamas. Overnights are for sex. Just a little terminology tweak

[bcohen7719]

NYTomcat:

 

Not only do you give the best practical advice, you saved my dignity! I had no idea what "sleepover' meant. Thank God you sent in this response. I'd love to socialize, but alas I have some chronic pain problems with my neck & back that prevent me from going outside that much. But I'm going to give my "first" everything upfront, because he has been so very generous with his own kindness. To tell you the awful truth--some alternative contacts had not been this way. This website, and persons like yourself, have been an encyclopedia of knowledge that I don't think is appreciated by the outside world.

 

With my warmest regards,

 

BC

[NYTomcat]

Well then pick a Thursday. I will bring Chinese and we can bullshit over dinner before I head out to monster or splash.

[hunkymuscles]

I don't think there are really any set rules. I know some escorts always insist upon payment as they arrive.

As long as I get the payment at somepoint, I usually leave it up to the client to decide. It seems as if most clients perfer giving it to me as I'm about to leave. There are a few who leave it in plain view for me to see and will hand it to be as I leave. No matter what though, I've been fortunate and never have had a problem as far as payment goes.

Rex

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[BaronArtz]

Interesting topic. There are obviously no right or wrong answers, every situation is different. As an agressive top, I have a strong preference not to be 'delicate' about the payment ritual. I SLAP the escort on his ass right when I am done, then throw the $20 bills on the bed saying something like 'good girl' (or worse). Sort of enhances the 'mood' of the session.