What's the best way to upgrade from....?

[bcohen7719]

I read on several posts that most escorts/companions also advertise erotic massage services, at a lower rate. Suppose the massage is so galvanizing that the client loses control.

 

How do you ask if you could "upgrade" from economy to first class, without seeming insulting?

 

BC

[orbital sander]

I would guess that you would just ask, and I am sure this is something that the guy is used to. If he is insulted, then he is in the wrong business. I cannot speak for others, but I would guess that if things seem to be getting more "serious" he may take the cue and ask you before you can ask him. If he has the time and is ready to accommodate whatever "activities" you may want to engage in, it will mean more $$ for him...Sound like a win win to me.

[josephga]

I think it depends. If you hire an escort just for a massage at a lower rate then you decide you want to up grade and pay extra I doubt they would be very upset . Now If you ask someone that gives massage and their ads say nothing about escorting on them Id suggest asking them when you call to make the appointment if they also offer escorting. If they say no then there you go. imo it would be less embarrassing to get a no on the phone than a no on the table. Iv actually had people get all pissy and bitchy on the table after hearing the word no. I think its maybe easier to except on the phone.

[happyguy2]

When I was young and starting hiring, a guy had ads for both massage and escorting in South Florida . I hired him and he was very exciting and I guess I got carried away and simply said "I consider this another service" and we ! The irony is that, as I have written before, now I am in my forties and almost never seek anything but an erotic massage.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

When I was young and starting hiring, a guy had ads for both massage and escorting in South Florida .

 

That is exactly how I hired my first escort 18 months ago. I had hired two massuers previously and was not confident about my decision to move on to a more personal service. I felt that if at the time of the massage appointment I wanted to take it further, I could ask and know that he wouldn't be insulted. When he showed up for the massage, I decided to ask for more and all went well.