Any way to make a positive note about clients?

[Decatur Guy]

The review system is all one way -- clients reviewing escorts. You rarely see an escort responding to a good review -- it's overwhelming the negative ones that get a response back from the escort.

 

Now I understand that there are probably lots of cases where the client had a great time and it wasn't all that much or actually unpleasant for the escort. But if the client had a great time and the escort found the client to be exceptionally trustworthy, dependable, personable or even hot, I was wondering why not give a quick positive nod back to the client in the response section?

 

Am I off-base here, but wouldn't that be good for potential return business for the escort if the client knew the escort thought well of the encounter as well?

 

(It's not exactly the biggest ego-building experience to get to the point in your life that you're spending good money for sex that used to come your way for free. I'd be thrilled to know the escort thought something positive of me as well, even if it's just "I hope we connect again." While I've found the escorts I've hired to be very much into to my sexual needs, none of them seem to get this aspect of it.)

 

And wouldn't it help other escorts assess the worthiness of a new client to see that other established escorts have given someone the thumbs-up?

 

So from the escort's POV, why so few responses to a good review?

[jimboivyo]

in my experience, a great escort always sends a letter of thanks to his client after the meeting. I don't need to make it a public thing, but a nice follow up email from the guy I saw always makes me feel as if it was a mutually enjoyable experience.

[Guest greatness]

A very good idea but I'm not sure how it is possible without revealing client's personal information? How can other escorts identify the client without his face pic?

[Guest greatness]

Yes a nice follow up letters will be nice. It is always appreciated~~~

 

in my experience, a great escort always sends a letter of thanks to his client after the meeting. I don't need to make it a public thing, but a nice follow up email from the guy I saw always makes me feel as if it was a mutually enjoyable experience.

[josephga]

I use to send my massage clients afollow up note. the ones i had emails for, just something quick just a line or 2

[+ Charlie]

I may be mistaken about the procedure here, but I was under the impression that Daddy only contacts the escort if there is a negative review, and asks him for a response, which would explain why most of the escort responses are to negative reviews.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Decatur Guy -- A few points that have sort of been touched on I'd like to talk about. First, every escort I've been with and any one worth his salt would not talk about a good client to another escort. First of all, it is excessively bad form -- you are going to these guys for confidentiality. I'm paying for that, I'm expecting that, I sure don't want my name tossed around "EscortLand" even if it is to say "Lee is the best fuck I've had in years" (well it would be, but that's another thread <kidding>). Second, who would they tell and how would they tell? Would there be some sort of centralized database for clients like there is here for escorts -- Mommy's reviews where escorts talk about clients. How would they match up who escort A sees as Abraham and escort B sees as Martin and escort C sees as John as the same person? I usually tell my escorts my real name -- well I always have up until now and I don't plan on stopping. But I don't know if I'm the odd duck or not. I would imagine, though, that not every client gives the escort his real name. So how would escort A know to tell escort C that his client Abraham will be coming to him as a new client and will be known by the name of John? Logistically it wouldn't work. Remember, the escorts need us to hire them so they can't be changing their name with every hire. Clients can change it with every hire if they hire someone new every time. And escort C would have no way of knowing before his encounter with John that he was in fact escort A's Abraham.

 

Now as far as what the escort tells his client, as the others have said, I have NEVER had an encounter where I did not receive an email or, more typically, a text message, usually within an hour or two after the end of the encounter, thanking me for the encounter, saying they hoped to see me again soon, mentioning something specific about me and the encounter and saying that I was the best fuck they'd had in years and to come right back -- they wanted more :) . {I hope you alll can take a joke}. Seriously, every single one of the escorts I have ever been with have sent me a kind and gracious note, using whatever medium of communication they chose, to convey their appreciation for the encounter and their hope for the continuation of the relationship in the future. One escort in particular sent me an e-card a day or two later with a 4 or 5 paragraph individualized note that was obviously heartfelt and well-thought out. I still look at that card and it brings back very very fond memories of a wonderful evening with a magnificent gentleman. Do you think I'd hire that guy again? You bet your life (next month actually).

 

I think I see where you are trying to go with this -- to prevent escorts from being nervous about new clients lilke the dickwad that Michael Vincenzo ran into (and discussed on the another thread). But as of now, there is, as I see it, now way possible for any such system to work. And given the confidentiality explicit and implicit in the relationship between an escort and the client, I don't see how there ever could be.

[KMEM]

The review system is all one way -- clients reviewing escorts. You rarely see an escort responding to a good review -- it's overwhelming the negative ones that get a response back from the escort.

 

Now I understand that there are probably lots of cases where the client had a great time and it wasn't all that much or actually unpleasant for the escort. But if the client had a great time and the escort found the client to be exceptionally trustworthy, dependable, personable or even hot, I was wondering why not give a quick positive nod back to the client in the response section?

 

Am I off-base here, but wouldn't that be good for potential return business for the escort if the client knew the escort thought well of the encounter as well?

 

(It's not exactly the biggest ego-building experience to get to the point in your life that you're spending good money for sex that used to come your way for free. I'd be thrilled to know the escort thought something positive of me as well, even if it's just "I hope we connect again." While I've found the escorts I've hired to be very much into to my sexual needs, none of them seem to get this aspect of it.)

 

And wouldn't it help other escorts assess the worthiness of a new client to see that other established escorts have given someone the thumbs-up?

 

So from the escort's POV, why so few responses to a good review?

 

A good review is its' own reward because repeat business and new business follow a good review. No matter how pleasant or friendly, escorts are engaged in a business. A service is what they provide and money is what they get in return. Any thing else is icing on the cake for both the client and the escort. Icing is nice but doesn't spend nearly as well as cash.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest greatness]

I agree 100%.

 

"Lee is the best fuck I've had in years" (well it would be, but that's another thread

[leigh.bess.toad]

I agree 100%.

 

Don't make me spank you! :) I should have seen that one coming. Damn it!

 

But thanks for the thought -- but do we need a drug test for you too??? :)

[Guest greatness]

I don't think I need drugs to confess your hotness.. Your voice tells anything.. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

Don't make me spank you! :) I should have seen that one coming. Damn it!

 

But thanks for the thought -- but do we need a drug test for you too??? :)

[Decatur Guy]

Y'all made some really good points I had never thought about ... (and the escorts I've hired have all been good w. the follow-up e-mail).

[hunkymuscles]

in my experience, a great escort always sends a letter of thanks to his client after the meeting. I don't need to make it a public thing, but a nice follow up email from the guy I saw always makes me feel as if it was a mutually enjoyable experience.

Though many clients are into many different things, I consider myself very lucky. I rarely have a bad experience with a client, through meeting some of my client's needs I've even had tried things (and enjoyed them) that I normally wouldn't think of doing. After meeting a client I always make it a point to email him to let him know exactly what I enjoyed from our session.

Rex ( San Francisco)

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